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โจVulnerable Postโจ
Imagine Growing Up Thinking Your Own Father Didnโt Care About You?
If it hadnโt been for my amazing husband, this moment here wouldโve never happened!
The moment I decided to forgive and let go of any hurt, he made it his mission to make this face to face reconciliation happen.
Being hurt by people is a part of life and unfortunately at times itโs the people who are meant to protect us or people who mean the most to us whoโll hurt us to the core.
But forgiveness really isnโt for them, but for you. I canโt tell you how freeing it is to release someone through forgiveness. These moments for me were truly healing personified!
And to top it all off, the biggest blessing was the fact that our son got to be in the same place with all 4 of his grandparents๐๐พ๐๐พโฅ๏ธ
#forgiveness #healing #fatherdaughter #reunitedwithfamily #reunion
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Enjoying A Much Deserved Break With Our Little Best Friend (Our Son) Who Isnโt Here For Any Paparazzi Action๐ฉ๐
But None The Less Weโre Really Grateful To Be Able To Enjoy This Moment With Our Familyโฅ๏ธ๐๐พ
#familytime #funtimes #southafrica #suncity
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By the time we said I do, weโd already made a decision to treat any money that came into our household as โOurโ Money rather than โyour moneyโ or โmy moneyโ.
Ever heard of the saying โDonโt let anything or anyone come between the two of you once youโre married?โ - well, Money is one of those things.
Money can either be used to enhance your marriage and build the life that you want as a Couple..
Or it can be something that causes arguments, disagreements and all sorts of negative things you donโt want in your relationship.
And itโs all down to how you choose you manage it as a Couple and how Honest, Open & Transparent you chose to be about Money in your Marriage.
Money has an ugly tendency of causing issues between the two of you, if you fail to put it in its rightful place within your marriage.
How do you manage money as a Couple?
Let us know in the comments below๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
#loveandmoney #moneymatters #couplesfinance #marriage #marriedlife #husbandandwife #moneyinmarriage #money
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Itโs never easy saying Goodbye to your baby! But itโs time for us to say Goodbye to Skilled Financesโฆ
What started out as us creating personal finance content for everyone in 2020 to us solely focusing on Couples Finances, is now evolving into something bigger, which is at the core of who we are and what we truly believe in.
So with that being said, itโs time for us to say Goodbye to Skilled Finances and Hello to Wealth With Love where our focus will now be Marriage & Money.
Our heart has always been to empower couples and we plan to continue doing that by helping married couples and soon to be married couples thrive in their relationships and live in Financial & Relational Harmony.
So make sure youโre following us on Wealth With Love where weโll discuss many topics for Couples which can be broken down into Relational Wealth, Financial Wealth & Spiritual Wealth.
Will you be following us on our new venture?
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Ever heard of the saying..
โ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐ค๐ ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ & ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐ ๐
๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ (๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ), ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐คโ.
Rather than the norm which is going to University or College, doing the work and then getting the degree.
Well we were told this multiple times before we got married and moved in together..
And boy was this 10000% true!!!!
Once we started living together we had to navigate the minefield that comes with two individuals joining Love & Money.
Bear in mind we had different Money Habits, different Upbringings when it came to Money, different Views of Money..different everything when it came Money and now we had to figure out how to navigate Money in our relationship.
And we got it really wrong in the beginning๐ we failed to have the necessary conversations, we failed to put the right systems in place which led to us arguing about money often, living pay-check to pay-check and getting into debt.
We truly thought that because we love each other, things will work out.
But it wasnโt until reality hit us hard and really sunk in that we decided to make a change!
And it all started with a conversation which then led to 5 steps which we now apply in our relationship and teach to our clients which have truly transformed our relationship and their relationships.
๐๐จ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฃ๐จ๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐
๐๐๐ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐จ๐ง๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐ญ ๐๐:๐๐ (๐๐๐) ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐โ๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐
๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐จ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐
๐จ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฏ๐ & ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ!
www.eventbrite.com/e/money-love-5-steps-for-a-succโฆ
See you there!
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Stats Surrounding The Number Of Couples Whoโve Separated Or Divorced Because Of Money Are Both Shocking And Concerning.
Common money struggles which couples go through which can lead to separation or divorce include:
โจHaving different views about Money
โจDebt & not agreeing about how to deal with it
โจOver-extended budgets or lack of budgeting
โจFinancial infidelity
โจWanting to do different things with Money
When it comes to Couples Finances we've often found that there's little information or examples than can help you, out there.
