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Anita Bokepalli @UC5H_lY2y5X3zhjy5KTez-vQ@youtube.com

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Self-discovery and Conscious & Joyful Living. The intent of


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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 5 hours ago

Hello my Laddus!šŸ˜˜

How many times have we all heard this - ā€œIt is time to become serious!!ā€, ā€œNo time for being playful, adulting is serious business!ā€

Somewhere along the way, people around us told us to ā€œgrow upā€ and ā€œstop being sillyā€ and slowly we have let the inner child in us die. Whereas this inner child holds the torch of creativity and playfulness - the very things that brighten up life and put a smile on our faces.šŸ™‚ Wouldnā€™t it be a pity to lose that precious smile in the name of ā€œgrowing upā€ and ā€œbecoming seriousā€?

Here are 3 things I do to keep my inner child thriving and my adult-self smiling:šŸ’ā€ā™€ļø

1. Be a little sillyšŸ˜›: As adults weā€™ve all been told to do a certain things, not do a few things, follow rules and so on. But every now and then, I indulge in a bit of harmless silliness to not take my self too seriously and keep the little Anita alive. It truly is liberating!

2. Dance like no oneā€™s watchingšŸ’ƒ: You know kids donā€™t need any function or occasion to dance. They just dance to the rhythm of the music as soon as they hear it. I love doing the same thing too. Moving the body to my favourite music keeps me happy and child-like.

3. LaughingšŸ¤£ and cryingšŸ˜­ my heart out: You know kids love to express their emotions. The beauty of it - they are very natural when they do this. They express the emotion and move on. As adults we tend to live both pain and happiness half heartedly. As I have started my spiritual practices, I have mindfully started to express both pain and pleasure whole heartedly and rejoice in both. This has helped me to not hold on to any of it and be absolutely free!

(PS: Every week I share thoughts and such insights on life in a newsletter here:
anitabokepalli.in/Newsletter )

Love, AnitašŸŒø

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 1 week ago

My top tips for Goal settingšŸŽÆ

Have you started with your goal setting excercise or have you just been focusing on making sure all the festive sweets are eaten? šŸ˜› (No shame, Iā€™m doing both if I am being honest šŸ˜)

To set you up for the best 2 months of the year (this month & next), I am going to share some of my tips on how I do my goal setting. So here it goes -

1. Visualise and Materialise: Yes baby, you can only materialise what you can visualise. Iā€™ve long been setting goals for myself, visualising what the end outcome looks likeāœØļø. Those whoā€™ve been following me for a while mustā€™ve seen my vision boards. (Here is the link to one of the older ones - happy to say all those goals have come true). So start writing/drawing/painting your end goal.āœļø

2. Count and Account:šŸ‘¬ What has absolutely been life changing is to have an accountability partner. It can be your life partner, friend, close family member or anyone who you trust. Make this person set a goal of themselves and voila! Youā€™re both set to smash your goals together. Keep in mind, this person can literally make things difficult for you if you miss out on a particular day šŸ˜‰

3. Reward is an award:šŸŽ Donā€™t be too hard on yourself. Have small rewards that you award yourself every once in a while. This will help you stay the course and maintain the discipline. Mine - dark chocolate or a nice massage for bigger goals!

4. Pedal to medal:šŸ… Consistently pedal your way to the finish line. Itā€™s a marathon baby, so continue your streak and feel the power of momentum coming your way. Make it a success by showing up everyday

5. Look up, but donā€™t give up: Look up towards the heavens or towards someone who inspires you, but donā€™t give up! Youā€™ve got this baby, Iā€™m cheering you on šŸ˜˜

What are some of the ways that work for you? Iā€™m looking forward to read all your responses!

(PS: Every week I share thoughts and such insights on life in a newsletter here:
anitabokepalli.in/Newsletter )

Love, AnitašŸŒø

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 1 week ago

What Would you prefer for a nice winter afternoon with your Chapati? šŸ˜‹

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 2 weeks ago

DONā€™T Wait for the New Year to start THIS!


