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If you're struggling to move on from the concept of the "right person, wrong time," you can't miss my new YouTube video where Audrey and I delve deeper into this topic and discuss why it can be so damaging to people's love lives.
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Date of upload: May 28, 2024 ^^
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Mathew Hussey... killing the Disney Princess in us all, one video at a time. ššš
Love you really.
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The right person is timeless..
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Thank you. Iām so sick of that saying āright person, wrong timeāā¦ there is never a wrong time for the right person..
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This is again so astounding. I love everything youāre saying about not living in reality, not living in our real life but living in our minds. Spot on !
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I believe it can be the right person wrong time but this concept can become very dangerous when youāre putting your life on pause until they might or might not come back. Itās the ruminating thoughts over that person and this story youāre fantasizing about thatās holding your heart back. Iām currently going through this and itās gut wrenching. I saw this quote somewhere recently that said ātrauma isnāt just the bad things that happened, itās also the good things that didnāt happenā and thatās very true. Maybe you wanted this relationship so bad but the other person didnāt and itās difficult to move on because youāre mourning a loss of what could have been. Meanwhile the other person is enjoying their life. Itās different if for whatever reason both parties separated (maybe moved away, got married then divorced or had family issues) but years later got reunited.
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Sometimes you are not in that head space to commit , but you really have the right person infront of you, you even let go of the person but a time comes when stars align and it is the right time, you find the person again and this time you are in the right state of mind and ready to give the person the seriousness they deserve, you adress issues and things move really fast because you already know each other and boom you are engaged!
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I understand. I had been in a casual relationship with a friend and I felt we were becoming really close but he just left the country for a whole year because he's looking for a "purpose". I will always wonder what it could have been if he had stayed but I understand he wasn't in the right place for something serious so now I consider it only as a special memory and I know now is a good time for me to move on and find real love with the right person.
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I saw this at the right time. Thanks! ā¤
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I believe itās true. Iāve experienced it. Economic factors can keep people apart.
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This section of the full video hit me like a tonne of bricks! I have been doing this. I want to live my life fully and not imagine something that's not real
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Youāre very right . I have fallen in what I think was limerence in the past with someone I had an on and off connection with. I held on for along time almost a year and Iām glad I finally came to the realization that I was in an illusion I build in my mind . If someone is the right person they would want to be there and work with me and it shouldnāt feel like Iām trying to conquer something or to make someone see my worth . I have learned to keep the relationship I need and want as the goal and not the person . We need to see if the person can fit the right relationship otherwise itās not your person . Thanks for making the videos and sharing different advice with us ā¤
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Agreed!!! Some people do waste their time and their precious days on thinking about individuals that they are no longer, even with wondering and wishing why and hoping for things that are not going to occur. It's really kind of sad to watch and once you learn how to get away from that you are so much better off! Good point in this video
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This is so true and so well put!!!
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This is true and I am thrilled that someone who gives online dating advice actually has the guts to say it instead of feeding into all those fantasies that people create. Back to the here and now, back to life, back to reality. I really appreciate this perspective.
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powerful comment: the story = missing out on your life...fantasy vs. reality.
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Iām in this, he is not the right but the perfect person, but not in the right time , šššš this is killing me
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He's wrong about thisq
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Omgosssshhhh so grateful to hear this , this is sooooo accurate ššš
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Thank you, needed to hear this ā¤
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@southwestgen9530
4 weeks ago
Matthew is so wise. We lose so many years by giving meaning to relationships or more so people who ultimately aren't the right person for us. The right person at the wrong time is the wrong person! It took me many years to learn thisš¤¦š½āāļø
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