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AITA for not giving my sister my wifeās clothes?
posted by u/ProudFormal8139
My wife was a corporate lawyer and mediator. She had some very nice work clothes. She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and was gone in two years. The last six months of her life were hell.
My sister Sarah didn't do jack shit for us of us during that time. My wife never liked her. I do not like her. She is a selfish cow. At my wifeās wake, she started asking about my wifeās clothes, and I brushed her off. She wanted to pick out a few pieces to āremember my wife by,ā and I ignored her.
It's been six months, and I've attended my momās birthday, but Iām still not in the mood to deal with people. Then Sarah comes, asking about my wifeās clothes.
I told her my wife wanted me to donate them to this women's shelter, and she often helped. It will help women in need with their own court cases, court appointments, and job interviews.
My sister Sarah said my wife was even selfish in death. I asked her what the fuck did she mean? And she started going off on how my wife always thought she was better than her, and it's not far that the clothes are going to charity and not to family.
I told my sister I would rather see my wifeās clothes lit on fire than on her back. My sister started crying, and my mom came over to see what was wrong. My mom told me to be easy on my sister because she was talking about my wifeās death hard.
The fucking insanity of that coming out of my momās mount made me grab my gift and leave. My mom acts like I had to ruin her birthday by being melodramatic, but I cannot believe their emotional blackmail towards me over fucking clothes that they have no right to.
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hey guys!
I apologize for my sudden disappearance over the last 5 weeks,
I have been dealing with some unexpected family circumstances,
Iām working hard to get back on track and will be resuming regular uploads over the next week,
sorry again for the lack of videos but I will be back with 2 videos daily soon!
and possibly some extra content here and there,
thankyou for bearing with me and I hope to see you all enjoying the videos again very soon!
~Red
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AskR is 1 year old already!!
thankyou everyone for all the comment's likes and overall enjoyment with the content. it's been a wild ride and will continue to be like this but that's what we love.
It's genuinely amazing that I have been posting on YouTube for a whole year already, on the 16th will be the anniversary of 2 shorts every day, thankyou everyone for your support and nice comment's, but most of all thankyou for just enjoying these stories! HAPPY 1st birthday to the AskR channel, and here's to many more great stories to come!!
wishing everyone an amazing week!
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(this was definitely a real candle...)
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AITA for making my wife cry several times over work?
posted by u/New_Calligrapher
Sorry for poor english. I am not smart.
I (27M) have made my wife (27F) cry constantly over her being willing umemployed for over 4 months. She left her last job because it was, in her terms, making her stressed. It was a 3 day a week, 18 hours job. She earned $600/wk (aud). We have a joint home loan at 370k remain and our savings are sinking.
I told her i was in support of her leaving her job under the one condition that she had more work lined up, even if it paid less. She instead quit the week after I said it. 3 months passed and she had no job still. Bills coming in constantly and I had taken up extra shifts to cope. But in all of this, the savings we have are dropping.
Last month I started tell her she needs to find work and she comes up with a different excuse each time. I broke down the home loan repayments and explained how we cant afford them if she doesnt work and that we are unable to biy anything other than essentials and she seems to understand. After a week i asked if she had applied to any jobs and she said no. I blew up. Yelled and told her she is being extremely unfair as I am working overtime and have little free time, whereas she doesn't even keep the home in order outside of doing dishes and laundry when I tell her to. This repeats weekly. Today when I noticed she was a bit upset, I asked what's wrong and she said she wanted me to spend time with her (i have one day off a week) and I said i could have more free time if you were working. She said "you don't care about my feelings you just want me to get a job" and I yelled at her for letting me handle all financal responsibility again. She argues that she applied for 6 jobs but they all asked for id checks and she wasn't bothered to do them. I am very angry. I told her I am not her money pig and she can get work or we are done. AITA?
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AITA for dressing inappropriately in front of my BIL?
Posted by
u/throwaway2847362662
So to start this off, this issue is with me 22f, my sister 26f and her husband 30m.
To add some backstory, basically ever since they started growing, my breasts have been large, I have a very small frame otherwise and I am 5ft2, so almost my whole life I have thought that my body looked weird. I have always covered up as best as I could with large hoodies, big t-shirts and so on. I have always dressed this way as I genuinely was ashamed and hated my body. I started working at 16 knowing my main goal was to afford a breast reduction, last year I was finally able to afford it and got them done. They are still a bit on the bigger side, but I have never ever felt so comfortable and happy in my own body as I do now (not to mention the weight that has LITERALLY been lifted off my shoulders!?).
So this last weekend my sister and her husband came to visit our family, and we had planned a dinner at a restaurant. It was nothing extravagant, but still a pretty nice place. I just wore jeans with a tight fitting shirt, it did not show my breast but since it is tight fitting you can see the outline of them. I thought everything went well, we all chatted and talked like usual, but a bit in I noticed BIL was staring at me extremely much. I got kind off uncomfortable and I think my sister also noticed and she was silent for almost the whole night after that. I thought she was mad at BIL and that she could see that I was uncomfortable with his stares.
But the same night she texted me, telling me that I did not need to dress so inappropriate in front of a married man, that I need to have some self respect and that she did not think I was the type to try and seduce a married man. I texted her, explaining that it was not my intention and told her that I actually felt uncomfortable with his stares. She texted me back just saying that if I did not want him to stare, then I should have not dressed that way.
