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I used to be myself, got so much hate, bullying and friends taking advantage of me and seeing me as a joke, drama queen and pessimistic, now i have to fake it and smile and be positive no matter what to avoid problems.
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Have tried and tested, people instantly shut down and walk away. People want happy people only, not the ones who have struggled in life and therefore come with a baggage
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I have noticed that being sad around people pushes them away so I have to fake being happy
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Iβm lonely because everyone I ever trusted backstabbed and betrayed me, abandoned me, or pushed me away πππ
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As a people pleaser, I agree with this. I have a lot of friends, a big circle of friend. But I always feel lonely. I dont understand why. When I feel bored i go with the first group friend, when Im still bored i went to another group of friend. But the loneliness is always there.
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I don't even know my true self anymore.
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I am true to myself and not trying to pretend to be something else and everybody dislikes me for it. I don't care anymore, I'll still be myself, it's just the fact that people will always hate ordinary honest human being with pros and cons and they will demand from them to be absolute perfection in order to deserve to live.
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1) What if you decide to test this out and show your true self and get rejected in the relationship. You have confirmed your own conclusion AND lost a relationship
2) If I understand, the person is miserable, and my experience has shown, people are not attracted to unhappy people so you cannot get into a relationship.
People are generally not in a relationship to be happy, they are in a relationship because they are happy
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This is so painful π£ π
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Men I trust has some soulful songs. Good selection π
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Hm, in my experience (I am mid-30s), itβs better to not open up to people about your problems if you can help it. It scares people away. You need to find other coping mechanisms to vent.
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My feelings won't let me
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People genuinely dont like me though π’ I have audhd and everytime I try to be myself the people around me distance themselves
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i think i needed that thx
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Another Wunderbar video Francesca!
Thank you very much
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As an autistic person this really makes sense π feel like 95% of people in my life don't understand who I really am but it's impossible to unmask unless I have a deep trust with them.
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Oh trust me, the show up as yourself dosent work if you do it at the very beginning. What works is showing someone an ideal version of yourself and slowly introducing them over time to your flaws and quirks. Its better to catch a fish with bait instead of just throwing just the hook out thereπ
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Love this!
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Thats the catch. Thinking people won't like you but you never find out if you don't try. And on top of it all, people think everyone's supposed to like them. You are not going to be liked by everyone. Thats impossible. Just like you aren't going to like or have things in common with everyone you meet either. That's just natural.
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@notsotechie7412
1 month ago
Personally my experience suggests : 1) 1st observe 2) Decide how much to share. 3) Open up only if they are trust worthy. 4)Mistakes can be overlooked but don't give excuses to their bs. 5) 3 strike rule ( for people pleasers. )
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