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The Danger of Over-Valuing “Connection” in Early Dating
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76,529 Views • Jul 2, 2024 • Click to toggle off description
When we meet someone we really like, we can easily fall into the trap of idealizing them based on the CONNECTION we feel in those first few dates.

But there’s a danger to that: We don’t actually know the person in front of us at that stage. The idea we have created of them exists only in our heads and may not reflect who they really are at all.

By over-fetishizing the connection we feel for them, we can end up wasting an enormous amount of time on someone who ultimately isn’t able to meet our needs and make us happy in the long term.

Have you ever done this? Tell me about it in the comments.

#Shorts #MatthewHussey #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice
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69 Comments

Top Comments of this video!! :3

@wejoin

4 months ago

Was me …idealizing that we had more than we had!

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@elizabethkirby9463

4 months ago

You have to really LOOK at how they handle conflicts & disagreements. However BAD that is, it probably DOES get worse. Yeah.

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@Msheather19771

4 months ago

"Making space" for you is key! Anybody can find out information about you and then use it against you in the future. Just make sure that they actually hold space for you!

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@andreacifuentes1363

4 months ago

Run from the “I LOVE you”, “the love of my LIFE”… in the first week, even month.

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@jainy1707

4 months ago

This is soo true and such valuable insight.

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@christinagracewhite

4 months ago

My new guy is ENTJ and I am INTJ. Our chemistry is off the charts but we also feel like we’ve known each other for longer than the 5 weeks we have.
We’re both aware of how fast things are moving but we’re also having deep probing conversations about ourselves and each other to try to establish early on whether we’re a soul match and not just a physical match

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@4787fhjjk

4 months ago

I just finished hanging out with this guy for a few days. He totally idealized me in the end. It was a huge turnoff. He doesn’t even know me.

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@HJBR86

4 months ago

I’ve done this way too many times

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@richardcooke1153

4 months ago

This is so true. They’re are connection addicts out there.

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@JoAnnCorley

4 months ago

I have learned hyped connection is really the brain chemicals

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@Back_To_Basics

4 months ago

I guess when things are new, the less we know about someone the more excited we get when there’s a good connection. It’s hard to be rational thanks to the love hormones that blocking our sensibilities in this early stages.

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@ella1682

1 month ago

Just had an experience of a guy who told me I have everything he needs in a woman ON THE FIRST DATE...!!😂🚩

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@noremac0123456789

4 months ago

Just came from a different content provider saying that “if you’re interested in a guy you should have sex with him on the first date”. So, this is quite refreshing.

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@cathydoten5532

4 months ago

Great speaker, accent welcoming to ear

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@rosacentifollia

4 months ago

Aka Delulu 😂

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@cathydoten5532

4 months ago

Very good topic

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@violetmartha916

4 months ago

I don't see what our cracks have to do with it. 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I'm sorry I couldn't re

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@naomiharrison1701

2 weeks ago

Ooooph, this one hit home 😬

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@jaka749

4 months ago

jeez so many analyses... soon we ll have to learn some math formulas to be in relationship. does anyone fall in love spontaneiously any more?

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