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*âI felt like a complete failureâŚâ*
Thatâs what one mom shared after 9 years of yelling through parentingâand watching her daughter start doing the same.
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Good morning, Coach Wendy Ologe
I want to share what feels like a big win for meâand honestly, it is a big deal.
This morning, I woke up to find my three kids (ages 12, 10, and 5) already in the kitchen preparing breakfast. Afterward, they went straight into their chores, while I simply rested on the couch, asking myself, âIs this really me?â
Not long ago, I would have been all over the place, doing for them what they were capable of doing themselves. But things have changed.
Earlier this year, they created our familyâs values, vision, and mission using Canva, which Iâve now framed. And just recently, they designed our peace rulesâsoon to be framed as well. These are tasks I used to struggle to do on my own, but letting them take ownership has been a total game changer.
Sibling rivalry once threatened my peace, but after teaching them how to resolve conflicts and introducing our peace rules with consequences, they now resolve issues on their own. They even agreedâtogetherâthat there would be no more fighting or arguing over things.
This journey is becoming easier, more joyful, and so rewarding.
Iâm deeply grateful for the gift of TIP.
Thank you so much, my amiable Coach.
~Inner Circle Parent
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Somehow today it was like the whole church wore white! I woke up and saw that Gov Kunle Ologe put his white out and boom I remembered this my white I was supposed to wear at the last masterpiece The Masterpiece Mentorship Tribe... That didn't eventually come out because airpeace moved our flight.. Story for another day.
My baby girl Ruth Ebuka Ede sure this dress came this crisp.
As we stepped into service it was as if the whole church wore a white dress đ from choir to our pastors.. Ahhh
Like white everywhere!
And Yes, wearing white on Easter Sunday carries rich symbolism and is significant in many Christian traditions:
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Symbol of Resurrection and Purity: White represents purity, victory, and new beginnings, aligning with the celebration of Jesus Christâs resurrection from the dead. Itâs a color of triumph over death, which is central to the Easter message.
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Baptismal Connection: In the early Church, new converts were baptized on Easter and wore white garments for a week to signify their new life in Christ. This tradition continues in many churches today.
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Joy and Celebration: Easter is a day of joy and triumph in the Christian calendar. White, being bright and clean, visually represents the joy and glory of the resurrection.
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Liturgical Color: In many denominations, white is the official liturgical color for Easter Sunday and the entire Easter season, used for altar cloths, vestments, and decorations.
Wearing white on Easter is both a personal expression of faith and a way to align with centuries-old Christian traditions.
I Love the Easther White â¤ď¸â¤ď¸â¤ď¸âď¸
Happy Ressurection Sunday
Be Intentional.
ŠWendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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Parenting Lessons from the Bible âWhat Mary Knew That We Often Forget from the Cross (John 19:25-27)
At the foot of the Cross stood a mother watching her son die.
Mary didnât scream.
She didnât fight.
She didnât demand.
She stood with courage, with tears, with surrender.
This wasnât just the end of a mission.
This was a motherâs heart being broken in real time for the greater good.
Easter Isnât Just a Story of Salvation Itâs a Story of Parenting Surrender
Mary raised the Messiah.
She nursed Him.
Taught Him.
Watched Him grow.
Corrected Him.
Protected Him.
But she also had to let Him go.
Let Him walk His journey.
Let Him be misunderstood.
Let Him fulfill His purpose even when it cost her everything.
âAt some point, parenting becomes less about protection and more about permission to become who God created them to be.â
What Mary Teaches Us
1. Youâre not raising a puppet. Youâre raising purpose.
Mary knew Jesus wasnât hers to control ; He was hers to steward.
Parenting means recognizing your childâs calling is bigger than your comfort.
âYour child wasnât born to live your dream. They were born to fulfill their destiny.â
2. Thereâs strength in silent support.
She didnât yell.
She didnât curse Judas.
She didnât rebuke the soldiers.
She stood near her son with presence, not panic.
âSometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is to just show up and stand near without exploding, controlling, or retreating.â
3. Emotional maturity is knowing when to release
When Jesus said, âWoman, behold your sonâ (referring to John), He was redefining relationship and releasing responsibility.
And Mary didnât resist. She accepted.
âEvery wise parent must learn when to hold tightâand when to hand over.â
Emotional intelligence teaches you how.
Easter Is the Ultimate Invitation to Parent Like Mary
To raise your child with vision.
To walk the road of emotional maturity.
To trust God especially when it hurts.
To lead with surrender, not suffocation.
You Can Learn to Parent This Way We Can Show You How
This Easter, donât just celebrate resurrection resurrect your parenting.
