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While love - the tingling sensation or chemistry is certainly an important element for a successful marriage, it is not enough on its own to make a marriage work. Here are some critical points that can contribute significantly to marriage working:
1. βπ¬πͺπππ±π¦ππ¦π©π¦π±πΆ: Love is not enough to overcome significant differences in faith & spirituality, sexuality, values, goals, habits, and lifestyles. For a marriage to work, it's important for both partners to be compatible in these areas. Even if you love yourselves, the marriage might still fail badly.
2. βπ¬πͺπͺπ²π«π¦π ππ±π¦π¬π«: Love is not a substitute for effective communication. In order to work through conflicts and challenges, couples must be able to communicate openly and honestly with each other. Discuss your fears, concerns and insecurities about the money, sex and trust issues in an open and safe space without judging each other.
3. ππ£π£π¬π―π±: Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage. It takes intentional effort from both partners to maintain a happy and healthy relationship. This includes making time for each other, showing appreciation and support, and being willing to compromise and make sacrifices for each other and the children.
4. ππ―π²π°π±: Trust is a crucial component of any successful marriage. Without trust, love can easily turn to resentment and bitterness. One party can start feeling used and taken for granted.
5. ππ―π¬π΄π±π₯: Love is not static; it must be nurtured and cultivated over time. This means being willing to support each other's personal growth and development and being open to change and growth within the relationship.
In conclusion, while love is an important part of a successful marriage, it is not enough on its own. Marriage is hard work and not the fairy tale of happy ending, it is actually reality of happy dying. dying daily to your pride, ego, selfishness, and everything that could make your marriage fail.
This is hoping that you will continue to make the effort to make your marriage work and seek the support where necessary when you feel stuck.
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Marriage is a beautiful hard work when you are in it with the person - your person!
However, the hard work must be put in, by both parties. Make sure to activate the Leave button when when your dignity, self-esteem, confidence and mental health is toyed with.
Leave when it become a threat to your life! LEAVE SO YOU CAN LIVE.
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