@heyy9691

1 year ago

Everyone be asking me “how can I be as confident as you ?” & “how do you not care about what people say about you” or “you’re literally a model & an icon” it’s just the way I was born & raised in. My advice to them is to make it a habit to know what is worth caring about & ask yourself why is it that you want to be confident so much ? what will you do when you have developed confidence ?. For example, if people are talking bad about you & just hating on you. Firstly, why should you care about them ? In the end, you’re on your own. You do not need to care about what they think so that you can feel like you’re validated. If you keep looking at a mirror & keep telling yourself that you’re ugly. Your brain will change it’s mentality to think that you are ugly. If you change that & say oh I’m just so pretty in every mirror that you see to check yourself out even if some may not agree that you’re beautiful, should you change yourself just so you can “please” their satisfaction ? No, definitely not. Be authentic & most importantly, be you. That’s how you be confident & not give a damn about what haters think about you. Hype yourself up always. You’re unique so stick to that. Don’t go & try to fit in. There’s 8 billion people on this planet & you’re telling me you don’t wanna be different ? to standout ? just so you can fit in ? honey, let me remind you again, that’s not how it works. You’re confident, just act like it even if you don’t feel like you are, just remember there are people out there who are dying to be you ! p.s have a great day ❤️

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