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As a kid who came from a highly dysfunctional family, was ignored by mydivorced parents, not properly socialised, went on to become a lonely, friendless kid and then a drug addicted teen & young adult, I totally endorse what Dr J P says here.By the grace of God I was able to turn that all around, but many don't.
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I love playing with my kids. They canât get enough of it it seems. But whatâs crazy to me is that when I play with them with other kids around, I get swarmed. If other kids see me swinging my kids around, or tossing them in the air, or wrestling with them, it doesnât matter if itâs at church, or at a playground, or even in a store, other kids notice and come over, because they want to play too. Other parents are bewildered, because Iâm just a stranger (albeit clearly harmless, because Iâm playing with my own kids) but their kids are just drawn to me and will stand there ready to take their turn - which gets awkward quick, and the kids are always disappointed when I canât play with them. Itâs worse when our friends come over and bring their kids, because since the kids know me, theyâre willing to push my kids out of the way to ensure they get a turn (sometimes ignoring their own parents in the process).
The point being, playing with children is a superpower that more parents need to be aware of
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Best advice I got as a teens is not you should do this or that, but rather âwatch kids around you. What do they do how do they behave and whatâs the outcome. Youâre going to do what youâre going to do. I just want you to observe others to see that itâs what you want. If you watch the drugged out fool long enough youâll realize heâs not cool and heâs got a world of trouble coming. Heâs cool only because you havenât watched him long enough.â
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I agree. My mother vetted all our friends. As an adult, I understood her perfectly now.
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2:05: đĽ The primary responsibility of a parent is to encourage their children to be socially desirable and have high-quality peers.
5:44: đ¤ The optimal marriage is a union of two individuals who complement each other's weaknesses and capitalize on their mutual strengths, creating a coherent unity.
8:35: đ Having a partner who can push optimally against you is important for optimal development.
11:45: đĄ The speaker discusses the importance of teaching children to regulate their anger and avoid temper tantrums.
15:14: đ¨âđ§âđŚ Fathers play a crucial role in helping their children develop through rough and tumble physical play.
18:26: đś Encouraging children to play and befriend dogs can help them develop social skills and become popular.
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My mom would say she had to meet my friends and their parents before I could go anywhere with them. It was embarrassing and annoying but now as adult with my own kids I get it. How they raised me and what they shielded me from helped me to avoid as much trouble as possible. And even though I still make knucklehead decisions and still dealt with fake friends, it helped me to see the real world even better
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"It's rare enough to meet adults that have views." He's being funny here, but there's also a lot of truth to that. Most people just spout off what they hear without really considering alternative perspectives. The majority don't have the time for it and/or are too intellectually lazy to do their due diligence.
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Great answer. This makes me want to play with my kids. Itâs more than just play; itâs purposeful. Makes me wanna be a better dad.
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âTwo fragmentary people form a coherent unityâ I first noticed this when my parents unfortunately got divorced and whenever I would see them after the divorce, in their respective homes, I would think : âOh wow I think theyâre pretty crazy now theyâre alone, when they were together they didnât seem crazy at allâ. Such an interesting point to make. Thank you Jordan.
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I have to rewind like 3 times every sentence he says. Such a well crafted message đ¤đ˝
He shows that speech can take a form of art.
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I am so grateful my son has picked so well with my daughter-in-law. It took her and me a while to become fond of each other, but she's a wonderful mother and brings out the best in my son. What more could I want.
My 2 little granddaughters (7 + 4) are shaping up so well. She doesn't let them get away with bad behaviour, but she also builds them up with praise when they do well. They are not allowed to interrupt when people are talking, but when she talks with them, she won't allow others to interrupt them either. Ect ect ... Those two girls are welcome everywhere.
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Dr. Peterson is really really lucky to have this woman as his wife, because first, they are friends since they were little, and she has been a powerful force besides him for all these years. Behind a great man, there is a powerful woman behind, they say... and I now see how true that this assertion is.Â
I would love to marry a woman like her, who will assist my professional career, and of course, I will be happy to do the same thing for her (supporting her achieving her dreams).
I'm saying this because Dr. Peterson is doing so much for himself and his family as well as for the great good in the world. Thus, having his wife accompanying in his journey him has been so helpful.Â
That's so lovely to see, a wonderful example to follow. What a great couple!
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My dad is a conservative but not a Republican because he doesn't trust the party ( which in my opinion just makes him an unofficial Republican). Anyway, he talked to me and my siblings about all sorts of things even from a young age; history, mythology, philosophy and philosophy grew into politics. By 8 years old I knew stories of great men throughout history who stood up for what was right even when it cost them everything. He told us that at school they were going to say this or that, propaganda and all sorts of mental manipulations to lead me astray into what we now call "Woke" crap. So I never folded in the face of system wide brainwashing they subjected us too. It was a lonely endeavour, few people held a similar view. But I never drank the coolaid.
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"I'm going to answer a slightly different question". I love this self awareness. Can't count how many times I've been in conversation and people answer a different question without even realizing it.
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I donât even âlikeâ my own nephews because they were never disciplined, and were allowed to ruin dinners and social events by acting like tyrants. I noticed that their parents wouldnât get invited to parties because they didnât like those brats either. Now as teens, they have no manners or social skills whatsoever. Whining brats with no friends.
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Iâd have been alot better off if Iâd been much more selective with my friends. Iâm 40, and I see it now. I didnât see it at 15 or 25, even 35, but I see it now. Donât hang out with people at the bottom of the barrel. It just brings you down too.
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Itâs all so true! I always feel so sorry for the kids whoâve clearly been allowed to win at everything, as theyâre totally unprepared for loosing against other kids and have a complete meltdown. Then everyone laughs at them and no one wants to play with them, as theyâre so highly strung and whingy! Playing games with your kids is one of the most important things you can do, to make them sociable, able to take turns, learn patience, learn strategies, counting and most of all, being a âgoodâ looser and congratulate others when âtheyâ win!
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I have raged at my 2-3 year old. And I've never loved anybody or anything more in all my life than I love my son. But he's seen a darker side of me that I quickly had to learn to control. I'm one way I'm glad he's seen it (to clarify I never hurt him, but I did slightly scare him, I could see that in his face and it broke me down so quickly) because he knows it exists. But I had identified a potential problem in my own behaviour that needed to be addressed. I want my child's respect and I intend to earn it over time instead of taking it via totalitarianism. But I'll say again. I'm glad he saw it. His behaviour and our relationship really is starting to flourish. I literally do something similar to the advice given here. The rule is, you have to calm down. And until you do you'll sit next to me in total silence. No music. No TV ect. And as soon as he complies he gets my full attention and a big smile from me followed by a big hug. And yet he has my wife sussed. And she gets very upset with him. She's learning but she's pretty resistant to advice in general. She's very very smart. Much smarter than me. I don't know why I've decided to write a small essay here but meh. I have. If you've made it this far then trust in what this man talks about in regards to psychology. He, absolutely!... Knows his shi..
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It's better not to have friends than to choose the wrong friends. If I had one regret in life as a teen/ young adult, it's that I spent too much time with the wrong people who were detrimental to my mental health and future dreams.
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@psychlops924
1 year ago
One additional thing to add about âselectingâ your kidsâ friends: not only do you want your kids to be good kids so that they attract good kids; more importantly, I would say, is to be the kind of parent that attracts parents with good kids. Live your values, be honest, and become the best version of yourself you can. By doing so, youâll attract similar people, with kids that youâll want your kids to be around.
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