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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Recovering Anxious here.
100% spot on.
Constant fear of abandonment, "am I good enough" etc. My ex was an avoidant, it was a dumpsterfire. My best friend is a (rather jaded) stable, and his girlfriend is an anxious like me.
It really helps when someone gets you and can explain how you work and why it is okay and how it can be easy to deal with the quirks and slowly hammer them out.
Hint: Avoidants (especiay severe ones loke my ex was) are not capable of that. And I saw it coming, but I was depressed and just could not accept the fact that it would not work, I thought I'd die without her. (and in a sense I did, new me is much better)
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It’s a difficult thing to deal with. You end up somehow finding people who are avoidant as well. It’s a recipe for disaster on the part of the anxious person.
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Well that was uncomfortably relatable 😊
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This is what leads people like us to develop codependency with BPD or NPD partners. My self-worth and sense of self is so dependent on others and my former partner. It really sucks.
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Okay…well I wasn’t expecting to be read for filth on a Friday but here we are. Thank you 🙂
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I don’t like how well this relates to me and how this explains my experience over the past…, nearing seven or so years?
But I do appreciate how well this explains what I myself struggle to understand.
So, overall, thanks for the callout. 😭😂✨
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Wow, very clear explanation. Dignity is key, recognizing your value is where the focus needs to be.
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Holy shit this has hit the nail on the head for me. I've only really come to realise this now in my mid-to-late 20s how anxious I always am in relationships, why they don't last.
My sense of worth in them is so heavily defined in "are they doing ok in this relationship with me, will they leave me, what do I need to do for them" etc. all this is well and good to a point but I end up therapizing all my relationships.
Works great for friendships and I'm the sort of person that can very easily make friends with people but beyond that I'm just an anxious wreck when it comes to love and I now see how my chaotic family situation as a kid has reflected into this.
I'm trying to build up my sense of self worth and not be dependent on the valuation of others, it's an interesting process since I've never loved and valued myself all that much before but I've gained a lot of good tools from psychology/psychoanalysis to help with that.
Will watch the full episode soon 😁
Thanks for making this conversation happen guys, you don't know how incredible something like this can be for people that go unheard
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This was an AHA Moment. He explained it wonderfully
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This field of science is working wonders for our population
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The love of my life just left me basically because of this... I'm so broken and love her so much but I have finally realized the harder I try the more I just push her away...
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Sharing how u feel, ur experiences & what you think is not emotionally puking. I do know this happens sometimes, but to those who take more responsibility & share less r to those whom people say they puke; the really puking & overdoing ones r allowed, since they do it through power,convincing u they r better than they really r,etc.
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Best explanation I have ever heard ❤
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Thank you for the great podcast episode
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Yea thts right on the money
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This a brilliant synopsis
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Wow! This is brilliant so important to be aware of thank you
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Wow! This exactly describes someone I know.
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Excellent description
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@aronvic2627
2 weeks ago
I have never heard a more eloquent explanation of my decades long battle with Anxiety and Depression. Bravo. 👏
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