in the future - u will be able to do some more stuff here,,,!! like pat catgirl- i mean um yeah... for now u can only see others's posts :c
I didnāt write this but it is oh so true š
āJust a friendly 4th of July reminder that absolutely no one is going to watch the video of fireworks you recorded on your phone.ā
Happy 4th!
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Toxic positivity is the practice of suppressing or denying negative emotions in favor of positive thinking, regardless of circumstances. It can also involve pressuring others to be optimistic and happy, or dismissing their negative emotions.
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Iām a sick woman. I donāt have to answer to anyone about anything. I donāt have to make time to do peopleās work for themā¦I am allowed to say NO without reason at any time I damn well please. Hopefully this will help end the messages. I donāt have to do anything for anyone I donāt want to do. NO amount of lies or guilt is going to change what I need to do for myself right now. Itās ok to put yourself firstā¦anyone who loves me will not only understand that, theyāll want that for me. You guys please donāt message me about anything else negative. I know the truth and I know who I am. Thatās all that matters.
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Sometimes no response is truly the best response. Iām still working on that. Itās hard not to get angry when people refuse to acknowledge how they have wronged you and/or hurt you.
The following are stolen words, but very fitting for what we are going to be talking about soonā¦
āIf someone tries to villainize you for setting boundaries, you may as well lean into it. Buy a long dramatic robe, move into a tower, raise an army of the undead, send ominous letters sealed in black wax. Could be fun, and they might reconsider their standards for villainy.ā
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