Here are some of the crimes which Fathers do everyday across the globe:
1) Female Foeticide.
2) Female Infanticide.
3) Domestic Abuse.
4) Child Marriage.
5) Forced Marriage.
6) Honour Killings.
7) Sexual Abuse.
To all the victims of paternal abuse, I hold space for you this father's day. I know it's a terrible day and a terrible space to be in, but it's okay. This day shall pass too. Sending a big virtual hug to all the victims out there.
Like every year, I urge you all to spare a minute to pray for all the girls who were rxped and assaulted by their fathers in the past year and many of those, are no longer with us. Most recent (reported) case: timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/court-sente…
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To everyone lonely this Mother's Day, I hold space for you. A space you should've gotten in your mother's lap but couldn't. Here's a quiet and safe place, feeling the vacuum of your heart.
I don't know you and you don't know me. But I know the amount of pain you're holding in your heart while the world celebrates their beautiful mothers, you feel ugly for not being able to 'value' yours.
When a mother fails, it's her failure, not yours. May you never fall weak and never blame yourself. Stay strong, today and everyday.
You know you can contact me anytime, always available to listen to everyone's rants.
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TW: Sexual Harassment & Violence Against Women
This women's day, as you people must've read in news, two major incidents took place. One was the gang rxpe of two tourist women, one of them being an Israeli. Another was the rxpe of a woman by a cop who had invited her on the pretext of women's day celebrations. Mind you, these are just the major "highlights" of women's day, and we've no track of how many more such highlights must've taken place.
This video I'm attaching is one I found on my home page coincidentally. Salute to this woman's sheer courage and determination, something we all lack. She's raised very very valid points. The least I can do is make as many people as I can aware of the fact that some woman has spoken.
In today's age, where women use social media and internet for their safety, why is it that while narrating their stories, women always feel the need to describe their clothing, their time of staying out, their purpose of going out, their companions, and so on? Because that's how women are still raised. If a woman is out, she must have some really big reason to be out. And if she's out, she should be prepared for such things. As if we're absolutely safe at home. For example: timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/vijayawada/45-yea…
What touched me the most about this video was the description she gave of the other women's reaction towards her being openly harassed. Just an "are you okay" statement because those women accompanying her perhaps now find things so very normal and common, that they've perhaps become totally voiceless and in fact even insulated towards these brutal and lecherous creatures named men. And the men? No words.
Signing off
Please be safe and stay alive.
watch video on watch page
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TW: Sexual Assault, Women's Safety, Rxpe.
Not really a planned post. I never post on Independence Day but this year I cannot help but pour my heart out. This is specially linked to the rxpe, torture and murder of a 31 year old MS student in RG Hospital, Calcutta, West Bengal.
Not a single day passes when we don't come across such cases. Not a single day passes when a woman can say "no man violated me today." It happens every single day, all the time, just that some women are more unfortunate than others to lose themselves to male brutality.
This is not even about politics. Just like BJP was silent on Manipur violence, TMC is silent today. All political parties hate women equally, just differ in their ways of expressing this hatred.
Although, seeing the details of this case, and also the manner in which the suspect was arrested, I knew it was a gang rxpe. But yesterday, when I read that 150 g semen was found in her genital tract, I broke down. It was about 8:30 pm and I couldn't control myself.
2 years NEET preparation, NEET, 5 years MBBS, internship, 2 years MS, 36 hour duty, then finished all in one go. As much as I understand this case, it's an internal matter and the culprits involved are the woman's colleagues and/or seniors, one or more of them coming from a strong political background, which is why even construction has so abruptly started there to disrupt the crime scene.
Please stop calling her "Abhaya" women don't want to be strong or tolerant, we want to be at ease. Enough of Daminis, Nirbhayas, Aparajitas, Abhayas.. can we exist?
For more details of the case and updates, you can follow @DrRakshitaSingh who is very bravely protesting and sharing her experiences publicly.
Please stay safe and to any non-female reading this --- congratulations, even after 78 years, independence is just for you.
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To everyone who's been a victim of child neglect or/and abuse at the hands of their fathers, I hold a safe space for you. Please be gentle with yourself and let yourself calm down.
There's nothing that can ever justify punishing a child for your own miseries. It was never yours and will never be your fault.
Like it's a ritual on my channel on this day every year, please hold a minute silence for all the girls who've been victims of sexual violence by their fathers, irrespective of whether the cases were reported or not.
Sending love and healings, please feel free to comment/talk to me privately if you wish to.
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To everyone lonely this Mother's day, my heart goes out to you. May you find your peace and healing. Know that there's nothing in this world you can't achieve. Just keep the patience. I really can't imagine the intensity of your pain, but my heart goes out to each one of you experiencing this.
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Hey everyone.. Just wanted to give an update. I'm again going offline, not completely, but I shall not post anything as such. I know it does sound a bit insane, keeping in mind the irregularity in my content, but I'm really not able to.
An honest confession: most of the videos I could post in the past 1 year were just pieces here and there I struggled to make for like years. It wasn't a consistent conscious effort. But what seems as a small simple video is A LOT OF effort from my end.
I know a lot of people also kind of seek peace in me because of the open platform I've provided for all to our their hearts out. And I'm really not going to stop that because that's really like a betrayal. But just want to say I'm not going to be that much responsive. However, please feel free to approach me, I shall definitely respond as and when my mind allows me to.
I really am in a terrible place, mentally as well as physically. I tried to get back to normal since 2022 was kind to me, but the past 1 year has again made me lose all my faith. Therefore, I'm again putting a pause to my Youtube activities. Thank you so so much for everything: I really am beyond grateful.
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Normal people would never know how beautiful darkness is.
About me:
I only do things which you wouldn't like.