s- so sploshing is where someone um is really into like, it was kind of described to me as like you what if you make like a beautiful cake and then um decided to like you know, take your pants down and sit on the cake and you would get an erotic charge out of that and then maybe you decide that fool around in a cake or in a kind of we- pudding wet kind of wet food like substances um and I thought wow I mean how does that, how does that even where in your subconscious does that start? did you accidentally, were you a kid and accidentally like fell into a cake not wearing a diaper like I don't know I have no idea how this stuff happens but um...