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Genre: Music
Date of upload: Aug 23, 2017 ^^
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I know most people relate to this song with reference to an external abuser or physical/mental/emotional trauma they received from a relationship, but this song makes me think about my own relationship with myself.
I hate what my past self has done to present self, but I miss my past self so much. My mind's always noisy and there's no words to drown it out. I'm sorry to myself, how I've made me this way.
I tear up everytime I hear this song.
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"there are no words in the english language, i could scream to drown you out." this line reminds me of my mom, it's like there's nothing i could say to her that would get through to her. there's nothing i could possibly say to make her stop being the way she is. it's a heartbreaking line honestly.
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âi hate you for what you did, and i miss you like a little kidâ this line hits different when i apply this song to my own life and relationship with my parents. itâs like, i know that some of the things they did wasnât right and i want to hate them for that so bad, but at the same time thereâs a part of me that knows that i came never hate them because theyâre my parents after all. and yeah, it wasnât really anything physical (mainly emotional/mental), and they went through stuff like that at the hands of their own parents when they were children, but i was a child too. itâs just such a frustrating feeling.
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So many feelings in this song. Yes, sheâs condemning him, but sheâs also openly admitting to maybe somewhat missing him, thanking him for what little support he did give âyou gave me $1500/I was hoping you would let it slide, you didâ. She also looks back at his anger âthrowing rocks around your roomâ and hoping the scars donât make her possibly relapse âtrying to stay clean and live withoutâ. All in all, itâs an incredibly mature set of lyrics for such a young artist. I walked away from this song feeling many thingsâŚmost of it her heartbreak and relief he is gone.
A seminal song. This one will stick with me for life.
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Those first lines, "I hate you for what you did, and I miss you like a little kid" made me burst into tears the first time I heard them because it finally put into words my complex feelings toward my abuser.
Over 70% of assaults against women are committed by a known person. So while one might think it makes sense for a women to hate their abuser and have no positive feelings attached to them, that's rarely the case. A lot of women feel guilt over that because you should hate the person who hurt you, right? But what if that person was your support system, made happy memories with you, etc? It's incredibly confusing and upsetting..
What I'm trying to say is, thank you Phoebe Bridgers for giving women like us a voice.
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@cynthiaaaxox
2 years ago
âi hate you for what you did, and i miss you like a little kidâ the most devastating opening line ever.
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