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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Been looking for support for 40+ years. Still haven’t found a safe place.
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I found more love and support at my grandmas, neighbors, and friends houses than I ever did at home. Narc parents love to throw you off on anyone that will help raise you to avoid the responsibility of being a parent.
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I like the new glasses.
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OH BOY! I know this all too well!
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When I got married my mother said straight up she didn't like him. After 23 years of marriage my husband became increasingly abusive and clearly wanted someone younger and wealthier. He eventually became physically abusive and at that point I divorced him. When my mother heard he had hit me, she suddenly was supportive of him saying "Well, he never did anything to me. I have nothing against him!" Yet when he treated me well, she openly treated him with contempt.
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I really hate my life. The fact that I had to raise myself is truly hell.
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Wow.. I needed to hear this today 🙌✝️
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I'm so glad that I'm finally at a place in my life where I can support myself psychologically. I have come to rely on myself and on God for all of my needs. Together, we never disappoint.
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Plus when you are told by emotionally immature parents, who don't know better themselves, to keep family problems in the family, you don't seem to have "permission" to seek support outside of the dysf dynamics. Only years later do you break out of your FOO dysf patterns
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Jerry, right! Seeking outside of the family without knowing how to discern... and to me lies here the miracle, that even though we didn't have any comparison between what should be normal and what isn't, something deep inside was pointing out that the shift was necessary!
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I did that very thing regarding seeking safety outside of the home.
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Oh boy, have I often experienced this one; how my parents have often hindered external relationships to maintain control over me and to perpetuate their pernicious shenanigans. When it goes wrong they will give me the “I told you so” remark to re-enmesh me into the family dynamics. Thank you Dr. Wise.
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Our housekeeper became my Godmother when I made it official through a church service baptismal ceremony.
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I suffered a stroke back in May. Both parents (extreme narcs) made what was a serious medical event (I was in hospital care of some sort for a month’s time in total) about them.
When notified of the stroke, my narc father replied, “I don’t care if he lives or dies”. He also went on some bizarre blathering about some 70s self help nonsense that he twisted for his own needs.
My narc mother kept telling me about her reliving various times with the narc father, abuse and all. Despite my pleading with her to stop (I was there as a child- they were not good times in the least), she continued to the point where I had to ban her from the hospital I was in. And even then, she didn’t get the hint, nor did she care. It was more about how it all affected THEM in the end and little else.
Their idea of providing “support” was being melodramatic for a minute but providing little of any real help.
So no- they DO NOT provide support of any sort. In fact, they get in the way more than not.
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Narcissistic mother was good at that.
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No doubt!!!
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I married neglect. Im not called names and abused with anger so i thought it was ok and if im not happy im broken. I married what i knew. And im sick from decades of trying to make others happy and now im totally dependent and alone.
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
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I was lucky to get multiple gigs besides running away so early. I met a "lady of the night" who unlocked my indifferent side. We're still friends but we barely meet.
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@AmeyBrunel
1 month ago
That's a must! The sooner children know the better.
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