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Genre: Education
Date of upload: Mar 6, 2024 ^^
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I have this fear that no matter how much inner work i do, that i will basically be damaged goods who will never know how what healthy relations and a healthy existence looks like.
That even if i find the right people, i wont know how to reciprocate with them. Essentially my fear is that am doomed to a life of toxicity because of my past and that now it's part of my inescapable Destiny .
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i had them all, throughout my childhood. no wonder I've an obsessive attachment style that I'm trying to get rid of. I broke up and I'm the worst I've ever been because I rely too much on external validation that I feel worthless when I don't have it (from someone who's emotionally unavailable like my parents) and it keeps on hurting.
your videos have helped me by giving a direction in self improvement and realisations that I need to really really work on my past traumas to be 'normal'. my behaviours are not normal but I just can't help it but realising that it's me and only me in my head helps a lot and it gives a sense of control which I had completely lost. thank you.
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My mom checks all these boxes. I distinctly remember as a little kid, like probably elementary or middle school at most, telling my mom about how much I loved horses and how I wanted to own one one day. Her response was that I wouldn’t be able to take care of it. Like of course a little kid wouldn’t be able to take care of a horse all by their self but you don’t tell them that. I remember it hurt so much to hear my mom tell me I wouldn’t be able to do something that I was so passionate about at the time.
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@raf1edits
3 months ago
Looks like I'm traumatized badly
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