I was extremely upset by all of this and talked with my mother, but my mother agreed with my sister. I am starting to feel like I shouldāve thought about covering up and do more, especially since my mother also thinks I was an asshole for this..
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AITA for turning my wifeās family away at the door on Christmas?
Posted by
u/ThrowMeAwayDaddy686
For context my wife and I have been together for more than a decade. In that time her family has been awesome. The only exceptions to this are my wifeās paternal aunt and uncle.
The two have a tendency to do really odd things and then act like it was normal. For instance, a few years ago they stood up during the middle of a family dinner, raised their hands like a ref holding up a champion boxers hand, and announced that they were moving to āThe Lakeā before sitting down.
No mention of which lake this was, no additional context, nothing. After what felt like an eternity as we all stared at each other awkwardly, my wifeās father asked āWhich lake?ā which prompted his sister to begin bawling her eyes out and screeching about how we werenāt being supportive.
More recently my wife and I bought a house in the same city as her parents. And so for the first time, we decided to host Christmas. The grandparents and parents are getting old, and we thought it would be a nice gesture. We made sure to send the invites a month in advance and followed up by text message with everyone who said they were coming.
The only thing we asked was that people not bring their pets. My wife has absolutely terrible dog allergies (to her own dismay as she desperately wants to foster a dog) and her aunt and uncle have a history of doing things like showing up with a literal pack of dogs they happen to be petsitting ālast minuteā for.
The email was very clear on this.
Cue Christmas Day and my wifeās aunt and uncle showing up two hours late with their brand new Mastiff. When I opened the door, the dog started going nuts and howling, while her uncle scolded it to stop. I tried to politely explain that this wasnāt acceptable and that they needed to leave, but my wifeās aunt started crying and screaming about how mean I was being.
Eventually they left, but on the day of and for the last few weeks since Iāve gotten mixed reactions from family and friends. Iām not on Facebook, but apparently my wifeās aunt made a long post about how we ruined Christmas by forcing (?) them to drive two hours for Christmas dinner, only to turn them away heartlessly because they didnāt feel comfortable leaving their new dog at home alone.
Our immediate family is supportive. Both of my wifeās grandmas thought the scene was hilarious, apparently, and my in-laws thought it was nice to finally see someone stand up to āthe loony tunes duoā (their term, not mine), but think we should have found a way to allow them to stay even with the dog. The other aunts, uncles, and cousins think we went too far and should have compromised somehow.
I feel like Iām taking crazy pills, so I have to ask
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AITA for not caring about consequences anymore?
(Posted by
u/MinuteAny1558)
I had my 13 year old son as a teenager. His dad was my cousinās boyfriend and I admit I was a bitch for doing that. I got my karma because heās a deadbeat and I got no help from my parents as punishment for betraying family. Whatever, we lived and I learned.
I get the hostility towards me but Iām tired of them trying to force my own son to hate me. They didnāt want shit to do with him when he was a baby but now that he technically doesnāt āneedā me theyāre trying to tell him that he doesnāt have a dad because of me or that Iāll never be enough to advance his athletic career and am therefore ruining his life. Shit like that. Iāve begged them to stop but they say that theyāre simply telling him the truth and itās up to him to decide if he wants anything to do with me and that itās the consequences of my actions.
I get it. I really fucking do. But this is insanity. I tried to limit contact between them even though my parents threatened to stop helping me pay for his sports. Sure it meant more work for me but itās nothing I canāt handle.
Anyways, turns out my attempts were in vain because my son was still seeing them behind my back and I only found out because my son started crying to me because of all the stress that had been building up. He was only still meeting them because my dad promised heād buy him high quality sports gear so long as he wouldnāt abandon his grandparents.
I was furious so after I put him to sleep I stormed over to my parents house and I admit I lost it a little. I took the high quality sports gear and threw it at them before telling them that they donāt get to hold a decade long mistake over my head. My mom just said I ruined her relationship with her family and that the consequences Iām facing are nothing compared to the things she had to deal with thanks to me. She kept going on about consequences while my dad told me to āexpect harsh consequencesā from my son for taking his sports equipment. He also said something about choosing my pride over my sonās dream. I snapped and told them that I donāt give a fuck about the consequences, that the word has lost all meaning and they all just sound like idiots to me.
My parents got extremely angry and said that my attitude is doing me no favours and thereās a reason no one is on my side and no one is willing to forgive or trust me. They then kicked me out of the house and now my older sister wonāt stop calling me just to yell at me for not learning shit the past 13 years and continuing to disrespect family, especially my parents. Iām just exhausted and I need to know (at least temporarily) if Iām the bad guy here,
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!šš
spoiler alert from 2024: it feels the exact same,
but in all seriousness thankyou to everyone who has enjoyed, liked and maybe even subscribed in the past 6 months it has been an amazing run so far and I'm not giving up anytime soon.
and a massive thanks to all my new subscriber from the last 8 days (on the 23/12/23 (8 days ago) I said thanks for 2000 subs, WE JUST HIT 4000!!! you are all amazing)
There is much more to come in the new year stay awesome!!šš
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