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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Jul 13, 2018 ^^
Rating : 4.97 (472/62,970 LTDR)
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Loved what Bo said about riding a bull while everyone else is an equestrian. That's a perfect way to describe adhd as well. Like you have to try 10 times harder not to fuck something up that most people can do without even trying. Really frustrating and I've felt that way since childhood. And it creates SO much anxiety.
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hearing bo talk about his stomach problems with anxiety really spoke to me. since freshman year, iâve had that. iâm starting college this month and every single day i have stomach aches, nausea and anxiety over the idea of getting sick, throwing up, getting any sort of disease, etc. it felt good to hear someone i look up to, like bo, mention something i also go through.
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I absolutely understand the whole "i didn't know it was anxiety even though it was happening every day." When it's happening to you for as long as you can remember, and it's every day, and everyone is talking about how "nervous" they are at school anyway, why wouldn't you just assume that this is how it is? Everyone has debilitating stomach cramps every day, right? Everyone is having constant digestion problems, everyone is getting tunnel vision, right??
The thing is, you can't even check, because you assume (or maybe even just learn from experience) that if you talk about your literal pain, everyone will assume you're being overdramatic. So you just learn to keep shut, and hope eventually you'll just get...i don't know, better? Better at dealing with it? Cause clearly you're doing it wrong, right?
Took until I was through college, talking to a co-worker at my day job about the daily pain, and he said "yeah, i used to get physical chronic pain. Then I took medication and it helped." Holy shit, right? The point is, fucking talk to people, talk about your pain and be honest, and let them be honest about their own. Won't solve everything, but it'll certainly help. Also, fuck the school system.
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@rachelthornton4442
5 years ago
People are saying that Bo didnât experience a panic attack when he finished a show. Panic attacks arenât always shaking or crying uncontrollably. Some people freeze up, go silent and turn practically catatonic. Some people bury the attack until it comes rolling back later but worse. Some people have good days and bad days, but they still have it. People deal with it in different ways, it doesnât make their feelings any less legitimate.
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