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0:00 INTRODUCTION
0:59 ASEXUALITY IS A DISORDER
2:39 ASEXUAL PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TO COME OUT
4:22 ASEXUALS DON'T DATE
5:37 ASEXUAL PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO BE ROMANTIC
8:21 ASEXUAL PEOPLE ARE REPULSED BY SEX
12:08 ASEXUALS HAVEN'T MET THE RIGHT PERSON
13:17 PEOPLE ARE ASEXUAL BECAUSE OF TRAUMA
15:57 ASEXUALS ARE TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND THEIR SEXUALITY
18:32 ASEXUALS CAN ONLY DATE ASEXUALS
19:43 ASEXUALS AREN'T QUEER
20:48 ONLY WOMEN ARE ASEXUAL
21:45 WHAT WE WISH WE KNEW BEFORE COMING OUT
23:00 ACE REPRESENTATION IN MEDIA
25:04 ASEXUALS AREN'T SEXY
26:14 ASEXUALS ARE COLD AND EMOT
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Genre: Education
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
I think something a lot of people don’t understand, aromantic is not the same as asexual. You can have a deep and personal relationship with someone just the same and not have sex
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Conservatives: " People have become way too open about their sex Lives"
Asexuals: Don't have a Sex Life
Conservatives: 😡😡😡😡😡😡
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This is good and interesting would love a part 2 focused on asexual men
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It's sad that a lot of people will just ignore other people's feelings because they can't comprehend them.
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As an aroace (aromantic and asexual) guy, there's definitely this immense cultural pressure placed on us to be sexual all the time, which feels like the equivalent of someone trying to shove food down your throat when you're not hungry.
I'm super happy to see more ace content on this channel and hope that it can clear up some of the misconceptions people have about us.
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Should've had an asexual man included. There's a stereotype that it's purely a woman thing because men like sex and women like romance so women opting out of sex completely isn't surprising.
I don't agree with the stereotype but it would have been important to combat with a male presence. I'm not asexual but I am on the aromantic spectrum (aka sex yes please, friendship is great, romance is cringe) and we're the opposite. Focusing on sex is considered a male trait but I'm a proud arospec woman.
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5:11 "if you take the sexual part out, that's what a friendship is" was a very hurtful statement to me as an asexual (who isnt aromantic!) i feel like that's a bit of their internalized acephobia, if you take the sexual attraction out of a relationship, that's not just friends, they're still dating. Romantic attraction exists. And relationships don't need to involve sex! At all!
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Alice Oseman (creator of "Heartstopper") is also asexual and aromantic. One of the characters, Isaac, is aromantic and asexual. In the comics, Tori also comes out as asexual
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i find it so strange how people don’t think we exist. the thought that asexuality isn’t even real never even occurred to me as something that people believed
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After watching this video, I think I might be on the asexual spectrum. I've been married to my husband for almost 11 1/2 years, we've been together almost 20 years and have an 8 year old son. While we do have sex and I enjoy it for the most part (while it's happening), I've never once craved sex nor do I miss it when I'm not engaging in it. I have always found men physically attractive and have had crushes on boys/men growing up, but never in a sexual way. I've never looked into asexuality much before this, because I pretty much never looked into it and had most of the same assumptions as those presented in this video. If anyone has advice on the matter , it'd be greatly appreciated as this is literally the first time that I've even considered this being a thing with me.
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I am aromantic and asexual, but I love my platonic relationships. I would absolutely live with one of my best friends, adopt a child and take care of them with my best friend. I think that's so cute, so fun, and I think it would be a very healthy atmosphere for a child to be raised in. I believe in long lasting friendships more than long lasting romantic relationships.
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Anthony, I realized I was ace because of your "I Spent a Day with Asexuals" video, and it's been an incredible nearly 4 years of personal discovery because of that. Thank you for that video, and thank you for bringing everyone back for this video! ❤
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the sexual spectrum is huuuuge, as well as the asexuality spectrum within that! ❤
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like yes it is real, some people just cant comprehend it cause sex is everywhere in the media and they themselves are also obsessed with it 💀 so the idea that some people don’t feel that attraction is incomprehensible to them
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I was jealous of my friend who identified as Asexual because she was stereotypically not into ANYTHING but like, puzzles. That made me feel like if I wasn't like her, I was "faking" asexuality. But then one day I realized, it was as simple as just saying I was asexual. There was no specific way I NEEDED to act. I was interested in having close friendships and watching romantic media, but I only wanted the friendships for myself. And that was enough.
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I am aroace and I think it is always so funny to hear other aroaces explain allo attraction to eachother, because we all dont know how it feels
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On the intimacy thing. People find it confusing that when they might look at someone pretty and think, “I want to have sex with them.” I might look at them and think, “I want to cuddle up on the sofa with them and snuggle under a blanket whilst watching Doctor Who.”
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The ace community is still so overlooked even by other LGBTQ people. I came out to two of my friends a couple years ago, one of whom is bisexual, and they both laughed and said "That's weird". My parents constantly deny my asexuality as well and tell me I'm too young to know even though I'm literally an adult and my peers have sex all the time. They think it's a phase I'm going to grow out of. I say all of this not because I need pity but to emphasize how important accurate representation is to our community. I really appreciate all the work you do to shed light on overlooked and misunderstood communities like ace/aro people, Anthony. <3
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I've know I was Ace for a long time, but I'm super romance driven, so for the longest time hearing those "you just haven't found the right person" comments really hurt, and I just felt like I was all wrong. I've always been attracted to people, just not sexually. I'm so glad that my bestie discovered asexuality and taught me about it cause I would have been in a very much darker place without the understanding of myself.
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