Which is why we've decided to share with you the 5 things that we do and live by which have transformed our relationship, as well as our clients relationships, when it comes to dealing with Money as a Couple.
Register using the link below๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
www.eventbrite.com/e/money-love-5-steps-for-a-succโฆ
Are you ready to learn the secrets to a thriving relationship?
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Talking About Money In Your Relationship Is Just As Important As All The Other Things You Prioritise Talking About In Your Relationship.
Oftentimes Couples will try and avoid talking about Money because they truly believe that if they donโt really talk about Money, theyโll avoid Conflict.
But do you know that the more you avoid talking about Money, the more likely it is that youโll end up arguing or disagreeing about Money?ย
Because after all how are you meant to know how your partner feels or what they think about Money if the topic of Money isnโt an open conversation in your Relationship.
Yes, at times the Money conversation isnโt the easiest or simplest conversation to have but for the sake of financial peace in your relationship, and harmony when it comes to money, its a very necessary conversation.
How do you find talking about Money in your relationship?
#relationships #marriage #marriagetips #couplesfinances #loveandmoney #communication
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Are You Ready To Transform The Way You Handle Money In Your Relationship?ย
Well, Our 4 Week Money & Love Bootcamp starting on 3 June, 2024 Is For You!!!
Money really can Make or Break a Relationship and we know what it's like to be in a place where you canโt seem to agree and Money seems to be pulling you apart rather than bringing you together.
At one point in our Relationship our money conversations often ended in silence after a disagreement, or worse, tears.ย
Fast forward to today and we are living proof that money doesn't have to be something difficult in your relationship, but something you use to build the life you want as a Couple ultimately, removing the stress that money can cause in your relationship.
Our 4 Week Bootcamp is for all couples looking for a way to get on the same page about money and work as a Team.
The Bootcamp will run over 4 consecutive weeks starting from June 3rd and it will include:
โจ5 Live Sessions held virtually via Zoom every Wednesday from 8 - 9 PM BST (except Session 1 which will be on Monday 3 June from 8-8:30PM BST)
โจQ&A after each session where weโll answer all your questions
โจPrivate Facebook Group
โจCouples Money & Love Workbook To Help Keep You Accountable
Enrol here - skilledfinances.com/bootcamp/
Here's what we'll cover each week:
WEEK 1: Session 1 - Introduction / Session 2: Babe, we need to talk about moneyย
(Letโs equip you with the tools to have open money conversations that donโt lead to conflict)
WEEK 2: Session 3 - What do we want our financial future to look like?
(Letโs help you set money goals that you both care about so you can build your dream life)
WEEK 3: Session 4 - How should we manage our finances?
(Letโs help you build a Money System that works for you both)
WEEK 4: Session 5 - For richer, for poorer (We're in this together)
(Letโs set you up for success with amazing success habits that will transform your money journey)
โจโจ SPACES IN THE BOOTCAMP ARE LIMITED AS WE WANT TO CREATE AN INTIMATE ATMOSPHERE FOR THE COUPLES WHO JOINโจโจ
Why not invest into the success of your Relationship today!ย
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Weโve been a bit M.I.A on this platform..
But weโve been travelling as a family and weโve been working on something newโจ
When we first got married we truly believed that because we Love each other, everything would just fall into place when it comes to Managing Money As A Couple.
But we were wrong!! Once we started living together:
โจthe way we handled money whilst single & dating creeped in,
โจmoney habits from our upbringing and past soon creeped in,
โจthe way we dealt with money when it came to spending, giving & our faith soon creeped in
And it was a lot!!!
A few years later we managed turn things around, we paid off our debts, bought our first home and started our journey towards financial independence.
We want to give you the tools we used to start working together with our money.
โจLeave a comment below if youโd love to hear moreโจ
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Join us this Tuesday at 8pm(GMT) as we walk you through How We Budget ยฃ2800p/m as a Couple.
During the session weโll walk you through the method and tools that we use, as well as some practical tips and strategies that are helping us live in financial harmony.
Feel free to register using the link below! Spaces are limited and we only have a few left.
www.eventbrite.com/e/how-we-budget-2800-monthly-plโฆ
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We are Thando & Lindie Jacobs and have been married since 2015. We have a strong passion for helping married couples thrive in their relationship. Our goal is to transform your marriage from simply surviving to truly thriving. Weโll be exploring various areas that impact Couples, which can be broken down into Relational Wealth, Financial Wealth & Spiritual Wealth.
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