02:11

Sam Vaknin Self IDEALIZATION leads to Self HATRED, depression & ambivalence

01:02

Diana Fleischman BPD are Hyper TRAINERS of instinctive manipulation & control

01:58:08

CONSIDERATION & Fairness Emotions: Envy, Jealousy & Resentment vs Bullying, Exclusion & Dominance

03:23

The Joy of Assholery & Permission to be Asshole #Deefism | CoCoach Trio 1/17/25

03:31

Sam Vaknin Psychosis Deny Inner worlds, Externalize & Project, It's all OUTSIDE of me!

03:09

Stephen Snyder Compassion as "Tender Holding" & Self tracking Incongruent Behaviors

01:30:39

The way out of Self Betrayal? Calling + Conscience Reunion | 10/5/24

01:49:02

Innocence Lost & Found, then Reconnected | 8/24/24

02:39

The only rule is God is LOVE = The will behind creative expression | George MacDonald Lilith

02:22

Annihilation itself is NO death to EVIL | George MacDonald Lilith

01:28:02

Self-Betrayal & Grief Binds vs Investing in Secure Friendships | 11/25/23

00:47

Despair is Enlightenment?! We Need a SADNESS master!

02:24

Male initiations vs Devouring Mother cultures | Marie Louise Von Franz

01:09

"A sparring ground for developmental conflict skills" Visceral Gravitas concept #Deefism

01:52

Zen Sangha and Other people are the HARDEST THING on the path!!

02:12

Untrickery is super tricky 6/29/24

03:25

Gangster Animus possession "You should NOT do that!!!" | Marie-Louise von Franz

03:17

Dealing with animus possessed women? Give a Loving Hug & Strong SLAP | Marie-Louise von Franz

01:46

Sam Vaknin The original baby trauma? Rejection of the Subject Object Split, schism & awareness

03:23

From inner Demon voices to Discovering Agape Love of Father God

04:31

How to be & become a Man? Standing up & Living with Principles | 8/10/24

53:52

Two Brothers Erasing Shame - Deef interviewed by oldest brother DJ 9/9/24

02:33

Stephen Snyder Heart Practices vs Cold Empty Awakenings "Your Outside needs to match your Inside"

02:02

The Self Justification Trap | Zen learnings from Shozan Jack Haubner & Brad Warner

01:17

Michael Taft A good teacher Slices thru Spiritual EGO precisely, easily & regularly

02:19

Nick hijacks the theme! Deef failed as group leader redirected to Deef vs John | 8/10/24

02:08

Mark Stavish Life is WAR ... on emotions (and humanity)

01:50:47

Emotional Maturity | Adult Leadership vs Peer vs Peers endless competing | 11/11/23

02:51

Sam Vaknin The Narcissist mishears you as an negative Inner voice, Intrusive Voice, bad object

01:45:56

How Codependents DISOWN their POWER? Defending against NEGATIVE IDENTITY! 8/25/22 #vgcommunity

02:11

George Atwood Pedophile moral outrage example

01:37

Dave Snowden Causal model assumptions and Dialogic methods don't work

01:46

The feelings time travel trap

02:17:39

Context blind Fragmentation and the 3 THOUGHT disorders | 8/31/23

01:36:25

Mercy vs Justice | Sad & Mad Baby Act-Out TRIGGER-fest | open dialogue group 5/22/21

02:26

Sam Vaknin Exposure Therapy to Confront and Disarm Trauma Triggers

02:26

Sam Vaknin How to be a Good Enough Mother

03:31

Sam Vaknin Three Roles of a Good Enough Mother

02:02:25

The Three TOXIC Defenses: Comfort Conformity & Certainty | BPD, NPD & Codep simplified 9/3/22

01:35

Dr Robert Glover What is Integration?

01:36:25

Softening a Rigid Toxic SuperEgo & Re-Owning Humanity 8/6/22

02:12

Your Public Self, Social Identity is negotiated between both Conformity & Nature 9/3/22

04:37

Robert Glover Common Childhood Triggers - from Fearful Reacting to Responding to Needs

02:22

Inside Out Abstract Thought Land 4 Stages = Fragmentation Deconstruction 2-Dimension Non-Figurative

01:13

The Thought Disorder Infection trap!! A Belief Bubbles B Language C MEANing 8/31/24

02:04:28

DENIAL on steroids! It's the Trickster Archetype sabotages & pulls all the strings! | 6/29/24

03:02

Madness is the abyss! It's the experience of Utter Annihilation - Psychosis | Dr Lionel Corbett

02:54

Shame "The Whole World has seen that!" A Dense, Heavy GUT, Vice Grip | 10/7/21 Aniekan & Nechama

03:35

Schizophrenic healing - the right interpretation Awakens them! Revella Levin

02:10

Spirit Seers & Listeners = What's the Message??? Gogo Ekhaya Esima

02:54

Earl Hopper Failed Dependency = Fission Fragmentation vs Fusion Confusion - Endless Oscillating

01:59

Earl Hopper The Unconscious manipulation of Judgment Norms

03:09

Investigate Your Demon Terror Constructs to change & dissolve them | Psychedelics Roland Griffiths

02:32

Chris Williamson "Crank on Confirmation" Reality is Unfair! Others don't have to play by your Rules!

04:43

Dr K emotionally bullies Destiny & bulldozes over his Dismissive Avoidant Schizoid Social Mask

03:48

Schizoid Counter-dependence = Block Reality vs hidden "I need to be parented!" deep desire?

01:15:53

The Guilt/Control/Anxiety loop vs MORAL INJURY as the core wound | 9/22/22

01:31:31

VG gets Zoom Bombed!!! Attempted conversation with bombers | 5/10/24

00:58

Bill Porter Chinese Chan Relaxed Anarchists vs Japanese Zen Regimented Militaristic

00:57

Moral Outrage is a trick? A clue to self betrayal & loss of agency