Step into a new way of raising your children where yelling, guilt, and fear no longer lead the way.
Join our No Yelling Parenting Class and become the kind of parent who:
⢠Supports without shouting
⢠Corrects without chaos
⢠Guides without guilt
⢠Stands strongâemotionally and spiritually
âYou are also raising a Savior; you are raising someone God sent to change the world. Donât lose them in noise.â
Share this if you believe Easter isnât just about Jesus rising itâs about you rising as a parent too.
Tag a parent who needs this reminder.
Be Intentional.
ŠWendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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Today Engr. Tolulope Ojo and her husband Engr Ayo founders of Relitz Signature Home for all things alternative to screen for your children.
Opened her second shop in Abuja!!
Today, was something to behold indeed .. I watched a woman Iâve mentored for years take a bold step â launching Relizt Signature, second shop her very own creative expression of crafts, LEGOs, and puzzles for children.
But more than a store, itâs a solution.
Screen addiction is slowly killing our children.
Itâs dimming their creativity.
Silencing their curiosity.
Hijacking their focus, their sleep, and even their social skills.
Too many children are being raised by screens⌠while their minds go numb and their gifts stay buried.
But not on our watch.
Relizt Signature is offering families an alternative one filled with intentional play, critical thinking, creative exploration, and real-life engagement.
Itâs not just about toys. Itâs about giving children their brains back.
Their childhoods back.
I am beyond proud not just of the store, but of the journey.
Of the woman who dared to believe that her passion for puzzles and her vision for screen-free play could become a business that matters.
Dear Tolu, this is only the beginning.
Youâre not just selling play materials you are raising thinkers, creators, and builders.
Youâre changing the parenting narrative.
To every parent reading this:
Screens arenât the only option.
Letâs give our children more.
Letâs give them Relizt.
Congratulations, Masterpiece Queen. You were born to build.
The Gov Kunle Ologe and I are so proud of you both đĽđĽ
Indeed The Masterpiece Mentorship Tribe Women have too much doings âŚ
So when you hear masterpiece women with doings is not justt hype oo!
Letâs go!
Meanwhile have you noticed that this Kimono is my signature robe đ¤Ł.. this one was a precious gift from another we mentee at my 40th đĽâ¤ď¸ .. I love ettt
Be Intentional.
ŠWendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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REST!!! Aka Chillđ
A state of mind.. Sometimes we work so much and think that overworking is a great thing.
Do you know that many people overwork so they Dont meet themselves?
This weeks Inner circlee webinar was faciliated by my best girl Etima Umeh while teaching parents in the exclusive inner circle program The Intentional Parent Academy on REST as a Skill said..
âWe fight rest because of trauma of how we are raised.. you keep busy because you are running away from yourself!!!! â
AyayyayayayyađĽđĽđĽđ
You see this statement? It's so real. We were raised in homes where rest was literally prohibited.. Like how do you just REST! So many of us are restless as adults always pressured and panicked.
The thing is I have built REST systems around me! So I am forced to enter a state of rest beyond the physical state of rest is our mindset of rest. I have seen people sleeping yet chaotic.
The right circle of friends is part of your system of REST.
One thing The Intentional Parent Academy does for you is to bring you into your REST! In all areas of your life.
Donât miss outâ secure your spot for 2026:
đ theintentionalparentacademy.com/innercircle2026
Or you can Chat the team on +234 9135714816 to book details for next cohort
The webinars at The Inner circle are not man- made, they are direct of the throw of Grace đđđĽđtrust me when I say so..
Aunty Etima take your flowers đš! We will restđ
Are you RESTING!!?
Chilll ooo!!
Chill is the latest Inner circle Vocab đđ Only yarders will get this joke đ
Anyways see the reviews! They dont lie đĽđĽ
Be Intentional.
Šď¸Wendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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Good evening, Coach Wendy Ologe,
I just wanted to share my little win with you.
My family went on a 5-hour road trip this weekâand guess what? No screens! No phones, no tablets. I intentionally didnât allow my girls (ages 9 and 11) to bring their tablets, and I told them they couldnât touch my spare phone, which they usually use for games.
Before we set out, I told them the goal was to learn as much as possible along the way. First, we began identifying license plates by state and local government areas. Then, I taught them how to observe landmarks so they could describe their location if they ever traveled alone. We also talked about mileage stonesâwhat they are and how to use them to estimate distance to the next town. (Honestly, we realized thereâs so much they didnât know!)
