PokeVideoPlayer v23.9-app.js-020924_
0143ab93_videojs8_1563605_YT_2d24ba15 licensed under gpl3-or-later
Views : 32,957
Genre: People & Blogs
License: Standard YouTube License
Uploaded At Nov 5, 2024 ^^
warning: returnyoutubedislikes may not be accurate, this is just an estiment ehe :3
Rating : 4.893 (28/1,015 LTDR)
97.32% of the users lieked the video!!
2.68% of the users dislieked the video!!
User score: 95.98- Overwhelmingly Positive
RYD date created : 2024-11-16T14:30:07.865902Z
See in json
Top Comments of this video!! :3
I think it's difficult because women have been told for decades that men are the "patriarchy" and that the patriarchy is evil. No one wants to discuss how many women abuse the system to get what they want. As a woman, I think it's outrageous how some women treat men as if the men don't matter. If they were honest, they'd admit that men have been the ones who have kept the lights on by working on oil rigs, for example, and doing all of the jobs most women would never do. Men literally keep the country running. I appreciate men and I think of them as human beings and vital to society. I hate seeing good men being treated as less than.
54 |
I'm a woman who advocated for men during a class going over how poorly women are displayed in movies. I argued men are also displayed in movies incorrectly. In fact, having the class we had was a slap in the face for men. I dont ass classes against women. They were putting men down IN the class! Everyone disagreed with me! Mostly men! đ Hating men doesn't help women! You can't hate an entire sex and expect help. We need to be allies, not enemies. If I was harassed in an alleyway, you're damn right I want a man jumping in and saving me
4 |
Don't advocate for any group. Advocate for all the groups. Another way of saying this is to prioritize your identity as a human above all other subgroups. Encourage mutual empathy between various culture divides, rather than one side alone. So long as people blame and shame each other, nothing will be fixed, because the blame and shame creates self-defense mechanisms that come at the expense of the other group. Victims become perpetrators, only to become victims again, ad infinitum. This is a mindset that some are not ready to embody, and that's fine, but it is worth keeping in the back of your mind.
|
I think itâs hard because men never needed advocating before in the first place. Advocating for men is a completely new concept that our society is struggling to realize and adapt to. Throughout history men have always had the same role. The protector, the provider, the leader, the strong ones, the tough ones, the superior ones. Men have had that role for all of history and itâs not until this past century where we are seeing the role of men slowly diminishing. Testosterone levels are getting lower, tasks and jobs are getting easier, places are getting safer and people are becoming more independent. The role of a man isnât as necessary as it was thousand of years ago because of how easy and safe it is to live in todayâs world. Men arenât as easily able to play their biological role and are struggling with feeling useful and important. In addition, technology and the internet really have made life harder for men is certain aspects. Men have always been part of tribes, clans, villages, communities, neighborhoods, towns, and small knit groups. This allowed them to be useful to their people and communities. This allowed them to play their role and be of use. Now days with the internet, people donât have these close knit communities anymore. People are able to pretty much do anything by themselves nowadays and I feel like men are finding it harder to feel useful and important. Also with social media now, women have it easier to find the best looking guys instead of the guy they grew up with down the street. Men are starting to feel these burdens and are starting to feel the stresses of having to be the absolute best instead of just being themselves. Itâs definitely a new era that men are having to deal with and with things being so easy and so accessible, I think that men are starting to struggle with this. Itâs definitely easier to be a woman nowadays then it has ever been through out history and women are starting to be able to take care of themselves and not need men to protect them or provide for them anymore. Itâs not a bad thing, but itâs definitely something that us as biological men need to adapt to. Iâm not trying to be sexist, but biological men and women have always had their own separate roles. Now that everything is so easy, woman are able to fill the role of a man and men arenât as important as they once were. In the end itâs up to us men to pick each other up and to help each other adapt to this era. Men need to start realizing the importance of our mental wellbeing, because honestly I feel like most men nowadays have struggled sometime in their life. Itâs our responsibility to adapt to this and start to take care of our own because in reality we were the ones that made things easier in the first place. We were the ones that invented and built all of this shit that has made our role as men obsolete. We made all of this stuff to make our lives easier when in reality all it did was make us nearly obsolete. So itâs time for us to realize this now and adapt to this new era that we as men have created. I hope this makes sense to you guys, or at least I hope you guys kinda understand what Iâm trying to get at.
Also, if you really think about it, science is what really fucked us over. Science is what made our lives way too fucking easy and our roles nearly obsolete with all these inventions and shit these past 100 years. Itâs also made our food extremely fucking unhealthy and definitely has played into our diminished testosterone and health. Itâs cool and all and fancy, but come on, we played ourselves men. We built this world for us, but in return destroyed man. Now itâs time for us men to adapt and rebuild ourselves mentally and physically. Thatâs why we watch this guy.đ
|
@redfatherfigure
2 weeks ago
I wonât forget the time I was reprimanded for a co-worker of mine sharing an abuse story. When I showed empathy and mentioned I had gone through something similar, my female boss reported me to HR for making âanti-womenâ comments. I had been speaking specifically about my ex-wife, who had threatened me with a knife during an abusive outburst that turned violent.
Itâs not enough that we are assumed to be perpetrators. We are also punished for being victims.
I was able to remarry a remarkable woman and have beautiful children. Iâm luckier than many who get stuck on the unfairness and can no longer build relationships of trust. You just have to be picky and set proper standards.
The real unfairness is in family court.
11 |