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I've been trying to get my therapist to understand this exact concept, and why interruptions with my auditory processing can send me around the twist.
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What makes it even worse is when toxic employers say "It's a yes or no question" when it clearly is not. Nobody seems to "have time" for details or context and it makes the day feel like a trap.
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Two things.
One, I've had to teach myself to ask them "Do you want the short answer or the right answer?"
Two, I call it monologuing. And I found myself a partner that just let's me go off while he sits there listening, grinning to himself, like "That's my girl." And that is the most healing thing I have ever experienced.
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As a writer, this is why I'm terrible at summaries, but have written almost five books. 😂
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People don't often like the picture I paint for context but are the first to moan when they misunderstand me, don't understand, or, even worse, assume what I'm thinking.
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i give brief answers, but i ask millions of questions first.
questions about exactly what they mean and exactly what they want.
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Just when I question if I’m autistic I always get validated somehow.
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I’ve gotten this at work soooo many times! It’s very frustrating because clearly people want short tidbits of information, but that’s why they’re always doing things wrong and it’s completely avoidable!!!! If people are happy with an answer that’s wrong, why don’t they just make up their own answer and get on with their lives? They might as well since they’re either not going to read my answer in the first place, or I’m going to be misunderstood or get in trouble for providing it no matter what? There is no way to win in a neurotypical world! They have no rules, or if they think they have rules, they’re so terribly inconsistent and impossible to follow - but that won’t stop them from blaming you anytime you get anything wrong! And they won’t allow you to stop them from getting anything wrong, and you’ll still get in trouble for that!
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The number of employers I've had that think I'm done answering their question after 2 sentences and just cut right in.... smh
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Yes, I do this with my wife and she hates it. So I just remain quiet now and shut down. I feel that being autistic means just being annoying to others. Which is why I love meeting other neurodiverse people. I can be myself
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Absolutely, especially when sending text messages.
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I absolutely do this and one thing it causes is when I'm telling a story about something bad someone did to me or when someone wronged me, I feel I have to explain all this context to still make the story fair on the other person, so I'm spending ages explaining this context and reliving bad memories, while worrying that I'm boring the other person, and by the end of the story I'm exhausted. It is a real emotional ordeal and as a result I often just don't talk about bad things that have happened
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Don't remember where I saw it or I'd give credit... but someone said they now ask people if they want the short answer or the full answer. And I thought 'that's a really great idea' - provided I can remember to ask before the words just start ejecting themselves from my mouth.
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I struggle to write short emails or texts 😅 I just want people to have all the information so they don’t have to ask a bunch of follow up questions…then I realize I’m in paragraph 3 and this email is turning into a novel. 🤣🤣
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It goes deeper than just what kind of answer you're going to get if you ask us a question. Maybe you will get a one-sentence answer. It will still take us as long to think of that one sentence answer as to think of a one-paragraph answer. We're probably formulating paragraphs faster than NTs are formulating a paragraph's worth of sentences, but our minimum response time for anything unscripted is the time to formulate a paragraph, so we can't do quick turnaround. <---- Oh look! A paragraph! 😂
BTW: Surname is pronounced "BRAHzee", but you're not the first to mispronounce it, nor will you be the last.
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I work in IT and the amount of background detail that I know needs to be cut but drives me nuts to cut it is insane, if somebody already knows something there fine, but not caring about all of the details of your issue? Wild
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Haha. Yes. My sister, who I think was also on the spectrum--it's her birthday today--she passed away 6 months ago. One time I asked her about her thoughts on something, expecting two sentences. She legit sat down ans taught me a class on it for an hour! 😂 Now that makes sense.
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OMG, this is me. And it’s so frustrating to have people roll their eyes when they see me launch into an explanation when they just want a yes or no answer. Sorry, can’t help it.
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This is exactly me. People get impatient and say, "I don't need an 'essay answer'! 😠"
Me: Ohhh but you DO, or you won't understand it they way I'm intending. I'm not a 'cookie cutter' person, so you're not going to get a 'cookie cutter' answer. Sorry I'm complicated, but I'm worth the effort! 😅
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@barbarawalker7122
3 months ago
Yes, yes, yes!!! I tell people "Don’t ask me a question if you don't want the whole answer."
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