Views : 62,461
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Apr 15, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.993 (7/3,958 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-06T02:17:48.176636Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I’ve had low self-esteem and low self-efficacy ever since I can remember. I’ve never been top of the class, strongest performing employee etc. But I’ve realized in terms of achievement, I’m on par with most people out there. I went to college and graduate school, have been employed since high school and have a family. It is because of perfectionism and a lack of external validation that I constantly feel like I’m not meeting expectations. I tell myself I’m only good if I exceed expectations, but never feel like I do. Now that I’ve got some awareness over this. I’d like to finally start feeling good about myself. Just need to undo 3 decades worth of negative self-talk.
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Timestamps
1). Find the source 0:36
2). Accept who you are 1:33
3). Acknowledge your strengths and weakness 2:06
4). Rewrite your story 2:48
5). Be your own hero 3:35
6). Challenge yourself 4:24
7). Build a support system 5:27
8). Practice self-love 6:17
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙
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Lately i've been feeling bad about myself, i feel like im not enough and consider myself a failure
Today was my birthday and it just was a
reminder of how much i suck, even though my family supports me but i still empty inside, i dont even have friends, well, i had but eventually they lost interest in me. I think i just need some time to recover and gain some self steem which i really need.
Thank u!
(Voice is really relaxing btw)
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I’ve had low self esteem for as long as I can remember. When I was about like 7 years old, I remember having a breakdown in my house and kept telling myself that I’m a failure and I wish I was never born. I tried locking myself in my room for a week (didn’t work out), and when I was like 10 I would think about hurting myself often. All my life I had done what people told me to, let people invade my boundaries, etc. Now I get no sleep, I don’t eat, and I don’t take care of myself in general until I saw this video. Thank you so much Psych2Go, ❤ your videos always help out so much. And to everyone else, stay healthy and love yourself!
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I don't suffer from this condition, but I do have psychological and emotional challenges that are too perplexing and challenging to get into, but your channel does help a lot, and I'm thankful and grateful for that!
My hero is any person that is compassionate, caring, giving, empathetic among many other attributes! Those people inspire me and give me hope that the best is yet to come! Have a great one!
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Incredible video @Psych2go! Despite how much I've grown, there's still so much more I can do to improve and build my self esteem. I've also realized that I still have a long way to go in gaining more confidence. In this video I really appreciated how you brought up that acknowledging events from our past can be beneficial for ourselves in moving forward. Additionally, you made a great point in how we need to acknowledge our strengths and weaknesses in order to appreciate how we are.
Also a bit of a side note here, but having the phrase "you matter" at the end of some of your videos speaks volumes and truly does mean the world to everyone who watches them. So, I just wanted to once again say, thank you @Psych2go!
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The most important way to improve self esteem is to develop your own skills and abilities. Work hard to get better at something. Study harder and get better grades. Do a great job at work. Learn a new job skill. Get better at a musical instrument or artistic skill. Develop an athletic skill or lose weight through diet and exercise. Just work on yourself and get better. Avoid time-sucks on the internet. If you become more valuable to others, you will recognize your own worth.
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@Gzmn4leks7418
2 weeks ago
Literally came out when I most needed it ❤ thanks❤
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