Hello my laddus!
Are you enjoying the lights and love that this festive season is bringing?šŸ§”
Iā€™m loving every second of itšŸ¤—
As the beautiful festival of light comes to a close, I wanted to remind you of something.

Do you remember, how on a beautiful January morning at the start of this year you made yourself a promise?
A new year resolution to become healthy, or eat better, or workout?
How are you doing on that, my laddu?

Well, in 55 days we have the new year coming upon us and now is a great time to act on those promises.
You know itā€™s easy to wait for that Monday, or that new year but if you really want to make the most of it, every day is a new year for youšŸ§”

So before the transition to winter happens, letā€™s start working on our goals.
Letā€™s take this time of transition to reflect, recaliberate and reorient.
Today, let us spend half an hour to see what best we can do to smash our goals in the next 2 months and come 2025, youā€™d be thanking yourself for a 2 month head-startšŸ§”

Come on my darling, Iā€™m cheering for youā­

(PS: Every week I share thoughts and such insights on life in a newsletter here:
anitabokepalli.in/Newsletter )

Love, AnitašŸµ

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 2 weeks ago

Which of these activities do you find
most relaxing?

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 2 weeks ago

Can You Guess Which Among These is Toor Dal?

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 3 weeks ago

May your inner light always keep āœØglowingāœØ Happy Diwali! ā¤ļø

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 3 weeks ago

This One Diwali Tradition Will Light Up More Lives This Year!šŸŒŸ

Hello laddus!!
How are you all doing?šŸ¤—


Diwali celebrations are in full swing! The house has been cleaned, lights have been installed and yessss, we are attending our own version of Sattvic Diwali partiesšŸ’– Have I told you I love festivals? Haha, of course I have, my dear!


Today I wanted to share an idea with you. This Diwali, whatever you are doing - do for 1 person extra. For example, if youā€™re making Diwali sweets for your family of 4, make it for 5. If youā€™re buying new clothes, buy for 1 person extra. If you canā€™t buy or make extra, you can take out a little money or a little something and keep it aside. And when the time comes you can give these sweets/food/clothes/money to that security guard uncle who stays up in the night watching your society, to the young lady who collects your garbage every day so that your house stays clean, to that little kid playing at a construction site where his mom is working hard to earn the daily wage to feed her family.

My cutie, time and again, Iā€™ve come to realise how blessed and lucky we are to have been leading this life. Chances are, you are reading this on a smartphone or a laptop and you have internet connection, so you like me are super blessed. Of course we have our share of hardships, but wonā€™t it be wonderful if everyone gets to celebrate festivals like Diwali? For those 4 hours, everyone deserves to see the light, and what better, you get to light the lamp of happiness in their lifešŸ§”

Iā€™ve put together gift bundles containing sweets, eats, personal care items, clothes and money for house helps, security guards and other people I meet in the society - and I honestly love seeing their faces light up when they receive this - why? Because this lights up my face and heart!

Iā€™m sure most of you give back to the community already, and this Diwali I would love for all of us to celebrate this beautiful day with everyone around usšŸ§”

Do share pictures and your thoughts on celebrating Diwali, I love reading all your msgsšŸ§”

(PS: Every week I share thoughts and such insights on life in a newsletter here:
anitabokepalli.in/Newsletter )

Love, AnitašŸµ

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Anita Bokepalli
Posted 3 weeks ago

My beautiful laddus, on this Deepavali Iā€™m thrilled to announce that you can now click the ā€œJOINā€ button on my channel and support my content šŸ„¹ā¤ļø

Your joining this ā€œJOINā€ button supports my channel and helps me to continue creating content - my intention with every piece of content is to add a little more value to the world in the ways that I can! šŸ„°āœØ

You can join by clicking here:
youtube.com/@anitabokepalli/join

Iā€™ve created some āœØfunāœØ stickers and badges for us to use here, and canā€™t wait for you to see them šŸ˜„

And if you are unable to join or choose not to, that is totally fine, and I love you and value you šŸ¤— Nothing changes - all the content remains as accessible as ever šŸ˜

Sending you and your loved ones love, light and the warmest of hugs this Deepavali šŸ¤—

Yours,
Anita

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