Welcoem to posts!!
in the future - u will be able to do some more stuff here,,,!! like pat catgirl- i mean um yeah... for now u can only see others's posts :c
I’ve been desiring more conversation. 👄
I love teaching, but I love learning even more. 📖
At the center of knowledge is the deep knowing that each idea holds various views and perspectives. 🔎
Nothing in this world is black or white. The majority lies in the gray. 🔖
As a self-identified philosopher, I love to dissect ideas and brainstorm with others. 💬
Through discussion, we can reach a grander and richer understanding of our world. 🌍
What do you think? 🤔
Sending love & healing to you all. 💕
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How have you been, beautiful soul? 🫶🏼
I’ve been preparing content for you. 📝
Which topics would you like me to cover in future videos? 🎥
Drop your suggestions below in the comments. 🔽
Excited to hear from you! 🎉
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Valentine’s Day is all about love..
🧖🏻♀️ Self-love
👯♀️ Friendly love
👨👩👧👦 Familial love
💋 Romantic love
😇 God’s love
Let every single type of love encompass your being, fill your soul, and open your heart. 🙏🏽
Let everything you do, say, feel, and think be full of love. 💖
Here are 3 journal prompts that can help you tap into the vibration of love:
1. What do I love most about myself (internal & external)?
2. How do I desire for others to show their love for me?
2. What activities expand my heart?
Wishing you all a heart-filled day. 💌
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Getting married this past 11/11 was a testament to all the inner work I had done. 👰🏻♀️
I truly don’t believe I would’ve gotten here otherwise. If it wasn’t for the mistakes, the lessons, the beliefs, the faith, the growth, and the commitment to my dream of divine union then I probably would’ve still been single.
While there is nothing wrong with being single, one cannot fully heal and thrive until they meet a companion to journey through life alongside.
There are certain triggers that you certainly cannot face until you’ve bonded with someone on a deeper level. You can read all the books, attend all the therapy, but until you are actively dating, you will never surpass the hurdles keeping you from true love.
This is your sign to get out there and start dating. Now is the time. ⏰
And fortunately, since I’ve been out of the country, I haven’t had a chance to update my coaching rates.
The following prices will remain in effect until February 1st, 2024:
20 minute call $123
60 minute session $333
7 hour package $2222
Book now: calendly.com/rullaalani
Wishing you infinite love & blessings 👑
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In my early 20’s, I poured my energy into men who hadn’t even earned it. 🚫
I vividly remember inviting men over to my apartment 😫 cooking dinner for them 🫢 basically serving them my sacred love on a golden platter. 😣
They had done ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to earn this. Not only did this make me low-value, but it got me nowhere. 👎🏽
Instead, I felt heartbreak & disappointment as I continued to receive bare minimum treatment. 💔
That’s when I decided enough was enough! 🥲
I poured that energy into myself, leveled up my standards, clearly defined my boundaries, and only made myself available to kings! Everyone else was no longer on my radar. 👑
I blocked men whose messages consisted of “hey wyd”, “come over” and any other pathetic variation. I blocked anyone who I had a previous dynamic with. ⛔️
I also stopped going out with men based on irrelevant factors like their flashy car, nice watches, millionaire status, fashion style, eye color, six-pack, and height. 🙈
I strictly focused on the only thing that mattered: how they treated me. 💡
I downloaded elite dating apps and wrote a profile that stood out. I owned my desires and didn’t shy away from saying exactly what it was that I deserved. In the About My Match section, I wrote “A lifelong partner to grow alongside. A gentleman to journey the world with. Someone who will treat me like a queen”. ✈️
All of a sudden, men were flying out from other countries just to meet me. Men were sending flowers to my house. Men were having private drivers pick me up just to ensure that I arrived safely to dinner. I hadn’t even kissed these men!!!! 💋
It then dawned on me that it’s not about what you do as a woman, it’s about how you carry yourself. 💁🏻♀️
Lo and behold, I manifested all of my desires. I’m currently living out my dream hand-in-hand with my husband. He goes above and beyond for me every day of the week. When we go out, we are always asked “What are you celebrating?” Our response is “Us”. 💕
There truly is no greater gift than divine union. Sharing your life with someone who uplifts you and empowers you is the biggest blessing that life has to offer. 🎁
This holiday season, I want to bless other women with the opportunity to elevate and live out their fairytale dreams. 🎉
I am offering a BLACK FRIDAY SPECIAL. All coaching sessions purchased on 11/21-11/27 will be discounted 22%. ✅
20 minute call originally $123 (now $95)
60 minute session originally $333 (now $259)
7 hour package originally $2222 (now $1733)
If you’ve been eyeing my coaching sessions, this is your time to shine! My Black Friday Special is the best rate guaranteed, as investment will increase at the start of 2024.✨
Limited spots available!
Book here: calendly.com/rullaalani/60min
*Coaching session can be booked for later date(s) but must be paid in full by 11/27*
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Do you feel that you were destined for MORE . . ? ✨
More heart-opening.
More abundance.
More expansion.
More options.
More luxury.
More love.
Well then, what are you waiting for?
I am currently offering one-on-one coaching for women who want to elevate their love life to the next level. ❤️🔥
Let it be easy. 🪄
Email rullaalani@gmail.com to schedule.
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Happy International Women’s Day! 👑
Femininity is more than just cute outfits, lipstick, high heels, and bubble baths. 👠
It’s standing firmly in your truth, speaking up for yourself, knowing your worth, having high standards, and uplifting your Earthly sisters. 🙌🏽
Being a woman is a true gift. Your feminine energy is an asset in every environment. 🎁
Embrace your goddess qualities. Remember that you are capable of thriving when you put your delicate, yet fierce power at the forefront of everything you do. 🌠
I thank you deeply for being a part of my tribe. 🙏🏽
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Happy Valentine’s Day! 💐
May your day be full of love, laughter, and light. ❤️🔥
If you’re happily taken, hold your partner close, vocalize your appreciation for them, and embrace their presence in your life. 🥰
If you're single, celebrate yourself! Treat yourself how you would like others to treat you. Write yourself a love note, buy yourself flowers, and go out with your girlfriends. 🥂
Sending you all of my blessings. 💌
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Hello lovelies!
I will be filming a Q&A where you can ask me anything.
Please leave your questions in the comments. ❤️
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The purpose of my channel is to empower and uplift women!
When we are confident and we know our worth, we only attract men who are willing to take care of us, provide for us, and commit to us.
Some people call high-quality woman “gold diggers”. They seem to have forgotten the biological FACT that women are hardwired to be attracted to masculine men with resources, ambition, kindness, stability, intelligence, and strength.
I wanted to share this quote with you guys because it is eye opening. The mating decisions that us females make shape the world’s destiny.
“To an extraordinary degree, the predilections of the investing sex – females – potentially determine the direction in which the species will evolve. For it is the female who is the ultimate arbiter of when she mates and how often and with whom.” – Sarah Hrdy.
Over millions of years, our mating decisions will impact which men are selected for according to Darwin’s theory.
Ladies, please choose wisely! 💘
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Rulla Alani is an entrepreneur, investor, dating coach, and lifelong learner.
After receiving a bachelor's degree in Biology and Business in 2017, she launched an education business, Way2gradeA. Not only does she read dozens of books every year, but her commitment to leveling up all areas of her life has created a ripple effect that inspires others to elevate.
Her videos cover various topics including: dating for marriage, self-development, travel, and more.
If you're interested in working with her one-on-one, you can book a coaching call at calendly.com/rullaalani.
You can also find her on IG at @rullalani