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in the future - u will be able to do some more stuff here,,,!! like pat catgirl- i mean um yeah... for now u can only see others's posts :c
https://youtu.be/owqDkwC47y0?si=KR51g...
These videos are very helpful. They discuss many topics we love ;
Flattery can be manipulation
Trauma bonding
Manipulation
Lovebombing
Inconsistency
Breadcrumbing
Womenās issues
Control
Narcissism
There are so many red flags š© to look for
Dependability , actions, honesty stability and consistency are essential for healthy relationships
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Believe in someoneās actions, not their promises.
I saw a post by a bewildered young woman whose bf promised things that never transpired. Itās a form of trickery. It s lying
Thatās a tactic of manipulators , they want to control the relationship and they want one foot in the door so to speak, but they donāt want to deliver . This is called future faking and is a form of control to string you along so Beware
Excuses and promises are hallmarks of abusive narcissists who want to retain a relationship but give nothing in return or they only give you their crumbs
Examples are ; saying āIām going to buy you a birthday giftā but then doesnāt. āWe are going to buy a house as soon as we have a strong savingsā ( that time never comes)
āAs soon as my work obligations settle we will take that trip to Italy ā. Then it gets āforgotten or delayedā
The first sentence can apply to any friend you come across. Beware of future fakers!!!
Future fakers are primarily male. Itās entitlement minded
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Positive thinking is hope based and it delays action because you are waiting for something good to happen. Thatās a rather passive stance. It is not pro active
Positive thinking is toxic and it delays critical thinking and action, it is also a form of dismissiveness from people who dont want to help or to be empathetic towards someone whose chips are down, but just advocate positive thinking which in essence offers nothing
Positive thinking advocates are like offering thoughts and prayers. Itās costs nothing - It is nothing
Look for solutions , donāt expect solutions to find you . Be proactive
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Taylor Swift, 35 is catching a lot of heat about being childfree with cats. Trump, other male politicians and small minded people are harassing her for being a possible regretful person as she ages without children.
Why arenāt MALE Vocal artists and wealthy celebrities equally assaulted by their lifestyle choice of not having kids?
Why does the patriarch cast so many judgements if a woman has too many kids ( by bringing impregnated) or by having none? Why is it their business?
This is a lame attempt to control the empowered and progressive , burgeoning matriarch who fights like hell to gain status in a woman - unfriendly environment.
By not reproducing, Taylor and other CFBC ladies are showing strength and power. They are controlling population and taking back the time when women were told what to do and how to act while males were enjoying their freedoms and status.
Having and raising children set women back, crippled their bodies and minds and it allowed men to flourish academically and financially.
Mothers have many regrets over their parenting and even bringing a child into existence , but having kids was not an option for many. Their culture, family or religion dictated their place in life . Women had a place and it was having kids , cooking and cleaning. Basically a 24/7 job with no pay and the patriarch was content. Women bore their kids and stayed home with all of the chores and family demands
Racial issues and protections have surpassed womenās rights platforms. Misogyny is alive and well. The porn industry, vulgarity in music and graphics and texts on t shirts as well as women shaming memes dominate culture
Sexist slurs are commonplace but scant racist slurs are seen these days. Books are removed from libraries for having a minute amount of racism but misogynistic books donāt receive the same shunning .
*the new USA passport has only male created quotes ( men of all races are included) within its pages This is a huge offense ! Women have been a part of history and were politicians and authors too.
Men are scared. They better be. The past that they got comfortable with is changing fast
The old institution doesnāt work. It hurt women deeply. Having kids ruined many women , impregnation is harm.
Letās face it, we all are here today because of rape! Thatās humanityās beginning
On another note, when people focus on someone then you can guarantee that they are making a difference by triggering those in power or the majority!!!!!!
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I wonder if mr. Burke would apply this to the silence of men over misogyny and injustices carried out by the patriarch over the ages?
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What I find so strange about most of humanity is its inconsistency! They resent billionaire companies of their āselectiveā choosing, but they are quick to endorse a wealthy sports team , rampantly seeking and are addicted to R J Reynolds tobacco products ( that is laughing all the way to the bank with mockery towards its consumers & addicts ) , participates in celebrity worship or goes to concerts of the filthy rich.
I find that supporting the tobacco industry is the most degrading of all .
Fellow activists promote ANTINATALISM and many people discount us , but big tobacco legally has to promote its harms and people still donāt listen
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Personally I dont care about someoneās wealth. Itās their business. Wealth is one of those things that is potentially obtainable unlike other things that arenāt ( like oneās genes or oneās health, being born or not & oneās parents )
I have no jealousy of financial wealth , itās of no concern to me . Iām more concerned with harm and the biggest harms are impregnation, conception & birth. High quality products? Are they gaslighting and deceiving their consumers? Of course they are! The jokes on them and their health! diANe 2024
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A couple of memes you may enjoy . Any misogynist, anti - choicer, felon , father , natalist, racist and rapist should not be an American leader
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my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9762-borderā¦
This mental disorder (BPD) is a very crippling dynamic. Its victims often have substance abuse issues , suicidal ideation, toxic unstable relationships, self harm and they systematically self destruct , they may lie , cheat and steal their way in life . They are very inconsistent !
There are so many physical and mental reasons not to reproduce and this is condition a serious reason that nobody should reproduce because not only does the condition affect its victim and creates massive dysfunction , but the victim becomes a poor member of society and harms innocent people , coworkers, friends and family.
Reproduction initiates all harms ~ so please do not have kids of your own ~ Spare all suffering and remain childfree diANe 2024
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www.google.com/search?q=the+oldest+condom&ie=UTF-8ā¦
OLDEST CONDOM CAN BE SEEN IN AN AUSTRIAN MUSEUM
Weāve come a long way to much thinner and sophisticated condoms, they are convenient and affordable, but the consistent comments Iāve heard from men over the years and online is that they dont like them and are non chalant about taking chances because their pleasure is somewhat diminished.
Meanwhile on the other hand , women who take hormonal contraception or pain - inducing IUD s have had to endure a bigger personal cost and risks that far exceed the minor inconvenience of condom use . Doctor prescribed Hormonal birth control pills ( a daily obligation and cost ) or shots ( cost, ouch) carry a risk of strokes , cancer and a plethora of unpleasant side effects for women.
IUDs cause cramping for women , can perforate internal organs or increase the odds of having an ectopic pregnancy which can threaten a womanās life or necessitate an emergency operation.
This makes condoms look very desirable in comparison!!! There are female condoms too
Women are particularly vulnerable because they can get cervical cancer from an unprotected male partner, so condoms serve multiple purposes! Hormonal birth control or IUDs do not protect against STDs that can translate into cancer and death for women or HIV for both genders
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www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2024/09/12/5-effeā¦
This is a great read. If you feel that you are being dismissed , discounted or not believed, consider the persons motives and how and why they may be trying to manipulate your thoughts and to shut you down
You may ask your buddy for the loan to be paid that is long overdue
He may say āyouāre so impatient , why canāt I have more time!ā When you were extremely patient and heās abusing your kindness and twisting your words
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This channel encourages a childfree lifestyle and it promotes ANTINATALISM which is a philosophy that encourages refraining from breeding in order to spare others from guaranteed harm and certain death.
Reproduction is selfish and egotistical. It repeats the vicious cycle of misery we all endure. We didnāt ask to be initiated into existence. We were placed here against our will. Every biological parent a murderer
Donations to support my channel can be made at paypal.me/diANtinatalist