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Vanessa and Xander Marin | Sex Therapist @UCzf8xqC-GJd5tSPYYOjFiOw@youtube.com

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E228: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt 2.)
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E227: Initiation: What You’re Getting Wrong And How To Get It Right
59:55
E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
59:39
E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and Libido
01:00:47
E224: The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys & Tools
01:01:47
E223: Sex After Baby: Postpartum Sex, Intimacy & Desire
01:05:55
E222: The AI Girlfriend: How to Protect Your Relationship from Artificial Intimacy
01:05:22
E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, and more)
55:18
E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm
59:36
E219: The Truth About Female Orgasm: Your Q’s Answered!
01:00:46
E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2
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E217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It
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E216: The Truth About Being Passive In Bed: And How To Take Control
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E215: Mismatched Sex Drive Types: The #1 Reason Couples Struggle With Desire
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E214: The Truth About Being Touch-Starved (Even in a Happy Relationship)
01:02:14
E213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & More!)
01:13:41
E212: Why You Flinch When Your Partner Touches You (And How To Fix It) “The Bristle Reaction”
01:04:38
E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex
01:02:44
E210: How To Know When Enough Is Enough
59:39
E209: Mental Load: The #1 Desire Killer
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E208: Stuck In A Relationship Rut? Here’s Your 4-Week Fix
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Going to a Sex Club... But Not Telling My Partner – Is That Cheating?
03:08
Why I don’t worry about turning on my partner if I’m not in the mood for sex
01:03:34
E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong
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E206: Butt Stuff 101: Everything You’re Too Afraid To Ask
08:30
She Swears He Cheated… But Did They Ever Agree on this?
08:45
How to Stop Being Defensive in My Marriage?
06:18
Disappointing Sex? Here’s How to Bounce Back as a Couple
53:19
E205: Couples Coaching Session: How To Ask For More Even If You Don’t Know What You Want
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How to Say 'No' When You’re Tired & Battling an Uneven Mental Load
52:59
E204: Confessions Of An Overactive Bladder
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E203: Is This Cheating? Part 2
52:44
E202: Am I being defensive, or am I defending myself?
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E201: Couples Coaching Session: They Love Each Other… So Why Does Their Sex Life Feel Stuck?
01:11:45
200 Episodes Later: Let’s Get Personal! (Ask Us Anything)
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E199: Am I The Asshole? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy
51:59
E198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know)
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E197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death Grip
56:33
E196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!)
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E195: Giddyup, Cowgirl! Tips, Tricks, & Techniques For Maximum Pleasure
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EPISODE 194: What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2
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EPISODE 193: The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments
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EPISODE 192: “Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby Talk
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EPISODE 191: Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame
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EPISODE 190: Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous?
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EPISODE 189: Can We Have A Fresh Start? Or Is It Too Late?
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EPISODE 188: Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?
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EPISODE 187: Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition Part 2
55:45
EPISODE 186: Period Sex, Internal Vs External Processors, & Queer In A Straight Relationship
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EPISODE 185: How To Navigate Porn In Your Relationship
33:31
EPISODE 184: How To Get More Physical Intimacy From Your Partner
51:40
EPISODE 183: How To Get More Emotional Intimacy From Your Partner
59:14
EPISODE 182: “Help! I’m Not Into My Partner’s Fantasy!”
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EPISODE 181: A Brutally Honest Relationship Check-In
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EPISODE 180: Smash Or Pass: We Try The Weirdest Women’s Magazines Sex Tips
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EPISODE 179: All Your Female Orgasm Questions: Answered!
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EPISODE 178: Tie-Breakers: We Solve Your Relationship Standoffs
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Trying Viral Positions (Part 28)
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EPISODE 177: Why You Should Try Mutual Masturbation And How To Do It
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HOT or NOT (Part 2)