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Top Comments of this video!! :3
No one is so busy that they have no time for you. If they like you, they will make time.
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If a person likes you, they will put in effort & make it easy & it’ll feel natural
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Easiest thing in the world. Just invite him/her. and when she/he finds excuses not to meet it clearly means she/he doesn't really like you.
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People can conceal their thoughts, their personalities, but not their energy. If you learn to read that, then you will never struggle again.
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Some people are really busy, with work, family, activities... sometimes they don’t find time to do everything they should do. So, sometimes it happens : they like you, but they don’t take time to call you back. Of course, maybe you don’t want friends like that.
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Thats what I did, i took a step back, listed all the red flags ,cons and pros, strengths and weaknesses. waited for the other person’s initiation— weeks passed by and nothing. Time to move on and Thank you, next.
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False friends are everywhere! Good friends encourage you to do well and never get jealous when your doing well! Plus are happy to help when they have time.
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sometimes people don't have space for another close friendship in their life, whether because of things that are going on for them, or because they have the right number of close friendships already; so sometimes we can have a real connection with people but not be open to having a friendship we might otherwise "want" to have; so it can be confusing sometimes to feel both pulls. And sometimes people are just too polite or just weird. We all have our weird moments!
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Yes, sometimes it's that you may not mesh well. Also, even if they're not interested, it could most likely be for your own protection in the long run. Meaning that the friendship may end up hurting you if you pursue it, but they're not that keen, but the friendship ends up happening anyway. This has been my experience over time. On both ends - being the one who's been interested but not having it reciprocated and also the one who's not been overly interested but has been pursued.
Also they may be hiding what they're really dealing with eg. depression or anything; and it's not they wouldn't like to be friends it may be they just don't have it in them at the moment to be a good friend. And they know this about themselves, so don't want to hurt or disappoint the other.
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Wow! Just 2:21 minutes and I've NEVER seen someone explain and give a concrete answer to this topic even after watching 100s of hours of minutes to hour long videos!
So concise and precise, to the point and clear conclusive answer, which didn't leave me confused or like the video creator just spun some words, or just gave a pseudo-science answer and didn't answer anything which happens most of the time, and every time before this WHILE being so inclusive and letting them know that the other person doesn't mean to demean them.
This was an awesome vid, thanks to the algo for recommending and thank you for creating! 🎉
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Good answer. To be honest I don't want friends and I know that I hurt people sometimes but I definitely don't want to hurt them. I just have had enough of people and friendships take up my time and friendships are all about compromise. I really truly like some people I meet in life and I can admire them or their skills or thoughts but I simply don't want to invest in friendships anymore. So I'm polite and sincere but I never look to further the encounter. So as this video says don't take it personally and enjoy the moment you have and then move on.
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Or they could be like me, who has anxiety and I have to force myself to do things like get togethers (I do for my boyfriend's sake) 😂 but if someone asked if we want to go out for food or something I would respectfully decline, not because of them I would just rather... not 😬
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I always decline invitations, even if I like the person and want to go to the activity due to my fear of social situations and fear of people. It has nothing to do with them.
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Thanks 🙏, It's practically a harmless way to find out someone's interest.
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Exactly what happened. I asked a guy I see regularly that wanted to talk about something and he said he was busy and then from the next day started avoiding me completely. And before this we used to talk and maybe I misunderstood his friendship for interest.
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Man, so many people are uninterested of me then. That's a lot of "moving on" I have to do. They only want my homework and services. 😔😔😔😔
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There are people that I like and love. But I am incapable of maintaining friendships over the long term. It's me, not them. So while yes, you can move on, don't make the mistake in assuming they don't like you because of this.
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Thank you very much this was very insightful 😊
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Everyone of them hates me; they’re just being nice.
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@Poodle_Gun
1 week ago
I feel like nothing ever happens if I'm not initiating.
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