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7 Deadly Romance MISTAKES Writers Make ❌ avoid these chemistry killers!
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Are you struggling to write romantic chemistry that feels believable and realistic and makes your readers fall head over heels in love? Do you feel like your characters are missing that magic spark that makes them insanely shippable? In this video, I’m revealing the top 7 deadly mistakes that will instantly kill the romantic tension between your characters. So if you're guilty of committing any of these chemistry crimes... STOP IT RIGHT NOW.

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00:00 Do your characters have good chemistry?
02:08 They don't have enough alone time together
03:55 They fall in love too quickly
06:03 They tease each other about other love interests
07:46 They never touch
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10:44 They get sick of each other after a while
11:58 They don't challenge each other's weaknesses
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@racheltheradiant4675

2 weeks ago

The worst romantic tension killer for me is when the MC goes on and on about how hot the Love Interest is. Like sure, he's hot, but what other good qualities does he have?

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@nicollivaneli

2 weeks ago

1- Never or rarely have time alone together 3- They fall in love to quickly 3- Tease each other about other potencial love interest 4- They never touch 5- They get sick of each other after a while 6- They don’t challengers each other faults and weaknesses 7- They have romantic chemistry with other’s characters

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@TheMessCalledJess

2 weeks ago

Hot take: being sick of each other is completely normal and can actually strengthen a relationship. It provides another hurdle to move past. I did not immediately love everything about how my husband lived his life and there were times where little stuff he did made me upset or annoyed. And vice versa, spend TOO long with someone and you eventually find SOMETHING you don’t agree or like about one another. BUT you can absolutely use this as a plot device and strengthen their bond by having them fight and then compromise, just like what happens in real life. Real love takes WORK and gets easier with time. Been with him 9 years now and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, and he is my muse ❤

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@emtboyd

2 weeks ago

One thing that kills romance for me is when they fall madly in love and have nothing in common. Theres absolutely no reason why they should fall in love yet they are suddenly in love. There has to be a connection between the two people in order for their romance to withstand the stories conflict. Another thing that kills me is when one character does something truly messed up to the other character and it’s forgiven in the end because they are SO in love. That’s an instant killer for me

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@KGBeast.

2 weeks ago

The worst mistake for me in writing romantic chemistry is sacrificing authenticity for the sake of plot convenience or adhering to romantic tropes without adding depth or originality to the relationship

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@SomeUniqueHandle

1 week ago

"When they tease ease other about other love interests" - that can set up a fun twist. Character A is convinced that B couldn't possibly love them so A tries to set them up with C because C is "far more worthy" of B. B mistakes the attempted matchmaking as A being disinterested and tries to settle for C despite loving A.

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@rokusashu7441

1 week ago

What kills the romantic ship for me is usually when one person does most of the work in the relationship when the other simply doesn't invest as much thoughts or just stupid and never grows. I think it just won't work when two people develops at different pace, most of the time I started rooting for the one with most growth to move on and find better pair/be alone.

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@user-eb4ix1qi1y

2 weeks ago

In Chinese Historical Fantasy novels, there is a deliberate thing, called Second Male Lead Syndrome. It's on purpose. It's when the secondary male is so good with the Female Lead, that you wish they would ditch the actual Male Lead for the secondary. If you ever want to rant about a girl being with the wrong guy, read the Chinese novel Chaos of Beauty. I swear it was those interactions with the Secondary ML that kept me turning the pages. I hated, and still hate the Male Lead. However, I will say if you write a better love interest you only have two ways to go, messy divorce to be with the other person, or terrible tragedy. So, while I agree with most of the advice, sometimes that secondary character being better has plot potential. At the very least if you break your reader's hearts and crush their 'ship' they will remember your novel for years to come.

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@TiaLove28

2 weeks ago

Abbie your candles near your books are STRESSIN' ME OUT haha

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@missedthebandwagon976

2 weeks ago

Fullmetal Alchemist has possibly the most impressive romances I have seen. Because I am a shipper, I am a navy captain over my fleet of ships. But FMA makes me root for every single one of the canon ships, and I don't root for any other ship. I usually think the love interest is more interesting with one of the side characters, but FMA just manages it, I don't know how.

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@somebody3965

1 week ago

My thing is when a character DELIBERATELY destroys something/someone the other character loves just to see them suffer. Maybe it's bc I hold grudges, but it's just sickening to me. Not only is it insanely hard to redeem that character later on, but it's hard to see the two together without viewing the scene under a veil of toxicity. If it's on accident? Yes. Give me all the angst.

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@Nobody-sh4pu

2 weeks ago

Mako and Raleigh from Pacific Rim is a very good example of building chemistry right, and they didn't even end up together

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@Xandycane

2 weeks ago

6 hits hard. I read a book that the two characters were flawed, but in no way able to help each other get better. Their personalities just clashed. I DNF'd it because being together literally made their flaws worse. This was a romance, so it wasn't a purposeful thing.

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@evelynjoy4466

2 weeks ago

This makes me feel so much better about my WIP, I'm not doing any of these for my main couple. Phew!

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@madelynmohr6872

2 weeks ago

I can’t tell you how many times I either hated or DNFed a book because of insta love or they got too close to quickly ❤

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@Exayevie

2 weeks ago

Interesting - I could actually see "rarely or never alone together" as a great builder of romantic tension, if it has a clear, compelling reason, and is used as an obstacle they must overcome. I can't help but think of Nora in Pete's Dragon, who managed to have a deeply compelling romance even as the only part of the couple that had any screen time at all lol. Or Maid Marian and Robin Hood in that old Disney adaptation. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," in the words of Lady Kluck :P

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@robertturley3373

4 days ago

Excellent film choices for examples. Take a look at "Six Days, Seven Nights," ...and add another winner of an example .

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@TheASMRCottage_

2 weeks ago

Abbey sort of looks like Elizabeth Bennet, is that just me? Great video as always!!! 💚✨

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@ivystead

2 weeks ago

OH NO. This video made me REALLY stressed about my two main characters! They don't constantly have alone time, but when they do, they touch each other and get productive in their relationship's chemistry. However, I'm realizing that they liked each other as soon as they met (not love at first sight though) because FMC saved MMC. The latter lacking self-confidence and trusted friends, he immediately gets attached to FMC in a sort of pathetic way (because he quickly becomes enamored with those who show support to him), but then, he slowly learns more about her and gets genuinely attached to her in a loving way. Is this interesting if two characters like each other from the start? Like, the opposite of enemies-to-lovers?

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@Espeeeon

2 weeks ago

My 'Notify me' button is broken! fun right? Can someone reply to this comment when it premieres? Thank you in advance! Edit: ty all who tried to remind me I ended up sleeping through it 😅

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