Happy birthday to my little boy Cian, who turns five today!
Being Married to a Zambian Woman Be Like — laughter really is the soundtrack of our marriage. 😂❤️
Some people think I look older than my wife! Not sure if I should be offended or just accept it.
Asking my wife why she’s put up with me for over a decade… her answer wasn’t very convincing
Some people think I look older than my wife! Not sure if I should be offended or just accept it 😂
Chatting with my wife about how our children look Chinese, even though they’re Afro-European.
Happy Independence Day, Nigeria! I’ll never forget the wonderful year I spent in Port Harcourt. 🇳🇬
My happy place is with my family - love, laughter, and memories made together.
Being married to an African Queen be like… fielding ridiculous questions about our relationship!
Using my platform on social media to spread positivity, and hopefully make a difference.
Being daddy to a five-year-old be like… somehow he manages to get his finger trapped in a shoe! 😂
Being married to a beautiful Zambian woman is the greatest blessing in my life.
How Zambia is more democratic than the UK or USA — a genuine multiparty democracy with no monarchy.
Zambia Ku Chalo! Even when we lived in Europe, my wife never stopped being fully Zambian. 🇿🇲
Getting pictures with the children is never easy! 😂
In my best David Attenborough voice — watch as me and the kids head for the cold storage unit!
Wedding Party in Livingstoe. Wedding party vibes in Livingstone, Zambia 🇿🇲
I have followers in 244 countries according to YouTube, even though there are only 195 countries!
My Kids Are My Life. Everything I do, I do for them. My kids are my life.
An ode to beauty and to my wife — when God created African women, He made masterpieces .
Bye Bye Fatman: Then and Now. From how it was to how it is — the many faces of Bye Bye Fatman.
My wife recreates my spectacular fall in the garden for the kids — pure family comedy. 😂
When you finally decide to sort your life out and adopt a healthy lifestyle.
We’re in Africa, so where are all the black people?
They say you can’t lose weight just by dancing… and they’re right. Healthy eating matters too!
Dancing for weight loss and transforming my life, health, and wellness one step at a time.
My Formal ApologyApologising to my wife for my role in our children’s inappropriate behaviour.
Viva Zambia, Viva Africa — proud to call this continent home.
Life in Zambia is a balance of tradition and modernity.
We’ve now been in Zambia for over a year, and we’re loving life under the African sun
Mass in Livingstone was in English, but the hymns were sung in Bemba, Lozi, Nyanja, and Tonga.
Going to Mass in Zambia is literally a celebration — the music, the joy, the spirit.
Acknowledging my Privilege as a White Man in Africa
What is my wife saying in her local language? I think it’s Nyanja… can you translate? 🇿🇲
Being Married to an African Woman Be Like…. Beauty, elegance, strength, and love all in one. .
Bye Bye Fatman is a natural in front of the camera — must come from his years as a catwalk model 😉
A Muzungu’s Dodgy Guide to Zambian Languages…. 🇿🇲
Bob Hearts Abishola — Our Story in Fiction!
Being Married to an African Woman Be LikeHair issues… enough said. 😂
Family Day Out at Maramba River LodgeA family day out at Maramba River Lodge in Livingstone, Zambia
Retirement on Hold I was planning to retire early… then my wife discovered the checkout line.
Braid life be like… protecting the braids by wearing a bonnet.
Dealing in Peel Trying to pass off banana peel to my wife — told her it makes you crazy!
Three hairstyles in one week — which one suits me best? 💈
Going Band4Band and having my hair braided like Central Cee. Feeling fresh and loving the look.
When the sun’s out in Zambia, it’s time to head for the cold storage!
An average day in Livingstone — the masquerade dancer doing his thing!
A Family that Dances Together, Staus Together
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About
I’m a 50something man who was morbidly obese. I weighed 186kgs or 410lbs when I made the decision that I needed to seriously reduce my body weight, eat healthily and get fit. I created this channel so that I can seek the support of others, but also as a mechanism to keep me on track during my weight-loss journey. By going “public” I am more likely to stick to the plan, and hopefully receive some moral support from other YouTube users. Of course, I know there’ll be some trolls along the way but I have thick skin!
I am motivated to accomplish my goal not only for myself but also for my wife, Debra, and my children, Bongani, Michael, Emily and Cian.
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