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This statement presents narcissists as emotionally stunted individuals, comparing their mindset to that of a two-year-old. It suggests they lack fundamental cognitive and emotional abilitiesāsuch as reasoning, negotiation, cooperation, empathy, and loveāimplying that their behavior is driven purely by self-interest and an inability to engage in healthy relationships.
The second part describes how this emotional immaturity manifests in daily life: through ultimatums, demands, greed, manipulation, tantrums, and silent treatments. The phrases "I WANT" and "GIVE ME" reinforce the idea that narcissists function from a place of entitlement, much like a child who expects the world to cater to them without reciprocation.
While this perspective aligns with descriptions of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), itās important to note that narcissism exists on a spectrum. Not all narcissists are completely devoid of reasoning or cooperation, but their ability to engage in these behaviors is often self-serving. The comparison to a two-year-old is a strong metaphor, emphasizing emotional underdevelopment rather than a literal cognitive impairment.
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The discard by a narcissist is a calculated and premeditated process rather than a spontaneous decision. Narcissists often begin detaching emotionally long before the outward signs of trouble emerge in the relationship. This detachment is deliberate, allowing them to prepare for their exit while maintaining the illusion of normalcy. They may appear attentive and engaged outwardly, but internally, they are withdrawing and strategizing. This duality creates confusion for the partner, who remains unaware of the impending breakup. The narcissistās ability to mask their intentions highlights their manipulative tendencies, as they prioritize controlling the narrative over emotional transparency.
By the time the discard occurs, the narcissist has not only prepared themselves emotionally but has also crafted a justification for their actions. This serves two purposes: to protect their image and to shift blame onto the partner. This preemptive strategy often involves weeks or even months of planning, allowing them to appear as the "victim" or the one forced to leave due to their partnerās perceived flaws. The deliberate nature of this process underscores the narcissistās lack of empathy and their need to maintain control, leaving their partner blindsided, confused, and often questioning their own worth. This calculated approach to discarding reflects the self-centered and emotionally detached nature of narcissistic behavior.
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Healthy relationships don't begin quickly and with a lot of praise and presents. True love develops gradually, and two individuals are amazing both together and apart. Narcissists fabricate "a you and me against the world narrative," which is alluring but unrealistic given that you will also have friends, family, and kids. Avoid falling for lovebombing, which usually involves the narcissist replicating your preferences and you falling in love with your own characteristics.
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This is what boundaries look like...
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Answer these five questions before commitment...
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