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Genre: Education
Date of upload: Apr 30, 2021 ^^
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My confidence came from something my mother taught me, the same thing that Kobe spoke about before he died. He basically said in an interview "you have to do challenging things as early in your life and as often in your life as possible, because the skill you acquire from it, will build confidence in you. And it becomes even more intense once you receive positive reinforcement from others, about that impressive skill". I've been playing piano since 13 and have delivered countless performances that leave people applauding in tears. this boosted my confidence (and ego) sooo much as a young man lool. *Do challenging things*. I hope this helps. Love you Ali!
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1. confidence is competence. when learning to drive or even ride a bike you are not confident until you get more experience at doing it.
2. mind follows body, body follows mind. if you stand or sit in a more confident manner taking up more space then you will feel more confident.
3.the only validation you need is your own. stop worrying what others are thinking of you, just remember you think you are awesome. instead of making it about you, be curious about others.
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1 Appreciate the value of confidence in different areas of life
2 Confidence is domain-specific - try to remember how you felt in domains where you are confident
3 Fake it until you make it - confident looks the same from the outside in whether real or faked - and faking it will improve your confidence
4 Take baby steps - start slow with easy tasks and work your way up
5 Confidence is something that you can choose to have - working on it just helps to bring this out
6 Appreciate the spotlight effect - nobody cares that much and if they do they're an arsehole - and don't judge others
7 Everyone is friendly but you have to go first - takes the first step and introduce yourself
8 Just practice - ask questions at end of lectures and talks
9 Confidence can be learned
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@Psych2go
3 years ago
Hey Ali, you're amazing and so inspiring! - Monica
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