Had one of those great nights with friends—laughing until it hurt, talking about everything and nothing, even dancing a bit at a club. Someone told me “I enjoy how much you laugh.”
Now I’m home, feeling both grateful and a little melancholy. Friends are wonderful, but sometimes you wish you had that one person whose hand you could hold through the music, whose presence makes the quiet even more cozy.
Maybe someday. Maybe with a cat. Or maybe both. 🖤
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Notes to self on Empathy and Boundaries.
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Actor’s Mindset: things I wish someone had told me sooner years ago. And I still need to remember to this day. 🙂 #Actor #SAGAFTRA
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Notes to self
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I love my friends, some are trans and non-binary. They make my world richer, funnier, kinder, and brighter. Grateful to walk through this wild life with them. -Paul Cram
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Online dating profile question?
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"Overthinking feels pretty normal when you do it on a walk, under a night sky, with crickets chirping in the background. So yeah, I do walk a lot at night." -Paul Cram
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This is my ‘album cover for an indie band that only plays in basements’ look
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Welcome to my corner of YouTube—where queer reflections, books, and stories come together with humor and heart. I’m Paul Cram—actor, book lover, and unapologetic scent nerd.
Here you’ll find:
📖 Book Talks – Nonfiction and true stories that spark real conversation.
🍬 Soul Snacks – Bite-sized reflections on queer life, creativity, and finding joy in the mess.
🛏️ Storytime – Narrative escapes, from cozy tales to spooky whispers, often with an ASMR edge.
🌀 Timeline Cleansers – Short, playful breaks to make you smile.
Think of this channel as a queer storytelling lounge—part book club, part confessional, part fireside ghost story. Whether I’m unpacking a provocative book, sharing life lessons, or telling an odd little tale, my goal is to keep you company and spark ideas that matter.
If you’re into queer perspectives, thought-provoking books, and stories that blend humor with heart (sometimes with a spooky edge), hit subscribe and settle in.
20 September 2006