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"He's two, you can take him."
-Jordan B. Peterson
Words to live by.
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I used the technique that Peterson described. When my kids decided they would behave, I said. "Great I am glad you are here!" And if they did not come back, after a few minutes, I went to them, that I missed them and I hope they are ready to join soon. One time, one of my kids told me he was not ready to come out. I said OK, I hope you will be ready soon.
The final time out was my child acting up, I told them that they need to go to their room until they are ready to behave and he said, I am ready now. I said OK, that's great! He thought he discovered how not to have timeouts. As result, he immediately starting behaving whenever I gave him the look. This is the transition from timeouts to "the look".
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Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.
Relationship without rules leads to resentment.
Once a while children WILL push the boundaries to explore what their selfish nature can get. But if they do it all the time, you might not have a relationship with your kid to begin with. Most of the children, their love language are quality time and touch and from time to time give them word of affirmation (if you read 7 love language, you know what i'm referring to). To discipline is to love, parents who lack discipline don't love their kids.
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I was watching an old Q and A from Dr. Peterson a number of years ago. Dr. Peterson got in a bind with technology and his son, Julian, came in to help him. The way Dr. Peterson looked up at him with such glowing pride and love and the way Julian patted his Dad gently on the shoulder said everything about their relationship.
Dr. Peterson’s excellent relationship with his daughter Mikhaila is much more public. But for some reason, it was that moment with Julian that touched me deepest.
Whatever the two of them did in raising their children, they did good.
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“I’m holding my tongue and my nose simultaneously, because of all the things that are going on here that I can’t dare to talk about. God that’s a terrible way to live.” Damn JP, you cut deep into my soul here. Thank you for sharing all this knowledge, it has tremendously improved my life during the past few years.
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i love this.
having kids, you learn so much about yourself. it's a hard thing to do to discipline your kids so that they learn some common decency and simultaneously show them that you love them no matter what.
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"Are you ready to have a good day" . Very good way of putting it.
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I learnt this in my life. Now my kids who are still young are showing positive signs of love and respect to each other.
Me and my siblings used to fight like cat and dog and our parents didn't know how to mould and shape us. One of my worst regrets is the way me and my siblings treated each other. I want better for my kids.
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Minimum necessary rules. And rules need to be flexible.
I remember when my oldest son was 13 and he yelled "You don't love me" at me during an argument so I took him outside, waved vaguely at the outside world and said "This is where all the people I don't love live, You're welcome back when you realize that I do love you.? and went inside and closed the door. Took less than 10 minutes.
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I recently graduated from college and I have more time in-between starting my job. I helped my mother around the house and tried to be a good daughter. I noticed that the house is much calmer if my mother has some help around the house. I wanted to help her for a while but school took up a lot of my time and was very stressful on top of that. Its amazing what a feeling of peace in the house will do. I can rest in my soul. Sounds a bit silly but thats what it feels like. It sort of spreads out to everyone in the house. It lifts everyone spirits and makes even the bad moments more bearable.
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One thing my parents did when raising me that seemed to work well was to impose the importance of honesty on me. They made a deal that as long as I told them the truth, they wouldn’t get angry at me. We both held up our ends and I turned out pretty well.
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The last 30 seconds hit me hard. My mother is like this, there was always something wrong and she started fights with my dad all the time.
But we were never allowed to mention what the fight was about or talk about it, she always acted like nothing happened the next day. It broke me in so many ways.
My husbands stepfather was the same. So now when my husband and I disagree we sort out the problem immediately.
Its nice to be in a home where you can relax and talk openly.
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Amen to that 😂 we were loving but very strict parents, obedience and respect was most important. Today my son is 22, has a great job, out of the house, mature beyond his years and we couldn't be more proud. We've raised a wonderful human who is liked by many...job well done 😊🇿🇦
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"-Who are you to disciple the children?
-... ... ... Parents."
🤣🤣
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"He's 2, you can take him" - Jordan Petereson
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This philosophy is spot on. As a young kid I needed less rules. The environment was too restrictive.
Especially the school I was on was really dogmatic and rigid. It killed my creativeness and demonized my search for boundaries and truth.
Didn't know at the time off course. So I rebelled hard against all authorities.
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I'm a solo mum of twin toddlers... It has taken me many years to feel like I've evolved sufficiently to check my own blind spots in order to parent effectively without a co-parent constantly checking on me. I do hope my close friends will do this for me if I ever lose my way, and i still hope to find a co-parent down the track (althought that's a whole other ball-game letting someone else in). In the meantime, my mum has been criticising that I'm too easy going with my boys, that i let too many things go, she's more old-school than i am, wants me to set strict rules for every minutia of pragmatic life, strict times for everything etc. I wanted to do some research on softer vs. more authoritative parenting just incase I'm doing them a misservice by being more lenient, allowing their preferences to alter our schedules, but my gut feeling has been that developing a solid deep loving relationship of loving kindness and respect with my children is my best chance of shaping who they will become, rather than asserting my authority over them when they are too little to fight back... i stumbled on this video and I'm stoked that my concept of parenting is virtually identical to Jordan's. As minimal interference as required for my children to learn how to behave like decent human beings, strong, swift responses when they do misbehave and then immediate and unfaltering love and forgiveness as soon as they are ready to behave again. I put my stronger willed toddler in his cot for time out after giving him a few chances to correct his misbehaviour without my intervention and i tell him to let me know when he's calmed down and is ready to behave properly (let me change his nappy, say sorry to his brother etc) and it's truly a beautiful moment, when he's let out his steam, ridden the wave of his emotions and then lifts his arms up asking for me, and crawls gratefully back into mummy's loving arms knowing that all is forgiven and forgotten. What better way to shape good behaviour than offering all the love in the world when your child has worked through their emotions? If they stay up later ocassionally, or have a bit of screen time when I'm exhausted, I think we'll be right.
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Please clip out more about this subject!! I find it very helpful in strategizing about the future of my 1.5 year old child
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"Good parenting equals working yourself out of a job" - Jack Spirko
The number of rules you have for your children should decline as time goes on, as they've learned to discipline and instill rules upon themselves.
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@kathiemihindukulasuriya1538
11 months ago
I made my kids each other's defense attorneys - if 1 kid got in trouble and the other child defended them, the consequences would be lessened. They learned to see things from the other's point of view, make an argument, and it drew them closer together.
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