https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iK6QHQLDAkw
In the world full of toxic relationships, dysfunctional households, growing poverty and depression, we start losing hope. I am here to tell you that it does

https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/family/how-to-stop-enabling-grown-children-and-why-its-important/
Parental enabling is common. In July 2020, 52% of US adults aged 18 to 29 lived at home with their parents, up from 47% a few months prior. While the COVID-19 pandemic significantly impacted this phenomenon, other factors were involved beforehand. It can be normal for a parent to want what's best for their children throughout their lifetime.

https://thisgratefulmama.com/2015/03/06/expecting-a-convenient-child-is-like-forcing-a-square-peg-to-go-through-a-round-hole/
Perhaps the square peg needs to be modified into expectations a child can actually meet. We need to honestly ask ourselves if our expectation is setting our child up to fail. And to be gracious enough to stop when the answer is yes. When their behavior isn't convenient, we need to determine if what we want them to do is necessary.

https://ideas.ted.com/how-to-raise-successful-kids-without-overparenting/
Here are five tips. 1. Give your kids things they can own and control. "Enlist the children in their own upbringing. Research backs this up: children who plan their own goals, set weekly schedules and evaluate their own work build up their frontal cortex and take more control over their lives. We have to let our children succeed on their own

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-parenting-playbook/202401/how-to-raise-emotionally-resilient-children
3. Demonstrate positive outlets for emotions. For example: listen to music, sing, cry, laugh, share your feelings clearly, change your perspective, change your scenery, exercise, etc. This gives

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2011/10/12-ways-to-mess-up-your-kids/246806/
2. LIE TO YOUR CHILD. A simple but extremely important rule of thumb in child rearing is "Don't lie to your child.". For example, telling your kids that the family pet has gone to a farm

https://psychcentral.com/health/tips-for-raising-resilient-kids
10 Tips for Raising Resilient Kids. Defining resilience for parents. Avoid catering. Leave room for risk. Allow problem-solving. Teach them to 'fish'. Ask 'how' vs, 'why'. Empower vs. enable.

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/01/24/how-todays-parents-say-their-approach-to-parenting-does-or-doesnt-match-their-own-upbringing/
Overall, roughly as many U.S. parents say they are raising their children similarly to how they were raised (43%) as say they are trying to take a different approach (44%). About one-in-ten parents (12%) say they're neither trying to raise their children similarly to nor differently from how they were raised. More from this survey: Parenting

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/raising-kind-kids/202310/parents-dont-control-the-outcome-but-still-matter-a-lot
Parents Make a Difference But Don't Control the Outcome. More than a half-century of childrearing research tells us that children from all backgrounds are most likely to thrive on a combination

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/whats-parent-do/202203/how-raise-resilient-kids
Source: Joon Care. An important part of the process of raising resilient kids is reframing our own parental perception of our teens' stress. As a parent, you may feel overwhelmed by the amount

https://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2018/02/14/584275859/the-key-to-raising-a-happy-child
Feeling in control of your own destiny. Let's call it "agency." "Agency may be the one most important factor in human happiness and well-being." So write William Stixrud and Ned Johnson in their

https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=tips-for-raising-resilient-kids-197-28588
Help your child set goals. Promote realistic goals in school, sports, and life in general. Teach children to work toward goals one step at a time—small steps can develop confidence and resilience. Build connections. Take time to eat and talk together as a family. Encourage your child to make good friends.

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/01/parenting/raising-resilient-kids.html
Model behaviors for your kid. Part of teaching your child to be resilient is first projecting resilience yourself. "You're on a plane, there's turbulence — you don't look at the guy next

https://www.biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/2015/08/03/15-wisdom-principles-on-deciding-when-to-stop-having-children/
A godly attitude about children—that they are a blessing—is an important precursor to making the decision to one day stop having kids. In Genesis 1:28, God says to Adam and Eve: "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.". God commands us to have children.

https://www.regain.us/advice/how-to/how-to-stop-enabling-your-grown-child/
Speak to a therapist. Ideally, when adult children return home, it's only for a short time to help them get a fresh start. You may need to let them know this upfront. Communicate that the end goal is for them to move out on their own again at some point. Consider establishing a timeframe for how long they need to stay.

https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/practical-ways-to-raise-confident-kids
4. Your feelings are worth being known. Children who can be their true selves will grow in self-confidence. Always encourage your children to show how they are really feeling. When children are upset, they can work through it if their feelings are validated. So be a listener rather than a teacher.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/being-your-best-self/202103/14-strategies-building-confidence-in-your-children
I know you could do it!". 10. Focus on effort rather than results. The more you and your child do, the greater the chance that you and they will feel personally proud and strengthen the idea

https://www.nestedblissfully.com/prevent-your-child-from-becoming-a-people-pleaser/
People Pleasing Behavior in Children. While there may be plenty of reasons for being a people-pleaser, the foremost one is the lack of parental attunement during their childhood. You see, when parents are in-consistently available to their children, the child tends to be a parent pleasing child as a tool to maintaining a connection with parents.

https://stemeducationguide.com/ways-parents-can-raise-better-kids/
Image Credit: Shutterstock. Teach your little ones the art of empathy. Help 'em understand how others feel and why it matters. Encourage 'em to lend a helping hand or do something nice for someone. When they see you being all compassionate, they'll follow suit. Discipline With Love.

https://www.goodto.com/family/how-to-raise-resilient-kids
Our experts give guidance on raising resilient kids, and share 15 signs to look out for, that your child is already showing resilience. We will signpost parents to further experts in the field, and places to get more information on shaping resilience in children. How to raise resilient kids: 8 expert-backed tips 1. Build trusting relationships

https://www.happierhuman.com/enabling-grown-child/
Behavioral therapists call it taking accountability for your actions. Accepting your missteps, and owning up, is often the first step to positive change, healing, and recovery for relationships affected by enabling and codependency. #3. Tell Your Child NO. People-pleasing is at the heart of enabling behaviors.

https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/sleep/settling-routines/responsive-settling-at-6-18-months-reducing-settling-help
At 6-9 months, you can also start to gradually and gently reduce the responsive settling help you give your child. When you reduce settling help, your child is likely to fall asleep sooner. Your child might also be more likely to fall back to sleep without your help when they wake in the night. This is good for your baby and good for you

https://www.choosingtherapy.com/how-to-stop-enabling-your-grown-child/
Shifting the boundaries and expectations within the relationship puts them in a better position to create healthy boundaries with their own children in the future, allowing for greater self-efficacy and competence in all parties. 4. Here are ten tips to help parents enabling their grown children learn to stop: 1. Learn to Say "No".