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We've all made mistakes, but it's never too late to turn things around – press play and let's expose the major texting mistakes that may be keeping you single.
#relationship #dating #love #textingtips
Writer: Clarisse Delos Reyes
Editor: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (youtube.com/amandasilvera )
Animator: Krisha @MacchiusMoriatoStudios07
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Hall, E. D. (2021). The role of communication technologies in relationship maintenance during the transition to college. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 38(1), 3-26. doi: 10.1177/0265407520964298
Finkel, E. J. (2020). The all-or-nothing marriage: How the best marriages work. Penguin.
Turkle, S. (2015). Reclaiming conversation: The power of talk in a digital age. Penguin Books.
Views : 222,077
Genre: Education
Date of upload: Jan 8, 2024 ^^
Rating : 4.974 (111/16,755 LTDR)
RYD date created : 2024-05-14T21:20:06.205419Z
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YouTube Comments - 694 Comments
Top Comments of this video!! :3
First time I ever got actually pretty unhappy at my friend was through text.. and it was today. It's insane how timely this video was for me lol.
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1:20 Don’t worry about spam texting. Some people like it some don’t. It’s about finding the right person for you that will love all/most parts of you.
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"How to text first that isn't just "hey" or "hi"?"
- an overthinker
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Honestly, at this point, receiving any kind of message from a friend is enough for me, just knowing that they care about me is more than enough to make me happy.
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Another red flag is when you text but don't respond for ages and its dry or they may seem interested but then not text you back for a day or 2. Inconsistencies equals unavailability
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Just don‘t text too much in the beginning when getting to know someone. Meet in person, pick up the phone. Learn how they see things and what kind of humour they have by their immediate reactions. Irony is often a trap while texting in case you don‘t know if the person at the other end knows that you are just kidding. Been on both sides - sending and receiving - and it just causes too much trouble at the beginning.
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As someone who is adhd and autistic, I find that I really struggle with all of these, especially misinterpreting messages for those exact reasons, tone is a big one for me. So I wanted to thank you so much for this video, I finally worked up the courage to ask for someone’s number and I really hope that it goes well, and this really helped my better understand what I need to work on!
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As someone who has autism and really bad anxiety, this really hits the nail on the head as it’s been a frequent issue for me. However, I have been trying really hard to not make these mistakes yet it still remains a struggle for me. I think now that I’m more hesitant to talk to people because of all this.
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Texting scares me, more than any other social interaction. I’m pretty extroverted and have no troubles talking to people, one on one, but I’m always super anxious about texting. I think it’s because I can’t see them, and read their body language or know if I’m being a bother and they need to leave and go do something else.
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Also make sure your texts are comprehensible. If youre someone who uses voice to text frequently and you never go back to make sure what you said makes sense before you send it, no ones gonna want to continue a conversation where they have to keep asking what you're trying to say.
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Conversations are not meant to be held over text; the richness of verbal communication, with its tones and expressions, is better experienced through phone calls.
I've observed a shift in how people engage in conversations; it seems to lean towards small talk when boredom strikes, eventually resorting to the ease of texting due to its lower effort requirement.
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My problem is that I don't text enough. Texting was after my time, like texting was still difficult on flip phones when I was 19. Luckily after spending time with a person I can quickly get past generic or boring responses probably within the first 2 or 3 days. Got past my days of making assumptions or misinterpreting texts. After a certain point you just get over it and realize your friendship or relationship with that person will never go anywhere with that mindset. Seems like most dating is done through apps these days and I am still a little nervous about it. At least use a VPN before using dating apps, never hurts to take extra steps to be safe.
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As someone who has a crush on an introvert, when i text someone or message someone I usually wait for them to respond or give them a week to respond. Overanalyzing texts is something I tend to do but i usually just try to fill my time with something else until they respond.
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The problem is everyones trying to get with people that are uninterested in them. Then it becomes an uphill struggle to make them like you.
The truth is we can't control the thoughts of others, or it is at least very very difficult
Get on a dating app and only reply to people who liked you first. That's what's worked for me
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I feel like anytime I’m going through an issue, one of your videos show up out of the blue and basically say “hey I’m here! Watching this will help!”. Thanks guys
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I am older person so I dont text however this happens in e mail conversations too. Thank you and wishing you all a great 2024. and beyond! Blessings from Canada 😎🍁🙏🏻
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As someone with texting issues, I should probably watch this! 🙈
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@drunkestdriver
4 months ago
You targeted the right audience😭
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