Views : 1,175,857
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Jul 2, 2021 ^^
Rating : 4.946 (472/34,662 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2022-01-22T23:54:53.896984Z
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I think their real goal is to make you an emotional wreck. It's exhausting not to be right about anything. Just the effort you put in defending the truth is completely draining. They have you doing this over and over. It starts out small, then it escalates. It's all about convincing you that you are once again mistaken.
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Step 1: Know your own value.
Step 2: Realise that the person you thought that you were dating... is a figment of your imagination.
Step 3: Realise that you cannot fix them or change them.
Step 4: Walk away, AND NEVER LOOK BACK.
Step 5: Learn from the experience, including "red flags" that you missed early on (so that you don't make the same mistake by dating another gaslighter).
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This video is actually bringing up a lot of stress and anxiety right now with the constant crap i have to deal with on a daily basis. And I love the sayings "Get over yourself" or "Just leave". My responses "If I could I would" or "Don't you think I would've if I could". It's not always a choice; it's either deal with it or live in your car. And then you have those fun, seemingly, random mental breakdowns.
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Yes, it's very difficult to know especially when it's the immediate family member you grew up with. In that case a child growing up has no idea what a healthy relationship should be or even look like. Unfortunately it takes much longer, even into middle age to realize you were brought up without any idea of what a healthy relationship looks like.
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@kosiekoos9408
1 year ago
Speaking the truth is an ‘insult’ to those who lie
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