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Date of upload: Nov 29, 2022 ^^
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My mother started screaming once again on the phone after I told her about how her behavior and words have hurt me. Then she hung up as always. Not able or willing to listen at all. And as always, after a couple of days or weeks,she talks like nothing has happened and EVEN tells me that I was disrespectful and that I was screaming to her. I didn't even raise my voice. As always. She really seems to believe what she's saying herself. She still even makes me doubt what actually happened . Completely twists the reality.
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28:30 “failure, being a loser” are the exact words I use to describe narcissistic breakdown, or lashing out 😂
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This reminds me of a British classic movie The Loneliness of the Long-distance Runner, in which a motivational teacher tries to create a team of runners at a youth correctional facility. They get so good he puts them into a race and the best one, just about to win, stops before the finishing line with a sardonic grin at his teacher, and allows himself to lose, hands victory to a privileged child. Failure is so comfortable, he cannot allow himself to win, it would destroy him.
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Another gem of a video. 💎 I have wracked my brain trying to understand his lack of understanding what cause and effect is along with other topics covered in this video. Only after being educated by Professor Vaknin, did I finally come to terms with these questions and that brought me peace of mind.
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Yeah like the woman I met, she had all the red flags for a covert or vulnerable narcissist, she gave me her CV to put it on online platforms to apply for her for jobs, as I met her in a hostel in Portugal, I was there a few weeks before starting to working and moving into the shared apartment. This woman said she would be a lawyer and she might be in Brazil, but not fully recognized in Portgual where you have to make a kind of exam if you want to work for big companies or the government, specially the government, well when I googled her name I found like 35 rejections because she never had made that exam but in her CV it was written? Do Narcissists not think that somebody checks this? To me, she told a poor victim story about why she and her 9 year old daughter is living on social support and getting placed in hostels and governmental institutions...she was married 2 once to a very rich guy from Brazil, guess the second one was rich too and they all might have made marriage contracts...its fascinating how her life from pike time 30s went down to her 44 now living homeless and jobless, as I could see the pictures of her on facebook...and fault are only others....but not her drinking more beer than me or smoking weed, as I played a lot with her little daughter that was bored there....she told me later once they needed to help her mother taking shower as she had pissed herself....
she complained about the food even it was free, her little dog pissed inside the hostel and she had to clean it and she made a scene...she took clothes which were there donated for the poor..so I assumed she would be poor...which made her a little angry XD it was funny, I made inside my head a checklist for narcissistic traits or signs and she scored very high.
Is it normal for that kind of women to control you during sex, like they give you oral sex but don't want it, to be in full control? The sex was very strange never had that before, it was a staged show from a porn script, that she squirted did not surprise me as she had drunk before 1,5 liter beer alone...
The funny thing is she reminded me a lot to my mother, I have a problem with those women with victim stories and so sad lives...but luckily I get better in detecting them....I do not want to end like my father!!! I do not want to be anymore the savior XD I want to be saved XD
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@soloecho3074
1 year ago
I understand now. The Narcissist is not testing his perceptions against External Reality (reality testing) to check whether his perceptions are true. Rather, the Narcissist is testing his perceptions against his Internal Fantasy Construct AND rejecting any external reality that doesn’t align with his Internal Fantasy Construct.
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