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The Problem With Pretending We're "Fine"
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35,121 Views • May 15, 2024 • Click to toggle off description
The toll pretending “we’re fine” takes on us can be profound, because internally, it only prolongs the pain that nobody else sees.

Sure the world might see us as strong and resilient, but in an attempt to keep up appearances, we mask our authentic experience of life, which only disconnects us further from it.

True growth can't begin until we have the courage to accept where we are, right now—acknowledging our truths, facing our fears, and embracing our vulnerabilities.

Getting people to this place of radical acceptance is the starting point of my Retreat program. Over 6 immersive days, we create a safe environment to confront those truths, shed the weight of pretense, and heal.

So if 2024 is the year you want to confront life's complexities head-on, with courage and self-compassion, this is your invitation. Come join me. Apply now at MHRetreat.com
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@K9_Queen

6 months ago

Matthew’s metaphors are always so incredibly profound. Fantastic philosopher in love

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@gracescoglietti583

6 months ago

Experienced. Absolute truth!!

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@claudiasbarra1882

4 months ago

Thank you so much for your compassionate contribution to the world Matthew. You are such a wonderful soul. I wish you and your partner the best life ❤❤❤

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@carinelaberge5352

5 months ago

It's a fantastic message with which I completely agree. If only more people did. I feel the need to pretend for people. Otherwise you often get told to stop being negative.

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@MahaDeeb-m8f

6 months ago

Absolutely true , never say you’re fine if you’re not 💕

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@ShubhasreeBhattacharyya-wc7ik

5 months ago

"Relationship with Life" - all that you say Matthew comes from a place of deep care. Many of us may have experienced or known others having experienced this. Only a very few can decide to truly heal and help others, this way. There's so much positivity in what you say irrespective of how bitter the truth of your words is. I really appreciate coming across your YouTube channel. Thank you so much for these videos.

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@summertime2702

6 months ago

Great Job Matthew. Thanks So much

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@JeanBrink1971

6 months ago

This is so true!!

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@lee_annhammant

6 months ago

I allow myself one day to feel my emotions in my body and work out what I can do physically,mentally, and spiritually about whatever has thrown me off, knowing that tomorrow is a new day to start over again ❤

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@elinek5470

6 months ago

Very good message!

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@barbyyakubu6718

6 months ago

Mattew thank you for thst subtle reminder but truthfully no relationship could be more beneficial to our spirit, mind body and soul than intimacy with God. This is where we access peace, happiness, soundmind and strength to love ourselves and others hygienically. Everything may leave you many years down the road, even your shadow too at your darkest moment but God will never forsake you . When you love him wholeheartedly, He empowers you to love yourself and others right.
Stay blessed 🙏

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@evalagerqvist9846

6 months ago

So,so TRUE ❤😎☕️🇸

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@TraceyBarracloughInspiration

6 months ago

When I did a counselling course, we weren’t allowed to use the f word in relation to how we felt ❤

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@joyjones6927

6 months ago

I was just wearing the mask or fake smile and pretending like I was okay because I thought that’s what everyone else was doing. I would say I didn’t care but it wasn’t my truth, I was just trying to suppress my emotional pain😊. #cepv #IMustWin

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