On our way back, we switched gears and started naming different types of vehiclesâlorries, trailers, tankers, etc.âand discussed their uses. We also named the fruits we saw in Yoruba.
It turned out to be such an engaging and educational journey. Unlike before, when their heads would be buried in screens, they were present, observant, and even noticed that we didnât return via the same route.
Iâm truly grateful for this Inner Circle journey. Thank you, Coach Wendy, for equipping us to become more intentional parents. God bless you!
Ronke Adelowo
(Inner Circle Parent)
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Sacrificing your entire life for your child isnât parenting itâs playing God.
Only Jesus gave His life for salvation, and that is enough.
You donât need to give yours.
Parenting isnât about martyrdom.
Itâs about modeling wholeness.
Itâs about showing your child what a fulfilled, balanced, purpose-driven life looks like not abandoning yours in the name of love.
Because a burnt-out parent canât raise a lit-up child.
Your child doesnât need a savior.
They need a parent who knows who they are and is living it.
Happy Good Friday đđ
Be Intentional.
ŠWendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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Dear Coach Wendy Ologe
I just want to say thank youâand share a few of my little wins with you.
This year, I became consistent with my tools, and I can already see how much more supported my children feel. I also now read your books with ease and deep understanding. Iâm currently on my third book of the yearâThe Discipline That Worksâand whatâs most beautiful is how much clearer everything is to me now. I truly believe my healing journey has begun, and the trauma is gradually fading.
I kept my word and gave my children their Twelve Days of Christmas. It was fun, memorable, and brought us so much joy.
One major area Iâm grateful for is replacing reactivity with proactivity. In the past, if someone did something I didnât like, I would react immediatelyâmy attitude would change, and I'd express my displeasure through silence, body language, or harsh tones. The atmosphere in the house would grow tense because everyone would be walking on eggshells, expecting a storm.
But now, Iâve learned to respond differentlyâwith calm, with effective communication, and with honest conversations about my feelings and expectations. No more blaming, judging, or shaming.
A major test came recently when we found out that our foster daughter had gotten herself a boyfriendâsomething completely against our family values, conversations, and plans. The emotional intelligence I applied in that moment surprised even me. We sat her down, calmly had a conversation, explored the reasons behind her choices, and then created a program to help build her mind, capacity, and emotional awareness.
We also set up weekly accountability sessions with both of usâwhere sheâs free to share openly, ask questions, and grow with guidance.
No shouting. No shaming. No guilt-tripping. Just pure love, structure, and discipline. I look back now and ask myself: Na me be this?
Thank you, Coach Wendy, for teaching, guiding, and staying consistent until I got it. It took me a whileâbut Iâm here now.
~ P.O
(Inner Circle Parent)
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CHIDINMA & USIFO: A CASE THAT REVEALS MORE THAN JUST A MURDER
Who remembers this story?
On June 15, 2021, 21-year-old Chidinma Ojukwu, a university undergraduate, reportedly walked into a short-let apartment in Lekki and found the lifeless body of Super TV CEO, Michael Usifo Ataga, in a pool of blood. Now on trial for his murder, her recent testimony paints a picture of a girl entangled in a complicated relationship with a much older man one who allegedly paid her fees and funded her small business.
But if all we see is a âscandal,â a âmurder case,â or even just a âyoung girl gone wrong,â then weâre missing the real story the story of how we are raising a broken generation.
We raise girls to believe that men are saviours.
That a man who âpicks youâ is a prize.
That your worth is tied to how much a man will spend on you.
At the same time, we raise boys to believe that sexual indulgence is power, that sleeping around is manhood, that having a side chick is success, and that their bodies belong to them while girls must preserve theirs.
So when a 40-something-year-old man is âflexingâ with a 21-year-old student, people call it soft life.
When an older man carries a girl young enough to be his daughter, some call it enjoyment.
But when the system breaks down like it did that year, we all act shocked.
Letâs be honest. Weâre raising people badly.
Weâre raising girls for exploitation and boys for entitlement.
Weâre raising daughters to seek validation and sons to take what they want.
Weâre raising children who believe âanything goesâ as long as the bills are paid and the pictures look good.
As a parent coach, I see this pattern every day.
We need to start raising children who understand value, self-worth, respect, and boundaries regardless of gender.
Letâs stop calling dysfunction ânormal.â
Letâs stop making money the moral compass.
Letâs stop selling our boys toxic masculinity and wrapping it in designer cologne.
The Chidinma-Ataga case isnât just about crime.
Itâs a mirror.
And itâs showing us everything weâre doing wrong.
Be Intentional.
ŠWendy Ologe
Africas Number One Parent Coach
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