18:26
Recovering Honesty After Narcissistic Abuse
19:15
Debunking The Illusion That A Narcissistic Abuser Knows You Best
18:12
Healing the Wish To Be Someone Else After Narcissistic Abuse
26:28
4 Reasons the Scapegoat Child Is Stronger Than Their Narcissistic Parent
13:06
The Scapegoat Child’s Strengths Are Not the Product of Narcissistic Abuse
17:08
Closeness Without Confinement After Narcissistic Abuse
18:03
The Challenge of Creativity for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
20:22
Self-Consciousness in Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
14:09
Realistic Self-Worth for Scapegoat Survivors of a Narcissistic Parent
19:14
When Scapegoat Survivors Think: “It’s Only Me Finds Who This Difficult”
16:34
When Learning About Narcissism Stops Being Helpful
17:10
The Third Pillar of Recovery: Defying the Narcissist's Rules
19:32
Choosing and Protecting Safe Relationships: The Second Pillar of Recovery for Scapegoat Survivors
17:16
The First Pillar of Recovery for Scapegoat Survivors
18:21
2 Ways a Scapegoat Survivor Keeps Their Narcissistic Parent Around
20:25
Defy the Narcissistic Rule That Love Means Being Helped Up
18:16
Invisible to a Narcissistic Parent: Unseen Struggles and Healing
22:04
No More Narcissistic Corruption: Relieving the Scapegoat’s Burden
12:38
Heal From Fear of Persecution for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
14:11
How to Bust the Myth of the Narcissistic Parent’s Superiority
18:59
Scapegoat Children Must Feel Weakened to Deserve Compassion
20:27
Finding Compassion for Yourself and Your Scapegoat Parent after Narcissistic Abuse
18:14
When a Narcissistic Parent Scapegoats the Other Parent
19:42
No Redemption Necessary: How Scapegoat Survivors Stop Fixing Themselves
20:40
Recovery in Pictures for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
17:22
Be the Scapegoat or Be Nobody to No One: The Dilemma for the Child of a Narcissistic Parent
26:17
Fear of Growing Up for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Parents
19:57
People-Pleasing Starts as Parent-Pleasing
22:04
When Getting Better Feels Like 'Selling Out' After Narcissistic Abuse
15:06
How the scapegoat survivor can recover faith in themselves
23:35
Why it’s harder to leave a narcissistic parent than a loving parent
19:18
Living in the first person after narcissistic abuse
26:43
Reducing Social Anxiety for the Scapegoat Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse
17:40
How the scapegoat survivor may confuse badness with realness
21:38
Becoming Valuable and Fallible for the Scapegoat Survivor of Narcissistic Parents
14:52
Restoring Your Boundaries after Narcissistic Intrusions
18:06
"Yeah but"...How the Scapegoat Survivor Discounts their Strengths
18:01
When the scapegoat has to deny their own gifts
15:46
Evacuating the Seat of Your Self: A necessary Move for the Scapegoat Survivor
15:07
Feeling uninteresting to oneself as the scapegoat
01:04:51
A Conversation with Darren Magee about Therapy with Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
15:30
The Science Behind Gaining Distance from the Narcissistic Abuser
19:51
The Scapegoat Child’s Role & Symptoms in Narcissistic Abuse
16:52
3 ways the narcissistic parent blocks the scapegoat child’s growth
01:04
Free yourself from guilt as you gain distance from a narcissistic abuser
11:46
Take off the scapegoat nametag at the narcissistic family’s conference
19:52
Heal from narcissistic abuse by taking others' support for granted
23:29
Dealing with regret for scapegoat survivors of narcissistic abuse
18:46
When scapegoats escape inward to survive narcissistic abuse
17:35
Trust what the narcissist shows you NOT what you hope for
14:17
How long does it take to recover from narcissistic abuse?
19:34
Mending the split: What therapy can help with after narcissistic abuse
12:54
What to do after creating distance from a narcissistic abuser
15:55
Recover from narcissistic abuse by deciding how you’re spoken to
13:57
When language gets weird after narcissistic abuse
08:25
Therapy with survivors of narcissistic Abuse: Part 6 Five steps to case formulation
12:26
Therapy with survivors of narcissistic Abuse: Part 5 How Clients may Test Pathogenic Beliefs
15:42
Why a narcissist undermines your judgment
09:45
Therapy with survivors of narcissistic Abuse: Part 4 The Client’s Key Traumas
07:53
Therapy with survivors of narcissistic Abuse: Part 3 The Client’s Pathogenic Beliefs
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Welcome to Jay Reid Psychotherapy in San Francisco, CA. I specialize in helping people recover from difficult childhoods. Often survivors of such abuse have had to contend with a caregiver who is pathologically self-absorbed or narcissistic. Other times a parent may have Borderline Personality Disorder and treated a child in confusing and abusive ways. In either of these cases, the videos on this channel are meant to explain psychologically what happened and why it was not your fault. The other goal of the channel is to offer specific and useful ways to help you recover from this type of abuse. If this kind of information resonates with your experience in childhood I encourage you to subscribe to this channel.
Learn about my online course to recover from narcissistic abuse here:
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