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Alexis Friedlander @UC4i5SLMmXBUBRrNR0GZmf-Q@youtube.com

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Welcome to my channel! As a former avoidant and now an exper


Welcoem to posts!!

in the future - u will be able to do some more stuff here,,,!! like pat catgirl- i mean um yeah... for now u can only see others's posts :c

Alexis Friedlander
Posted 3 weeks ago

I will be making a series of shorts called 'in the mind of an avoidant' (i.e. myself)

What would you like to learn?

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 3 weeks ago

I often say what holds people back getting back together is... FEAR

You know your ex still has feelings for you, but for some reason you have no news, or they seem distant.

Maybe you are not sure if your ex still has feelings, and his/her behavior is confusing, again, this is because of FEAR.

The fear that they could hurt you more, the fear that things will remain the same, the fear they won't be able to meet your needs.

In this video, I will share the signs your ex wants you back (but is scared(

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 1 month ago

The other day someone commented on one of my video

"Wondering do you have any community in social platforms where like minded individuals can be together, whether trying to get secure, or willing to get their ex back, or even want to move on for a more fulfilling life ahead. Would be very useful for us all. To help each other and motivate each other to grow together. Wondering if we can subscribe into"

Shall I set up something? I am thinking a very low ticket membership ($50/month)

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 2 months ago

I am thinking of changing the content on my channel -> What would you want to acheive?

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 3 months ago

Feeling Lost After a Breakup? You're Not Alone.πŸ‘‡
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Breakups can leave us feeling shattered, confused, and unsure of ourselves. Maybe you've experienced anxious or avoidant attachment styles in your relationships, leading to frustration and exhaustion. You might be wondering, "What do I do now?" or "How can I break this cycle?"

The Good News: Secure Attachment Can Transform Your Relationships.


Imagine a future where you feel confident and secure in your relationships. Secure attachment allows you to build healthy connections based on trust, communication, and emotional intimacy.

This is where our Secure Attachment Coaching Program comes in

Here's what sets our program apart:


- Weekly Live Coaching Calls: Join Elizabeth, your experienced coach, for interactive sessions every week.

- Engaging Q&A Sessions: Get your specific questions answered and receive personalized guidance.


- Unique Breakout Rooms: Deepen your learning and support network by connecting with like-minded individuals in real-time breakout rooms.

- Practical Strategies & Techniques: Learn actionable tools and techniques you can apply immediately to cultivate secure attachment in your relationships.

- Supportive Community: Feel the power of a supportive community where you can learn from and uplift others on their journey.

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 3 months ago

Join me this Sunday at 9pm UK time / 12pm Eastern Time / 9 am Pacific time

I will be talking about my personal journey and explain how you can develop a secure attachment without going to therapy for 10 years.

πŸ‘‡Click below to save the link and join me live

youtube.com/live/PXHakID4zJY

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 3 months ago

There is always something surprising with YouTube. It feels that there is always a negative correlation between the value in my video and the number of views.
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https://youtu.be/AJLe4aorOAo

If you missed my latest video, trust me it's an amazing one.


Actually don't trust me, trust this follower who emailed me this today.

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 5 months ago

Exciting Announcement πŸŽ‰



Over the past few months, I've been pouring my heart and soul into creating something truly special for those of us navigating the complex world of relationships. It's finally ready to be shared with the world.

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alexisfriedlander.typeform.com/to/EPLUPDvr


Join me in our inaugural cohort and benefit from an exclusive early-bird offer here: [Your Link Here]


This is your chance to dive deep into the nuances of attachment theory, uncovering insights about yourself and your relationships that you never thought possible.

Together, we'll explore, grow, and unlock levels of personal and relational satisfaction you've always yearned for.

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 5 months ago

Dealing with fearful avoidant? Let me know your questions and I will record a video about it

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Alexis Friedlander
Posted 6 months ago

I have to confess something...

At the beginning of the year, I had plans to launch new online courses and monetize them. However, after careful consideration, I've decided to take a different route.



The courses will now be available for free on YouTube. This decision aligns with my commitment to accessible and impactful education for all.


My focus will shift towards group coaching and training other coaches, aiming for a more practical and hands-on learning experience.

This approach is designed to maximize the effectiveness of the content and foster a stronger learning community.


I appreciate your support as we embark on this new direction. Your feedback and participation are more important than ever.


If you haven't seen watched this course, have a look.

PS: Let me know a course topic you would like me to develop thoroughly.

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