Divorcing a narcissist? Get ready for parental alienation
Divorce coaching is the only way to stop playing defense
Many lose in divorce before they even say a word. Want to know why?
Divorce coaching doesn’t fix your marriage. It helps you face the truth
Is narcissism a diagnosis?
How Parental Alienation Looks
Your divorce is not gossip. It’s a battle. Your battle.
Going through divorce?
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One thing that comes in abundance during divorce? Wrong advice.
Never give up - There's a trail we must follow
Trust me on this one, your resilience will increase 100 fold after divorce.
What does your life canvas look like after divorce?
What is your hero's journey?
I can say things that used to bother you will no longer.
So you tried your best to keep the marriage together, it did not work and divorce happened.
Folks who study psychology would say that divorce is a good time to start integration and healing.
The real purpose of divorce is to start your journey towards individuation.
There's no question about it: there is no greater test than a high-conflict divorce.
Is it time to find your authentic self?
After divorce is done with, you will find the world is not as bothersome as it felt before.
Well, why not?
It is time to paint a new begining.
What if you had to go through all that chaos to tap into that inner wisdom you didn't know you had?
What it is your heroes journey?
Self-awareness and integration
It's all too easy to get lost in a bad relationship, separation marks the beginning of a new you.
It's human nature that we learn the most about ourselves in the midst of chaos
Self discovery is a thing
Exploration of the shadow in divorce
It's not all doom and gloom in divorce
Lets bring back the conversation around individuation after divorce
There is much inner work required during and after divorce
There are great possibiliites aftere divorce
What to say of inner conflict in divorce?
What if all the divorce chaos was meant to happen?
Be prompt in your decisions
Using the improper conflict resolution during divorce is extremely costly
Not only hard decisions but decisions must be well timed during a divorce.
The many ways to conflict resolution
The onset of litigation is the beginning of a campaign
Avoid protracted litigation at all costs
Divorce litigatioin and settlement
Know thyself and your spouse
Nothing wrong with pondering.
The more you "Win" in a divorce, the more you lose!
At the bare minimum, speak with someone who's been there, done that.
There is no such thing as "winning" in a divorce
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About
Hi, my name is Oscar; I am a divorce coach whose divorce took 5 years; dealt with 8 different lawyers, went to court 4 times, and self-represented in 2 of them.
During my journey, I saw two therapists and one psychologist, and they could not help me. They had no idea how to help a man going through a divorce.
I got to see things in Divorce Corp that I cannot unsee but can surely talk about.
The entire experience motivated me to become a divorce coach and help others. I published a book and blog often.
Divorcing a narcissist requires far more than mechanical legal paperwork; it requires nothing less than mastering The Art of Divorce.
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