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âWe got married in under 3 monthsâŚâ
He followed the strategy.
Used the cheat sheet.
Knew what to look for.
And what to avoid.
And when he met her â it was different.
The meetings flowed.
The questions made sense.
They both felt seen.
No confusion.
No delays.
No stress.
They got married.
And Alhamdulillah â theyâre thriving.
Thatâs what happens when you vet with intentionality and guidance.
PS: If you want a system that shows you exactly how to find and vet the right personâŚ
Check out the Marriage Vetting Blueprint đ galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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Many people are planning for the wedding⌠not the marriage.
They know the venue.
The flowers.
The guest list.
But they donât know:
â How their spouse views children
â What their prayer routine is
â If they even want to live in the same country
And after the ceremony?
Reality hits.
The disagreements start.
The disconnection creeps in.
The masks drop.
And they realiseâŚ
They planned for a wedding.
But not for a life together.
If you want to avoid that outcome â and start your journey with clarity, compatibility and confidence â then click here to learn more about the Marriage Vetting Blueprint.
đ galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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You showed up to the marriage meeting confident.
You asked all the questions in my free question âcheatsheetââŚ
And nowâŚ
Youâre married.
And itâs not what you thought.
Because hereâs the part no one talks aboutâŚ
Itâs not just about asking the right questions.
Itâs about understanding the answers.
You asked, âDo you pray?â
They said yes.
But now youâre married and realise their prayer is lazy, rushed⌠barely present.
You asked about their goals.
They said they want to grow in deen.
But now?
They donât even open the Qurâan.
Itâs not about what they say.
Itâs about what they mean.
You need a system that helps you interpret the signs, not just the surface answers.
And most importantlyâŚ
You need a strategy to spot the signs before you say yes.
Click the link below to learn the framework Iâve developed after 20+ years of counselling Muslims like you:
galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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Youâre Not Unlucky. Youâre Just Unprepared
Asalamualaikum wa rahmatulahi wa baraktuh...
Maybe youâve had a few meetings.
And they didnât go anywhere.
Maybe people say youâre âtoo pickyâ or ânot readyâ.
But the truth isâŚ
You just havenât had a strategy.
Because no one taught you how to prepare.
How to present yourself.
How to guide the conversation.
How to spot red flags early.
Itâs not your fault.
But it is your responsibility now.
The difference between being âsingle and frustratedâ or âmarried and fulfilledâ is one thing:
A strategy that works.
Click here to learn more about the Step-By-Step framework Muslims are using around the world to get married to Pious spouses in under 8 weeks >>>> galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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"She rejected me⌠because I didnât want a big wedding."
You sit down.
Everything is going well.
Same goals.
Same understanding.
Same vision.
But then you tell herâŚ
I want a small, simple Nikkah.
At the masjid with some family.
And she paused.
She didnât like that.
She wanted an Instagram moment.
A full-on event.
Music, cameras, and free mixing.
And I get itâŚ
Everyone wants their wedding to be memorable.
But surely you wouldnât want your marriage to be built on fitnah⌠right?
Because whatâs the point of spending ÂŁ20,000 on a wedding that starts with disobedience?
The Prophet  said the best weddings are the simplest.
âŚAnd simple doesnât mean boring.
Simple means blessed.
You wonât lose barakah from not having a fancy venue.
But you might lose barakah by choosing culture over deen.
Check out my NEW YouTube video where I discuss this in more detail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Dnqt...
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How many meetings until you finally ask the real questions?
You can ask: Whatâs your job?
Whatâs your dream city to live in?
What are your hobbies?
But if the marriage ends in regretâŚ
None of those answers will matter.
Because hereâs the truth:
Marriage meetings are NOT interviews.
Theyâre vetting sessions.
And if you donât ask questions that reveal values, character, and deenâŚ
Youâll walk away thinking you found âthe oneââŚ
When really⌠you just found someone whoâs good at small talk.
Don't let surface-level questions lead to a lifelong mistake.
Start asking what actually matters.
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Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
Letâs be honestâŚ
Youâve had conversations.
Youâve joined apps.
Youâve asked the âimportant questions.â
Youâve even had people suggest someone to youâŚ
But nothing clicks.
Itâs all either awkward, unclear⌠or you find out months in that theyâre not who you thought they were.
Itâs frustrating.
Itâs exhausting.
And for many, it leads to giving up altogether.
But you know what?
Thatâs because no one ever taught you the process.
They told you to âlook for deenââŚ
But they never told you how to spot red flags that wear Islamic clothing.
They told you to âask the right questionsââŚ
But they never told you how to interpret the answers.
