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How does this fit in with Asian parenting obedience culture? Would it even make sense to discuss this disorder in light of cultures or generational trauma situations with the belief that āthe child should obey what I say, otherwise they are badā? In my own experience with and healing from trauma, the opposition came from an awareness that parents were attuned with their need to direct my experience for their own emotional regulation, unattuned with my actual needs. So their requests from a fight or flight state simply lost credibility and legitimacy, hence the opposition. Iāve seen you speak of both childhood trauma and cultural / family roles in an empathetic yet firm, boundary setting way, and am curious how this clip could be nuanced for dysfunctional or abusive situations where the sense of parental entitlement clouds the interaction between parent and child?
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@azariahprice4592
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I had every symptom of ODD up through maybe 9th grade and it was just cuz my parents wouldn't tell me why they wanted me to do something. It was always because they said so and when that wasn't good enough for me, they would say things like "why can't you just do this one thing" or "you don't care about us" "you are so difficult" and the list goes on and on and on and it just taught me to hate myself because they treated me like a horrible person when they couldn't answer the simple question why over simple things for their undiagnosed autistic kid
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