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realitychangers
1 year ago - 91 likes

There is this quote that I really appreciate. It came to mind todayas I witnessed Alexa graduate High School. ā€œWhen your heart is everywhere, your heart is nowhere. If your heart is nowhere, then where is your heart?ā€
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I feel like I can dance with this quote and come up with so many ways to interpret it. But the one that I am leaning towards the most is this one: This quote made me realize that a shard of my heart DOES live outside of my body and today I witnessed it graduate high school
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Itā€™s hard to convey what I am feeling right now. But I was so proud to see my daughter walk down that field, hear her name be called and watching her hug others sheā€™s made friends with over the years
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I saw her little smile. A smile that I havenā€™t seen in a very long time. A smile that I am familiar with. A smile that knows she is certain she actually did it. A smile that I remember she first tried as a baby
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Sooooo sooo proud of her y si, la mera verdad estoy llorando de pinche felicidad y orgullo and I not ashamed of it yā€™all because you have no idea the things weā€™ve been through just to collectively be alive and exist to witness her get her diploma
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18 years ago I held her in my arms when I graduated high school. 18 years ago I couldnā€™t believe I had graduated as well. 18 years ago I was undocumented, right out of HS with plans for college and was finding ways to work under the table to survive. 18 years ago, I kept the hope going, I didnā€™t give up. Today, I saw her keeping the hope going as well in her and I witnessed her having the tenacity to not give up
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I did ask Alexa to take some time to read this post so I just wanted to say to you dude, I am soooooo freaken proud of you. I am beyond orgulloso a lo lejos que has llegado. You ARE our ancestorā€™s wildest dreams. Never forget that mija.

realitychangers
2 years ago - 8 likes

So excited to share this video with you all!

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2 years ago - 27 likes

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2 years ago - 23 likes

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2 years ago - 26 likes

Really missed you all! We just dropped a new video everyone! Let me know your thoughts! https://youtu.be/FEe_MmTf9FQ

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2 years ago - 17 likes

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2 years ago - 6 likes

Really missed you all! We just dropped a new video everyone! Let me know your thoughts! https://youtu.be/FEe_MmTf9FQ

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2 years ago - 7 likes

Really missed you all! We just dropped a new video everyone! Let me know your thoughts! https://youtu.be/FEe_MmTf9FQ

realitychangers
2 years ago - 59 likes

Right now, Aaron is in such an interesting stage šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£. Iā€™m getting mad flashbacks of when I was his age because thatā€™s when I began to retain more memories. I mean I have memories of since I was two years old and some memories at three but most of my fruitful memories started at four years oldā€¦Aaronā€™s current age lol
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Iā€™m trippin out, because this is the also the age where my own life began to flip upside down
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This is when I started understanding further what was going on between my mom and dad. Around this age is when I started feeling the brokenness of my family because I understood ā€œcertainā€ things better. A esta edad siento que perdĆ­ mi mas sentido de la inocencia
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I remember good bad good bad good bad bad bad bad bad bad then good good for a while then skyrocketing bad but then good
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These memories haunt me yā€™all from time to time. They cross my mind but they simply pass through like a day dream but more like a fading bi-monthly night terror. Well in this case a day terror. I just let it pass through because I know itā€™s leaving and it gives me peace of mind knowing now that I can foreshadow my own process so I can enjoy taking these photos of Aaron more and getting to just be here

realitychangers
2 years ago - 99 likes

These past five years of being married to Nancy have been exactly how I predicted, sheā€™s the volcano šŸŒ‹of the relationship and Iā€™m the tornado šŸŒŖ
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Those of you in long-term relationships understand EXACTLY how unpredictable the forecast can be
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At times, I come in and sweep the energy out of the room like a tornado, sucking up everything around me and throwing it without understanding the consequences. Other times, Iā€™m the same tornado that sweeps in and takes everyone away to a happier placeļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ with newfound exploration and perspective
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At times, Nancy comes in and melts the entire area with her hot lava, burns everything around her without care. Other times sheā€™s the same volcano with smoldering lava that creates new islands, gives birth to new perspectives to explore together
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It just depends on the day I guess and thatā€™s the hard truthļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ šŸ¤£
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In the past five years, Iā€™ve learned that which ever tornado I end up being and whatever kind of volcano she wakes up as, its all about understanding, respecting, loving and growing from our mutual chaos
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Love forged us, bent us, molded us and gave us perspective and we are still here fighting the good fight and getting through the bad weather
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ļæ¼Iā€™m still amazed by how far weā€™ve come. Iā€™ve known Nancy since elementary school yā€™all and I fell in love with her in high school so for those of you who know us, know us very well, you understand how freaken crazy itā€™s been these past couple of years šŸ¤£ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼
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Pero ahi vamos, one moment at a time
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Sometimes weā€™re THRIVING and sometimes weā€™re SURVIVING and thatā€™s just how life has been for us lately and thatā€™s okay
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The one thing I wish weā€™d do more in the next five years is to date each other more often. Itā€™s hard to date each other with three kids but every single time I get to ā€œseeā€ her again I remember why I fell for her
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Yeah, five years does teach me that there is a honeymoon stage, a disillusionment stage and what weā€™re going through right now, the adapting stageļæ¼ļæ¼
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ļæ¼To many more years of volcanoing and tornadoing amor šŸ¤£šŸŒŖšŸŒ‹
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To many more years disturbing and disrupting the weather togetherļæ¼ļæ¼
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I love you, happy 5th wedding anniversary cachetona šŸ˜ŠšŸŒŖšŸŒ‹ā¤ļø