They told you to âmake istikharaââŚ
But they never taught you how to investigate first so your istikhara isnât based on a fantasy.
Thatâs why I created the Marriage Vetting Blueprint.
To give you the tools, the framework, and the clarity you need to find a pious spouse â without wasting time, compromising on your values, or falling into sin.
Itâs a complete system built from years of experience working with brothers and sisters across the globe.
And itâs helped countless people get married in under 8 weeks.
If youâre tired of confusion, and ready to move toward a pious, meaningful marriageâŚ
>>>> Click below to join the Marriage Vetting Blueprint and change your life today, insha'Allah.
galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
Talk soon,
Your brother,
Gabriel
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âMarried for 3 months⌠Now heâs lazy and smokes we*dâ
The truth isâŚ
Many Muslims today donât see the danger that lies ahead when they donât take the marriage process seriously.
Which means when theyâre getting to know their potential spouse, they assume everything is fineâŚ
They think that just because their conversations are flowing, or because they âget along,â it must mean theyâre a good match.
But hereâs where the problem startsâŚ
A brother and sister who had known each other for four years finally got married.
âŚand later came to me for help when things started falling apart.
They thought they had it all figured out.
But within just three months of living together, reality hit hardâŚ
đ´ The brother was lazy; he had no drive or ambition.
đ´ He barely read Qurâan and wasnât consistent in his salah.
đ´ He wasnât the leader she expected him to be.
And the worst part?
These were all things that could have been spotted before marriage⌠if they had the right strategy.
But like many others, they asked the questions THEY thought were importantâŚ
Rather than the questions that have been proven to work.
Click the link below to learn how you can get married to a PIOUS spouse who you have chemistry with, IN UNDER 8 WEEKS:
galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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đ Why You Still Might End Up in a Disastrous Marriage EVEN If You Ask All the Right Questions â ď¸
Donât be this person when it comes to finding a spouseâŚ
Youâve watched my videos.
Youâve read the posts.
Youâve saved all the right questions in your Notes.
...And youâre ready for the marriage meeting
You ask confidently:
âWhatâs your relationship with your family like?â
âWhatâs your stance on gender roles?â
âDo you want kids?â
âAre you open to polygamy?â
âWhat does a day in your life look like?â
You're ticking all the boxes.
It feels like youâre doing everything right.
But hereâs the part no one talks about...
Asking the right questions means nothingâŚ
If you donât know how to interpret the answers.
Because when someone says:
âIâm working on my deenâ What does that mean, practically?
Is it just âintentionsâ? Or actual habits, learning, growth, and structure?
When they say:
âIâm open to polygamyâ â does that mean next month?
Next marriage? Never unless the first fails? How emotionally stable is that?
The issue isnât your confidence.
Itâs your understanding.
And thatâs where most people fall short.
Which means...
You feel peace in the moment â but confusion a week later.
You think it went well â until misaligned expectations crush the spark.
You thought you were clear â but you werenât.
Because clarity doesnât come from asking a list of questions.
It comes from knowing how to decode the answers.
To read between the lines.
To understand what someoneâs really saying beneath the polished words.
And that skill...
That wisdom...
Is what most never learn⌠until itâs too late.
Click the link below to learn what these answers ACTUALLY mean and cut down the time it takes for you to get married to a pious spouse IN HALF:
galromaani.com/marriagevettingblueprint
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Your wedding day is over.
The guests have gone home.
And now itâs just you⌠and her.
The moment youâve been waiting for.
But suddenlyâŚ
It hits you.
You have no idea what to do.
Should you talk? Should you joke? Should you just go for it?
And they're thinking the same thing.
The worst part?
You donât want to mess this up.
Because the first nightâŚ
It sets the tone for your entire marriage.
But letâs be realâŚ
Confidence without knowledge is a disaster waiting to happen.
Thatâs whyâŚ
If you want a first night that is not awkward, not rushed, not forcedâbut insteadâŚ
A night that builds trust.
A night that brings you closer.
A night that starts your marriage right.
Then you need to understandâŚ
The Art of The First Night.
In this guide, youâll learn:
â
How to break the ice naturally without awkwardness
â
How to create emotional connection before anything physical
â
The exact steps to make the first night smooth, memorable, and blessed
Because this isnât just a night.
Itâs the foundation of your intimacy, your love, your future.
Learn more about the Art Of The First Night >>>> galromaani.com/artofthefirstnight1
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In the name of Allah, The Most Gracious, The Most Merciful. All praise is due to Allah who has sent us His messengers and the guidance from Him, for whosoever wants to walk the straight path. And we cannot will unless He wills. This is a humble attempt to help clear some misconceptions about Islam, and answer some of the most common questions and attacks.