PokeVideoPlayer v23.9-app.js-020924_
0143ab93_videojs8_1563605_YT_2d24ba15 licensed under gpl3-or-later
ImmersiveAmbientModecolor: #c9b8a9 (color 2)
Video Format : (720p) openh264 ( https://github.com/cisco/openh264) mp4a.40.2 | 44100Hz
Audio Format: 140 ( High )
PokeEncryptID: aa306ffa511f8118372191e1328134c004cc2e17211edc27f56db0418b50f429d17fa78c6533f36d7acb3a4d05387769
Proxy : eu-proxy.poketube.fun - refresh the page to change the proxy location
Date : 1732256255391 - unknown on Apple WebKit
Mystery text : M0JNY0ZSSWt3SjggaSAgbG92ICB1IGV1LXByb3h5LnBva2V0dWJlLmZ1bg==
143 : true
298 Views • Apr 29, 2024 • Click to toggle off description
Views : 298
Genre: Education
License: Standard YouTube License
Uploaded At Apr 29, 2024 ^^
warning: returnyoutubedislikes may not be accurate, this is just an estiment ehe :3
Rating : 5 (0/34 LTDR)
100.00% of the users lieked the video!!
0.00% of the users dislieked the video!!
User score: 100.00- Masterpiece Video
RYD date created : 2024-04-29T17:10:25.925873Z
See in json
17 Comments
Top Comments of this video!! :3
Totally relate to this… ask nicely if I can help, send gentle reminders but do not tell me to do something. I will most likely rebel and not do it or it will take me forever.
Wondered if I was just like this with narcissistic people but no seems like a sign of respect and values to me 🤷♀
2 |
Yes, this is called PDA. Neurotypicals call it "Pathological Demand Avoidance". However we neurodivergents more aptly call it "Persistent Drive for Autonomy".
We want our autonomy, not someone else's authority. Because it is not often, it seems, we actually remember to do something, and when it's our idea, our motive, and us taking initiative, we're developing on our executive dysfunction, making it more functional. This self prompt gives us more dopamine than being externally prompted. As it has the same mechanism as intrinsic motivation, being our passion or novelty, and extrinsic motivation is associated with chores (aka brain torture).
Them telling us what to do and then stalling/moving on to another task looks like demand avoidance, when in reality it just k*lls our motivation since we already were following a strict to do list in our minds which their interruption causes our working memory to falter.
And then we get pissed off.
2 |
M8 I wont even do things that I myself put in my calendar, cuz I'm like "this calendar will not tell me what to do"
|
Yes! This is me!!! I get so frustrated when this happens and it annoys me that I feel so upset about it. Do you know any tips to deal with this?
|
Yes this happens all the time
|
That's ODD it goes together with ADHD but it's a different thing
|
@slack_kin
6 months ago
As someone with ASD, ya´ll ADHDers ain’t alone in this. I have had the motivation to complete several tasks I needed to do completely vanish the moment someone else points it out. This has even translated to important life-milestones being delayed due to this phenomenon.
6 |