Views : 416,788
Genre: Entertainment
Date of upload: Jun 19, 2022 ^^
Rating : 4.918 (688/32,694 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-06T20:28:38.32772Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I have a bi friend (ima a straight ally!!!<33🏳️🌈) who developed a crush on this girl who said she was bi, turns out the girl was just saying that to fit and is straight, and my friend's heart got broken. I helped her through it and I'm hoping she's able to recover fully. She's still always my best friend!!!!💙💜💗
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We need to talk about ageism in the LGBT community... seriously. One day we will all be old LGBT's. We need to stop the age-shaming, the youth-worship, the "old = bad" mentality. The sooner, the better.
We owe everything to the LGBT people who came before us. They went through unimaginable hardship for us. Many of them didn't make it. But we need to get rid of the idea that once you turn (a certain age) you are done.
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As a bisexual Native American, I applaud you for including the Two Spirit label
Since Indigenous people are ignored in general
But especially when it comes to these discussions
Also I myself am not particularly attracted to gender or sex as much as feminine and masculine qualities (physically, since I don’t believe that personality traits or anything people do are masculine or feminine)
And I must say I’ve always loved the bi pride colors more than any other
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It truly feels like the lgbtqia+ community tries to divide everyone into factions like the Hunger Games. Like y’all we have to stick up for each other because there are people that are actual threats to our community! Love y’all but it gets so damn exclusionary within our own space sometimes.
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I hope everyone is having a SAFE pride month. If you can't come out it's okay. I was privileged to have some of my family not care/be supportive, but if you are not lucky enough to have that I hope your friends are okay with it... Or at least that you have some sort of support system. If you don't, remember that eventually you will. I promise. I love you, and take care.
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Someone told me that "Being bi is an apple, and pan is an orange. They're too different to be classified the same way"
And to that I have to say "No. Being bi is an orange, and pan is a clementine. Very incredibly similar, but different."
(Also, omni people typically have a preference when it comes to gender. Not quite as "Gender blind" as pan)
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I originally thought I was pan for quite a while but then I learnt about Omni and a lot of the definitions of pan that I personally have seen have said that pan a lot of the times is when the person is “gender blind” and Omni is is when you sometimes have a preference and aren’t “gender blind.” This has helped me a lot actually made me realize that I’m in fact Omni with a preference for non-men! :)
Sorry if I butchered any definitions I’m definitely not the greatest at writing the right words
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As a bi person, I’ve never understood the “gold star bisexual you can only date 2 genders” thing. To me, bi has always meant both sides of the binary and everything in between. It irks me when people tell me I’m pan because I care more about partners’ personality than gender identity, or that I’m any less gay because I’m in a relationship with the opposite sex
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here's my "finding out my sexuality" story:
before I started thinking about being asexual, I've identified as a straight ally. (as a child, I've been presented with only gay, les, bi and other stuff, but never ace or aro.)
once I found out about asexuality, I started to think about LGBTQ things. I started talking with my friend on and on about figuring out if i’m asexual. I kept saying stuff such as "well, i’m only attracted romantically to X crush.." and "I don’t wanna f* people, but idk". eventually I put myself off as questioning for a LONG time.
I was just chilling out, when suddenly jaiden animations posted a new video. it was about her being aroace. this intrigued me, so i started researching. eventually I found out that, yes, i’m ace.
but, I wasn't aroace. I started thinking, and I eventually found panromantic. still, I didn't really fit into the "attracted to anyone regardless of gender". I’m not genderblind.
and then.. omni.
omniromantic just kinda.. fit.
thanks for reading my omniromantic asexual story! sorry if this is kinda boring but might as well share it to the big wide world of the internet.
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Honestly I am jealous of how simple the labels gay and lesbian are. In that sense, I wish that when I personally was figuring out my sexuality, there was only one label being bi/pan/etc because it made me feel more confused and weird and inaccessible to be attracted to all genders. I totally agree with everything you're saying and of course I'm happy that the different labels are helpful for others and respect the history of them... But... Personally, that caused me to be like "aaaaa no labels I'm just queer," instead of accepting that I am attracted to all genders and being able to call it something simple.
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@lu-zp2hz
1 year ago
saw the title and panicked , don’t do that to me bestie
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