ā”ļø Letās talk about Trump for a secondānot as a politician, but as the perfect narcissist archetype.
Think about it:
⢠He came in with the love bombing. āIāll fix everything. I alone can save you.ā
⢠He made decisions under the guise of āgood for usāābut weāre the ones carrying the consequences.
⢠He punishes dissent. Speak out against him, and suddenly youāre fake, disloyal, or the enemy.
⢠He gaslights on a global scale. Proof of lies, corruption, abuse? He denies, deflects, and projects blame until people start doubting their own reality.
⢠His reputation is shiny on the outside, but behind it are bankruptcies, lawsuits, chaos, and harm.
⢠His ābillionsā arenāt proof of wisdomātheyāre proof of manipulation. He doesnāt build stability; he exploits systems and people, then calls it success.
Sound familiar? It should. This is the same playbook toxic partners useālove bombing, control, gaslighting, punishment, financial sabotage, image management.
Thatās why survivors like me see Trump and feel that deep sting of recognition. He reminds me of my ex-husband: charming in public, destructive in private, leaving others to clean up the wreckage while walking away with his ego intact.
š© Hereās the truth: Trump isnāt an anomaly. Heās an example of what happens when narcissistic abuse is given power on a national scale.
š And hereās the lesson for all of us: Trust your intuition the first time. Donāt excuse red flags. Donāt accept breadcrumbs. And donāt let someone convince you that abuse is leadership.
Because whether itās in your home or in your countryānarcissistic abuse steals futures, and healing from it means breaking free of the illusion.
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⨠I need to say this out loud: the system was never built for women like us to thrive. It was built to keep us small.
Patriarchy tells us: āThe man is the head of the household.ā Religion packages that message as holy. Weāre told to obey, to submit, to stay quietāeven when our souls are screaming. And if we dare to step outside of that role? The shame is instant: āYouāre selfish, youāre rebellious, youāre a bad mother, youāre a witch.ā
But letās call it what it really is: a setup.
⢠A setup where men are celebrated for leading, but women are shamed for trying.
⢠A setup where financial systems were literally designed to keep women dependent. (Did you know women couldnāt open a bank account without a man until the 1970s?)
⢠A setup where religion gave men the ādivine rightā to control womenās bodies, money, and voices.
And abuse thrives in that setup. Because if a man sabotages your finances, gaslights you, or bread crumbs youāthe system shrugs. āThatās just how it is.ā Meanwhile, women like me are left picking up the pieces of years stolen, money drained, and children raised with no support.
This is why I preach: trust your intuition the first time. Red flags arenāt decorations. Breadcrumbs arenāt love. Your body knows when something is offāyouāve just been trained to doubt yourself because a patriarchal system profits when you donāt listen to your own voice.
Iāve lived it. I was told my worth came from serving a man, from silence, from obedience. I lost years, money, and pieces of myself to men who benefited from that belief. And now? Iām unlearning it all. Iām healing. Iām breaking cycles.
Thatās why Iām stepping back for a little whileānot in defeat, but in resistance. Because my healing, my rest, my reclaiming of power is revolutionary in a world that would rather see me burned out, broke, and silenced.
⨠To every woman reading this: you are not crazy, you are not weak, and you are not ātoo much.ā Youāre waking up. And when women wake up, the whole system shakes. šš
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š„ I need to speak my truth. Abuse doesnāt just break your heartāit sabotages your entire life. It drains your finances, wrecks your stability, makes you question your worth, and keeps you stuck in survival mode. Breadcrumbing, financial sabotage, manipulation⦠all of it leaves scars that take years to heal.
This is why I always say: trust your intuition the first time. If something feels off, it usually is. Those red flags? Theyāre not decorations. Theyāre warnings.
Iāve carried too much of other peopleās dysfunction on my back for too long. And the truth is, itās taken a toll. Thatās why Iām stepping back for a little whileānot because Iām giving up, but because I refuse to let abuse and sabotage dictate the rest of my story.
I need space to breathe, heal, and recharge so I can return stronger, clearer, and more aligned than ever.
To anyone whoās ever been where I am: you are not alone. Your pain is valid. Your anger is sacred. And your healing is worth the pause. š
P.S. To the stalkers, the ones watching my life like itās a telenovelaāthis season is called āHealing & Boundaries.ā Spoiler: you donāt get a cameo.
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