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Date of upload: Jan 30, 2024 ^^
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As a gay man, its always been genuinely disturbing to me how normalized toxic relationships between het couples are so agressively normalized in almost every fasset of life. The bickering couple trope on most TV, passive jokes about truly despising the one you're married to/dating, the idea that a man and woman hating each other inevitably leads to a relationship, and ofc every husband or boyfriend who expects to be coddled and praised as if the woman were his mother. I shouldn't feel like I dodged a bullet just by not being straight, standards for het relationships NEED to be higher than they are.
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The ketchup one is insane. If my partner made a mess by accident, of course I'd help clean it up, they wouldn't have to ask.
If I watched my partner take ketchup out of the fridge and look me in the eye as they purposefully squirt it on the counter, then demand that I "clean it up"... Obviously I'm not going to do that, at least not without an explanation as to why they've seemingly lost their mind all of a sudden. I would be alarmed and ask what's this all about? Then if I find out it's a test, I'd probably break up with them because I dont want to be in a relationship with someone who "tests" me by seeing how I react to them acting like an asshole... because acting like an asshole to test someone's loyalty makes you a worse kind of asshole.
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My grandmother told us that" You can't train thoughtful" which as I've grown I've learned to mean that you can't ask people to keep you in their thoughts, so be aware when people are expressing thoughtfulness and do the same in return. I'm going to add that you can't test thoughtfulness either. Be aware of red flags but don't test your partner because you're setting up your relationship into a pass/fail box.
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You should look up the canned pumpkin guy. He was the source of the missing ingredients tests and it was RIDICULOUS. He went to the store to get stuff for thanksgiving or whatever and his wife forgot to put canned pumpkin on their grocery list when he knows she makes pumpkin bars every year, and instead of just grabbing it, he called his wife once, didn't get an answer, then bought everything else and just left the store. And when she called back and told him that, yeah, they do need canned pumpkin, he REFUSED to go back, saying that he was teaching her a lesson.
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Ive heard of the "would you still love me if i was a worm" and the "i want a baby" tests because those were turned into memes that made their way to tumblr, but like i never thought people were taking them seriously and escalating it all to this degree. My dude, your relationship is not a hidden camera reality show.
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tiktok managed to come up with the pomegranate "theory" as well... they insist that, if your partner loves you, they'll take the time to gently get all the seeds out, rinse them, etc. (instead of whacking the pomegranate over a bowl, for example). i saw a video from this girl who, for whatever reason, asked her boyfriend to draw her a pomegranate instead... and apparently she was upset because he drew it with the skin still on. the drawing was genuinely lovely, and if my partner drew me something with that much care i would honestly just start crying.
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My husband has failed the orange peel test a hundred times by now. Instead of peeling an orange, he lets me peel it myself; but then he also washes the dishes every day, and helps me with laundry when I can't get to it, goes grocery shopping and has been such a good, tender dad to our baby. Yeah, he failed the orange peel test but I don't need it to know how he feels about me or how healthy our relationship is.
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Honestly I think the "does he buy pasta/does he call me" is silly. Unless we're having a specific meal that calls for a specific pasta, I just assume I have pasta at the house, because that is almost always true. I do that for myself. If someone sent me to the store with everything for pasta but no pasta on the list, I wouldn't buy it. I would assume you have some. If someone gives you a list of the things they need at the store, I don't think it's incompetent to take their word for it.
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@michielbaird
3 months ago
When my wife delivered our baby, I was really confused by the amount of praise that I received from the hospital staff. I don't think I did anything special, basically just took care of my child while my wife recovered. The bar should not be this low.
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