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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: May 14, 2024 ^^
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
One of the most valuable skills I learned and am practicing for being comfortable, present and supportive with someone else's discomfort is by learning 1. to practice sitting with my own feelings of discomfort to build resilience within myself and 2. apply this skill by doing the same thing when someone around me is also feeling discomfort, being comfortable with my practiced ability to be unshakeable in my resilience without caving in to the need to "fix the situation".
It has nothing to do with women and everything to do with an individual's inability to sit with their own uncomfortable feelings.
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What she is saying is a man who can solve problems quickly does not fall into the trap of women who get caught up in their emotions and just want to forget about the problem and get physically close. Because he knows that what she is really saying is, I don't want the accountability. It's too hard. Men talk about problems to find solutions. Women talk for a greater bond. To get closer. But when both people are doing both, it's functional.
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If you are complaining it hurts cause you have a splinter, the first thing that comes to mind is to remove the splinter.
You can talk about how much it hurt and how you felt after.
I also get it that sometimes women just want to vent. Most men can just listen too, but there is a limit. Once or twice, sure. Keep it up though and it just means the problem needs to be dealt with now.
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@paul_wiggin
1 month ago
As a man I can't even understand what she just said.
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