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Date of upload: May 14, 2023 ^^
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I am a Dutch lady from the Netherlands. And married to an Iraqi man. We have 2 daughters together. โค. I think all people are different. No matter where we come from. I don't like games and I don't like to be played with.
I am a convert to Islam. And made it very clear to my husband, when I got to know him, that I wanted to get married. I told him: If you love me, then you will marry me. This is also what a Morrocan female friend advised me to do. She told me: Test him by demanding marriage. And if he truly loves you, he will marry you. 3 weeks later we got married. I am happy with my husband. โค
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I am european, atheist, has tattoos, working for a bank with 2 kids. All haram in one person ๐
. I met an arab men, his Familie denied to get us married because of my kids and the european background. He was fighting with his Family because he was sure that its working out with us. We got married in the end. Now his family loves me and my kids more than anyone else๐๐ช๐ฌ
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i don't believe in sexual relationships before marriage , i also dontdrink, i don't smoke etc . Recenty an Arab guy ( from Tunisia)approached me for having a date and learning about all this he looked surprised and told me i have a Muslim womans mentality .I took it as a compliment( i thought he meant it as a compliment because he told me he is traditional )Im a Christian and quite conservative ( not a prude, i dont judge others for their lifestyle ,i have mine and i believe we can all co exist) I thought he will be respectful. We had a date and i made sure he understood my decisions and i also told him that i expect to get married sometime .. so my intentions are ... geting to know someone with this intention on my mind. I dont intend to have sex as i want to have after marriage. He seemed o.k with that ...then he wanted the second date to be in his house. I told him that i dont go to other men's houses who are not relatives or who are not married (so their wives or other females would be present etc.)He obviously had something alse in his mind and he told me that i shouldn't be so traditional and that he wants to change my mentality because i have to be more crazy and that he likes non muslim women because the are crazy and he dislikes Muslim women because they are boring, they overthink and they are not hot enough . ๐ณ
I was like ...no way ...not only you are disrespecting me... you are disrespecting your mother your sister and every woman in your country your faith ( that you told me it matters to you )and your ethnicity .Im sure your parents would be proud . He was trying to persuade me that its about having fun and i don't know unless i try etc and that Greek women are hot and than im not really Greek
( i was thinking ..... i heard that Muslim men have to respect and not be controlled by their impulses and urges. Maybe you are not really Muslim )
Of course they will be not a 2 date ...never .
I would say that propably he was a leftover .No woman in his country wanted him and he tried his luck with foreign women ๐
.He didnt find them boring( he probably deluded himself into believing that they are boring just to bring them down if all Muslim women he met considered him as a low value man and rejected him ) He just couldn't attract any and with that attitude i wouldn't blame them for rejecting him ๐
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i'm a Dutch woman and I love Arab men. Most of them has a natural beauty. But it's not only the outside but the innerside is most important. People in the West mostly date before marriage. Not everybody want to marry. This is to see there is a match between them.That is a huge difference with the Arab culture.
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I'm a quite white-passing๐ฑ๐ปโโ๏ธ textbook middle eastern man of Kurdish๐น๐ฏ roots and im attracted to women that fit the latina type (women of ๐ป๐ช๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ท๐ต๐น etc.) not the nordic blonde beauties or my middle eastern beauties.. Sometimes stereotypes of certain people are incorrect๐
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In the west men still have to do family interviews with the family. Itโs not like we all donโt check the paperwork of who are children are getting married with. Just saying this out of frustration because non western ppl think we donโt have conservatives out here and we do. We have multi lifestyles of all spectrums
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Even with my experiences, I still feel fragile and unprepared. I started getting into dating a year ago and still donโt know how to feel. If my dad were still alive, there were a lot of situations I could have avoided.
I came from a life with little experience of men and was sheltered. I left Christianity at age 21 and didnโt start dating till age 23 (now 25).
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I'm so disappointed. I envisioned something potentially real with a guy from Iraq. Unfortunately, before even meeting in person, he woke me up at 4:00. After that, I got asked for pictures. I thought, "A selfie?" I sent a few. I then got asked about a body picture. I told him that I was hoping to meet someone that looks for more than just a body in a person. So, I moved on, and decided not to meet up at all. It's very sad how people stereotype & assume that all Western women are easy. I come from a strict family background, and also have to seek approval from my dad. So, that was a very disappointing experience. I actually found your channel while trying to learn more about Middle Eastern men since I thought he would possibly be good. We share the same or at least similar beliefs. So, I thought we'd be on the same page. But it's what it is... It's important to know culture, but also to realize that people are people at the end of the day... And, you have to ask questions to figure out if a man is worth having even a coffee with. ๐
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Hey! I'm very interested in these topics. One question I have is, if Arab men marry young, people tend to grow apart or change as they age. What does a man do if what he was happy with at age 20 is not what he's looking for at age 30, etc , but you don't want to hurt the woman or children?
Also, married women are not supposed to converse with other men if unnecessary... Does this rule apply to men also? If yes, then how does a married man come across a potential second wife in Islam? Does this mean married men are allowed to talk to other women?
What does a Muslim man really think when a woman says she doesn't want to share him with another wife?
I hope all my questions make sense.
Thanks in advance!
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@ZadeZenmOm
8 months ago
Why would you want to hurt a woman virgin or not ๐ข
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